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What does Goof want? What is he looking for? Hmmmmmm. I bet alot of people wonder this. Cause it appears that most think I don't take anything seriously. Well.....here goes. I want a woman who makes me stop dead in my tracks everytime I see her. I want that one woman who is who she is, and doesn't pretend to be someone else just for my sake. She will get my humor, will not agree with me unless she thinks the same way. She won't argue with me just to have a flippin argument. She will feel ten times better when she sees me after a long day at work. She will laugh at something stupid I will do (cause I know I will do stupid stuff) But most of all.....I want a woman who flat out discovers that after a couple of dates that she wants to be with me. Only me. And that hopefully we will mesh our lives together for quite a long time. Until I find that, I am happy with being single. You have to make the most out of life. And single or not, you have to enjoy it. Life would be better with a woman like I described. But until the day I meet her, I am happy being a single Goof. *swoon* 
Oh joy! I made Melody "swoon".  
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looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with? Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single? So i can have someone to cook for me 
Oh shiit ... i might get it now for that comment   
Hey Luis...long time my friend. You look very happy... 
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although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone. I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa. from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough. a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her. of course Sex and romance are very important too. I don't agree that men or women are not complete without the other. I certainly am a complete person. When meeting new men, I want them to be complete as well. Not to feel that they are incomplete until they find someone to be with, therefor they have to be in a relationship. you know if Sex is what we are after, Sex is easy to get, but there is much more to it than that,during college throughout my 20s, I would bounce a club to another from a woman to another, i got all the sex I wanted and more, but after time it became boring and empty, something was missing. I am not saying I cannot function without a woman, I am saying life is one dimension without a relationship and true love. I know exactly what you mean by feeling unbalanced and like life is one dimentional without someone to take care of that also wants to do the same for you. Being in a good relationship means you have someone to make beautiful memories with and you will comfort each other when life is rough. It's the anticipation of seeing each other everyday after work. It's sexual satisfaction and falling asleep in the arms of someone you can't wait to see again in the morning. |
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So we're not giving the most popular answers here, but I have to agree with you. I don't like being single. I'm fully functional, go to work everyday, pay my bills, feed my critters, take care of all my responsibilties, I've even come out of my breakup funk enough to go out on the weekends and have some fun. But I get the most joy in my life from giving to and taking care of a good man. I love cooking him a homemade meal and seeing him enjoy it. I love taking off his work boots and washing his sore old feet and watching his eyes roll back in his head as I rub them with lotion and make him feel better. I love running into a t-shirt while I'm out shopping and bringing it home to him because it just fits his personality. I love finding just the right presents and taking the time to wrap them up real pretty and hiding them until that special occasion. I know exactly what you mean by feeling unbalanced and like life is one dimentional without someone to take care of that also wants to do the same for you. Being in a good relationship means you have someone to make beautiful memories with and you will comfort each other when life is rough. It's the anticipation of seeing each other everyday after work. It's sexual satisfaction and falling asleep in the arms of someone you can't wait to see again in the morning. Exactly! I don't think it could be said any better than this... |
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you know if Sex is what we are after, Sex is easy to get, but there is much more to it than that,during college throughout my 20s, I would bounce a club to another from a woman to another, i got all the sex I wanted and more, but after time it became boring and empty, something was missing. I am not saying I cannot function without a woman, I am saying life is one dimension without a relationship and true love. Whoa! If you really think life is one dimensional when you are single then you might consider developing other interests. I always hear people say, "Looking for someone to complete me." We should be complete ALONE and being in a relationship will compliment another person's life - not complete them. I would never rely on another human being to complete me or add dimension to my life. I think people get lost in relationship and lose their identity. I completely agree about random sex being empty!
Melody, you're very independent and able to live life happily without someone else. There are a lot of other people out there who need someone else to make them happy. I'm not sure if they lose their identity while in a relationship, or don't really have one when they're out of a relationship either since they're just not happy with life unless they're with someone. I could never get involved with someone like that. |
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although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone. I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa. from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough. a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her. of course Sex and romance are very important too. I don't agree that men or women are not complete without the other. I certainly am a complete person. When meeting new men, I want them to be complete as well. Not to feel that they are incomplete until they find someone to be with, therefor they have to be in a relationship. you know if Sex is what we are after, Sex is easy to get, but there is much more to it than that,during college throughout my 20s, I would bounce a club to another from a woman to another, i got all the sex I wanted and more, but after time it became boring and empty, something was missing. I am not saying I cannot function without a woman, I am saying life is one dimension without a relationship and true love. I know exactly what you mean by feeling unbalanced and like life is one dimentional without someone to take care of that also wants to do the same for you. Being in a good relationship means you have someone to make beautiful memories with and you will comfort each other when life is rough. It's the anticipation of seeing each other everyday after work. It's sexual satisfaction and falling asleep in the arms of someone you can't wait to see again in the morning. I see it completely differently than that. I don't want to be with someone that I have to take care of or someone. I want to be with someone who I'm with because I want to be. And who is with me because he wants to be, not because he needs someone to take care of him. As for making beautiful memories, that can happen with lots of people. Friends and family, not just a boyfriend. |
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I'm sorry, I think you misunderstood me. I'm not talking about having to take care of someone. I'm saying that I enjoy being considerate of the needs and desires of a man I'm in love with. I anticipate his needs and find true joy in fulfilling those needs without having to be asked. I listen to those little side comments that he makes about the things he likes and love surprising him with them later. I do not want a one sided relationship, I give as I want to recieve. I love being with a man who appreciates all I have to give physically and emotionally and does the same for me. I'd much rather be with a guy who occasionally surprises me with a cd because he heard me say I love a song, for instance, than to be with a guy who brings me flowers every payday out of habit which eventually feels like an obligation. When a couple is in love they listen to each other and want to make sure all of the other's needs are met, that's what caring for each other is all about. Love is that you want to do it, not that you have to do it.
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I'm sorry, I think you misunderstood me. I'm not talking about having to take care of someone. I'm saying that I enjoy being considerate of the needs and desires of a man I'm in love with. I anticipate his needs and find true joy in fulfilling those needs without having to be asked. I listen to those little side comments that he makes about the things he likes and love surprising him with them later. I do not want a one sided relationship, I give as I want to recieve. I love being with a man who appreciates all I have to give physically and emotionally and does the same for me. I'd much rather be with a guy who occasionally surprises me with a cd because he heard me say I love a song, for instance, than to be with a guy who brings me flowers every payday out of habit which eventually feels like an obligation. When a couple is in love they listen to each other and want to make sure all of the other's needs are met, that's what caring for each other is all about. Love is that you want to do it, not that you have to do it.  Beautifuly put...
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All those things and more........and I found it!!!!
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I'm sorry, I think you misunderstood me. I'm not talking about having to take care of someone. I'm saying that I enjoy being considerate of the needs and desires of a man I'm in love with. I anticipate his needs and find true joy in fulfilling those needs without having to be asked. I listen to those little side comments that he makes about the things he likes and love surprising him with them later. I do not want a one sided relationship, I give as I want to recieve. I love being with a man who appreciates all I have to give physically and emotionally and does the same for me. I'd much rather be with a guy who occasionally surprises me with a cd because he heard me say I love a song, for instance, than to be with a guy who brings me flowers every payday out of habit which eventually feels like an obligation. When a couple is in love they listen to each other and want to make sure all of the other's needs are met, that's what caring for each other is all about. Love is that you want to do it, not that you have to do it. You didn't really have to re-explain what you meant. What works for you will work for you. It's just different for me. It's less about taking care of someone and buying presents for them and more about just enjoying the person I'm with, no matter what we're doing. |
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I'm not looking for anything as long as we vibe together.. When we see each other our hearts just melt & we start acting stupid.. Yeah that's what i want..
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Someone who is not only a lover and friend, but the best of both, who you want to know, grow, and be more with.
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All those things and more........and I found it!!!!
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looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with? Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single? I enjoy "relationships" as long as they remain real and true. When two people get involved (committed) and start thinking they have a right to change the other person or "fix" them, then the relationship starts to go sour. I am convinced that there is no way to prevent this from happening except to remain single and independent. People who want a partnership need to realize that partnerships are a legal matter. That is what a marriage contract is all about. It is about a partnership that involves certain rules and boundaries. It is about money, property, children, and responsibility. It is a partnership for the purpose of raising a family and building a life together. People usually enter into marriage with blinders on. They don't realize that they are creating a legal partnership and that it should be taken very seriously AS A PARTNERSHIP. |
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