I wouldn't stand ya up, lets turn lesbian..the hell with these men!

Both sounds like miscommunication..although the second one sounds like he didn't make up his mind yet the first one sounds a bit weak minded if that's all the conversation was.

I don't get coffee shops. I hate coffee.

I don't mean any offense to anyone on here... however I am hoping that some men my age will learn something from this thread! or any age if you are doing these things!

and the third and fourth?

You should be an anti-feminist! The feminists are the primary culprits for the wussification of men.

and they ***** cause so many do!

thanks for that excuse!

I've dated 28 years olds that don't do what you described.

It's not an age issue; it's an integrity and manners issue.

Somethings wrong with that picture

Reminds me of a story. One day I finished early from work(1pm) and I had girl who wanted to meet with me. So she tells me let's meet at this ____ coffee shop, since you are coming back from work that way, and I'm going home and it's our way for both of us. So I end up sitting in the coffee shop, she shows up and orders a large coffee . I didn't get any, because I drank a gallon already in the morning and I kindly refused and I hardly ever eat donuts, so I get a water.

So we start talking, and the whole thing starts to become like a job interview, I kid you not..she is continuously asking questions and it's not even a date anymore, but "she is asking" and "i'm answering" while I can't even stop her...so after 15 minutes..she gets up and tells me, "It was a nice meeting with you, thanks for stopping by, but I just don't think you are the man I'm looking for"...so she turns and walks out the door.

I'm standing there with my arms a bit spread wide and my mouth is still open and my eyebrows on my forehead and looking at the coffee lady behind the counter who knows me a bit, since I buy my coffee there every morning.

So I walk out and shaking my head and smiling with a WTF on my face..she is looks up and also smiling and shaking her head..and then I ask her "Is she a typical local in this town"?

She goes, "I have no idea, I only work here, I live in another town".

And that's my horror story about coffee shops, and every time anyone mentions having the date in a coffee shop it kinda gives me some goosebumps.

I'm tired of men who can't get up the nerve to do anything. Or men who are so indecisive that nothing happens.

I met someone earlier this year for a date. I decided where we'd go. Afterward, he asked me out again, so I told him to let me know where he wanted to go. A few days later, he asked me what I wanted to do. I told him again to let me know where he wanted to go, as I wanted him to step up and make a decision this time (he refused for the first date). We picked a day to go out and he was going to let me know. Never heard from him. When I asked why the day after, he said I never told him where to meet me.

Then last week, I actually got stood up.

That being said, I don't think all men are like this at all. I'm just tired of the flaky ones.

Coffee schmoffee!!

I went on a date last week for the opening of Knight and Day. We got there early and played video games for 45 minutes!!

I played Ms. Pacman and Space Invaders! I kicked azzzz BTW!

Buttons, my date was 25 and he called in advance to ask me out; he picked me up – already bought the tickets via Fandango; paid for everything at the movies; and opened doors – full etiquette. We went to eat after the movie – except I paid for dinner because I like to share expenses. We had sushi and sake and laughed our butts off. He even sent me a text after he dropped me off and thanked me for dinner and said he had a good time. He called the next day and asked me out for Sunday.

Fun date and with a great guy – with balls – old enough to know better but still young.

What if you have one testicle?

A ball less man...Wouldn't that be considered a woman?

I'm glad to hear someone's having fun dates.

Emily, it was the first date I had in 8, yes, EIGHT months!!

Aww. It sounds like a great first date, though. So that's awesome.

Don't worry, when we go to Europe together, I will be in control anyway, since you don't speak the language. You just sit there nice and pretty ..and you may ask questions and I might answer them, you just enjoy the show.

Sounds like he's having a hard time finding time in his schedule to get away from his wife... Lol!