What kind of signals to you give off to let the opposite sex know you are interested?


For me prolonged eye contact and a smile is your clue to come to my side of the bar and buy me a drink

If it's someone I already know he should get the hint when I spend more than 10 minutes of my day communicating with him... I won't text back and forth all day with just anyone

You can usually tell. It's in the eyes............

When she meets my son in person

Eye contact, smile, and I tend to give a person a nudge on the side of their hip area. Kinda hard to explain the nudge, but it gets the point across when I do it.

I use the indicators also.

I am also very touchy-feely with someone who attracts me. I don't mean gropping but I touch their knee if we are sitting down, or their shoulder, when I giggle at their jokes.

I save the gropping for later!

Hummm pretty much the same way most have said by eye contact and or conversation... Heck I will even come right out and and ask if and when they normal go there and tell them hopefully I will see them next time. Just to give them the opportunity to say something... Lmao I'm not one that has a problem just coming right out and saying something. But.........if they ignore it then ohhh well it will not be mentioned again.

If she gives me a chubby, then yeah....I like her.

I knew you had it bad for me



For me? I get shy and quiet when I like a guy at first but if intrest is 2 sided I'm not too bad at being flirty. I'm pretty vocal with what I want...Most of the time.

if i'm careful not to put a crease through her photo spread…that pretty much says it all!

I pass her a note in study hall.

Apparently the unreadable kind.

Seriously though, I suck at giving off signals so I'm just blunt. I'd just walk up and tell 'em I'm interested.

Of course, it's been years since I've done that but it never failed me once. I either got rejected or didn't. At least I knew and wasn't sitting there wondering if he knew that the come hither look was a come hither look and not a mini-seizure.

Same kind of stuff..texting, calling, emailing, and keep asking about when the person is free to go see something, how is she doing, what is she doing.

Last week I asked someone every day if they are free on the weekend to go somewhere do something or see something, i had a different reply each time and now she is gone silent, wont even reply, even though it wasn't me who made first contact.

See, that's what I hate really bad. Someone come and jump around me like crazy and wants attention, and when finally I give attention they act like they don't even know me. And then there is me floating in mid air, don't know WTF is going on, because I focus on one person and that one person can't make her mind up.

For Ladies: Don't let me hang in ,in mid-air make your mind up before you jump around me for attention. And then later on you just hop back in after many days of silence and wonder about how come I'm such an sshole or won't even reply.

I LOVE your new main picture!!!

Sorry - I had to wipe the drool.

Eyes to eyes, laughter, great convrsation, and a gentle touch......

Quote: Same kind of stuff..texting, calling, emailing, and keep asking about when the person is free to go see something, how is she doing, what is she doing.

Last week I asked someone every day if they are free on the weekend to go somewhere do something or see something, i had a different reply each time and now she is gone silent, wont even reply, even though it wasn't me who made first contact.


Oh I hate when people do that.... I mean don't lead people on like your interested then just go silent it is so rude.

I don't give off signals, and I don't pursue.

I think you give signals and don't even know you are....Your smart, funny and have a great way about you....To me that is a signal...

Also, if now one is going to chase, no one is going to get caught...

So sweet. Ty. I was always shy around the guys and didn't develop too much of a come-hither approach. But I like to be caught!

I have no idea. I would try to give off signals, or even try talking to her, but I have a strong fear of coming off as weird/ackward/creepy. I don't fear being rejected so much, just the way I would come off.

As for me being able to catch signal, she could put a huge flashing neon sign and I would still miss it.

Your main picture looks so "scary"! How come you aren't smiling or looking friendly?