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Topic: Ok so Im plotting....
TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 06/20/07 09:11 AM
How many bridesmaids does a person have in a wedding these days?


What is too little?

How many is too much?


love I need to know for future referencebigsmile

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 06/20/07 09:14 AM
Humm what I have seen in the past is from 2-6 just must be sure whom you
chose does have the money for the dresses and can wear the style you end
up chosing.bigsmile

rivergirl301's photo
Wed 06/20/07 09:20 AM
I think it also pretty much has to match up to as many groomsmen as the
man has. I had to keep adding bridesmaids because the ex kept adding
guys to his side of the bridal party!

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 06/20/07 09:21 AM
I think Chris said he has 6 planned out

I have 4 for sure

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 06/20/07 09:25 AM
the wedding is going to be here in MN though so he doesnt know if all 6
can come from Oregon

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 06/20/07 09:33 AM
If you can tell we have both been plotting...I very much doubt we can
wait 3 years to get married....I have a feeling it will be alot
soonerlaugh :wink:

oldsage's photo
Wed 06/20/07 09:35 AM
Big weddings are nice, but I would say elope & have a big party when you
come back. Friends daughter went to Vegas, had a nice simple wedding &
then a whale of a party back in Minn.
Money was not an object, parents did what kids wanted.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 06/20/07 10:46 AM
Well Im not to keen on eloping. Ive never been married, and I am only
getting married once...so I kinda do want the whole shabang, ya know

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 06/20/07 10:58 AM
don't have to be married to get the shabang.




noway OK....leaving shamefully

no photo
Wed 06/20/07 11:22 AM
Hello,
concerning the amount of bridesmaids, it's how many you want, who are
truly their for your special day, and last but not least responsible in
all aspects of being a bridesmaid.

mrsart4all's photo
Wed 06/20/07 11:32 AM
I agree w/Smile103 completely. Its your day, you get to call the shots!
Make sure its people who are close to you and not ones you feel
obligated to put in the wedding. And remember the true meaning behind
the wedding, don't get too wrapped up in the materialistic things. Good
luck flowerforyou flowerforyou

ajhagena's photo
Wed 06/20/07 11:33 AM
about 342 and a half.

For the optimum wedding.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 06/20/07 12:17 PM
Thanks everyone for your input. Im a bridesmaid this weekend for my
friends wedding and its got me excited thinking about my own:heart:

MicheleNC's photo
Wed 06/20/07 03:20 PM
Twilights-How much fun is the planning? The one good piece of advice I
got about my wedding (from my Rabbi, nonetheless) was that it was our
day and not to worry about what anyone else want or thinks!

Alas, we are no longer together, but it was a great party and my Dad was
there to walk me down the aisle and I never thought he would live long
enough for that. Sigh, I was dancing in the fountain in my wedding
dress!

no photo
Wed 06/20/07 04:35 PM
kkkaaaaaaaaattiiiiieeeee!!! you just need one....me!! j/k...i can share
you i guess:tongue:

no photo
Wed 06/20/07 05:03 PM
The weddings that I have been to have had 2, 3, 4, 3, 3, 4 so I am
guessing 3/4 is a good number LOL

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Wed 06/20/07 05:31 PM
Whoever you choose, how many you choose will be perfect because it was
your choice, and your day...oh and Chris can have some say
so.......laugh

scttrbrain's photo
Wed 06/20/07 10:10 PM
Yes Katie, it is your day. But...it is also his day, his memory also. as
long as the two of you agree and it doesn't cause stress, then go for
it. Just remember, the wedding is only for a few short hours. The
marriage is for far more. Strive for the marriage...the party is no
thang.
It will be beautiful, no matter how small or big. Because the two of you
will be there.
Love on darlin, the two of you are a wonderful couple.
Katflowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 06/20/07 10:11 PM
Bridesmaids?
Already picking bridesmaids?
blushing blushing

scttrbrain's photo
Wed 06/20/07 10:11 PM
Oh...by the way, equal numbers on both sides, up to 12. And if you can
get lots of money... more if you want'em.
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