Oh, hush, you wouldn't go anywhere near an ocean to get it even if it was offered, LMAO....and you know it.....

I have had sex in the surf you know...

Nagshead beach (navy days)...nothing like sex and irrational unyielding terror all at the same time. Sobered me right up.

Figures you would get a high off of your own terrors....LOL

yeah we're out here. Women make the greatest friends. A friend will be the one there with you when you're down in the dumps and women are the best people for emotional support. Plus there are plenty of fun activities to do with women outside of sex. Cause believe it or not women can still horse back ride, swim, shoot pool, and many of things that a guy can do with a guy. Pretty much anything a guy can do with a guy he can also do with a woman. And i find doing things as such with women more fun then with guys, cause you are not only messing around playing games but you can make kinda flirty jokes and mess around that way knowing that it will never go any further and or without even trying to push it any further, just fun playing around.

I cannot say that I had an attractive female friend and didn't think about having sex with her at one point or another... and for a little more than few of them we ended up having sex.

As for my not so attractive female friends, I didn't have that desire.

but sex does change the relationship even if was one time and alcohol was involved.

I like what he said

And if your "friend" took your "just playing around" seriously, would it be considered that, it created a visa versa scenario you would not have sex with her?

One of my best friends is a guy, we respect each other completely and I know he isn`t interested in anything physical. So I have to believe that not ALL guys would want to have sex with their female friends. That`s a rare thing to find, as I don`t have any other male friends because they crossed the line at one time or another.

after acertain age we don't give a chit

Not always, and if those are the reasons they are usually pretty apparent within the first few conversations. Men are not puzzles, men are puzzled.

My best friend is a woman, and she is someone that I would never cross that barrier with.

my best friend is a female and I have no desire for her at all. we're just friends. there's no attraction for either of us.
so, it is possible. I think it's rare.


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Nnnno. I had a girl-friend since age 4 until 18 and I never had sex with her , never wanted either. ewww.. she is just like a step sister to me.

and sometimes it turns into more......... after time

This is what guys tell me ALL THE TIME. I tend to disagree because I have strictly platonic male friends, but I can't just dismiss the amount of times I've heard a guy tell me this.

I've wondered about this for some time too before, and if it weren't for the fact that I have a couple of guys who are my best friends, I would not have thought this possible.

Shocker.........I grew up with a guy always thinking of him as a brother......tells me has been in love with me all this time and getting to hard to continue to be my friend because of it.....32 years of friendship....the ball is in my court.....wondering if I should let the dynamics of the relationship change.....either way it looks like I could lose the friendship......am sad at the possibility of losing the friendship.........but not sure if I can change the dynamics within myself or not........is it worth a shot?

1- If the dynamics of the relationship is changeable, and it doesn't work out possibly lose the friendship......

2- If I do not try to change the dynamics of the relationship, I lose the friendship.....

32 years of friendship to lose here......

Geesh how confusing can life get????

for the guys that will **** anything that moves, i doubt there could ever be a platonic m/f relationship that they would be involved in.

for those of us who actually have some self control and standards, it's not so impossible.
i do believe that if the man has any desires toward the woman that there likely will be complications.



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Most of my friends since about the age of 15 have been female and there are very few I felt any sexual or romantic attraction to....

Depends if she's wealthy too