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Topic: What are you
Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 11:17 AM
looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?

Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 06/29/10 11:22 AM
I'm happy either way

no photo
Tue 06/29/10 11:23 AM
I'm happy right now the way I am. I don't have to be in a relationship. I'm just enjoying meeting new people and being friends with those I already know. Would I get into a relationship? Sure, if I meet someone I want to be with.

mbcasey's photo
Tue 06/29/10 11:27 AM
Basically been alone all my life. Want companionship and finally meet someone who will love me and accept me.

hmlover's photo
Tue 06/29/10 11:38 AM
It's all about companionship for me, which includes all of the other things you mention. Sharing anything and everything, and knowing that person wants to share her life with me just as much.

OKCUTIE67's photo
Tue 06/29/10 11:51 AM
A relationship to me is having a companion, best friend and lover all rolled into one. flowerforyou

horzman's photo
Tue 06/29/10 11:56 AM
although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone.

I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa.

from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough.
a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her.
of course Sex and romance are very important too.

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:01 PM

looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?

Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?


All of the above. I stopped all that and spent 11 years taking care of my boys. It's me time now...and I have a need and want to share my heart, I'm a better person when I do, if that makes sense.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:12 PM

I'm happy either way

flowerforyou I knew you'd say that. :tongue:

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:13 PM

I'm happy right now the way I am. I don't have to be in a relationship. I'm just enjoying meeting new people and being friends with those I already know. Would I get into a relationship? Sure, if I meet someone I want to be with.


I would have guessed that about you as well. flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:15 PM

Basically been alone all my life. Want companionship and finally meet someone who will love me and accept me.


So, you don't like being alone. I think a lot of people feel that way. I am kind of different in that I do enjoy my alone time more than most. I think I'm a little too independent. ohwell

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:16 PM

It's all about companionship for me, which includes all of the other things you mention. Sharing anything and everything, and knowing that person wants to share her life with me just as much.


Sounds like you are looking for more than companionship...more like a deep connection with someone as opposed to someone to keep you company.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:17 PM

A relationship to me is having a companion, best friend and lover all rolled into one. flowerforyou


Sounds nice. Any luck coming close to finding that?

OKCUTIE67's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:17 PM


looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?

Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?


All of the above. I stopped all that and spent 11 years taking care of my boys. It's me time now...and I have a need and want to share my heart, I'm a better person when I do, if that makes sense.


I think that makes perfect sense! I feel the same way...that I am a better person when I share my heart and love someone with all of it!

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:18 PM

although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone.

I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa.

from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough.
a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her.
of course Sex and romance are very important too.


You bring up some very interesting points. Especially about being off balance. I actually feel very balanced and complete when I am single.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:19 PM


looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?

Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?


All of the above. I stopped all that and spent 11 years taking care of my boys. It's me time now...and I have a need and want to share my heart, I'm a better person when I do, if that makes sense.


Yes, it makes sense and you will find what you are looking for. flowerforyou :heart:

mattsk1's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:21 PM


although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone.

I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa.

from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough.
a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her.
of course Sex and romance are very important too.


You bring up some very interesting points. Especially about being off balance. I actually feel very balanced and complete when I am single.


Balance = comfort zone

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:22 PM


Balance = comfort zone


Not the way I define it.

Seakolony's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:22 PM
Right now I do not think I am looking for anything. Am more actually thinking of leaving everything and making a fresh start..........seems like the time for me.

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:23 PM
I'm used to be single now after 5 years of it so right now just a friendship would be nice flowerforyou

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