Topic: The ultimate purpose in life.
newarkjw's photo
Sun 05/16/10 07:38 PM


Think of something that makes you happy.

Tell me why you can't be happy.




Two very good questions. I really dig your hat........smokin

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 05/16/10 07:38 PM
I have to agree with some of the others here the ultimate goal is achieving being happy with where and whom you are and learning to enjoying life no matter how much one has or how little..... material things do not make you happy....noway

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Sun 05/16/10 07:44 PM
If you ask someone what they want..they will rattle off numerous things. A new house, more money, true love, a healthy body, happy kids, a vacation, a new puppy...etc. Ultimately if you keep asking questions it will be narrowed down to..because "it will make me happy."

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Sun 05/16/10 07:45 PM
Edited by Tribbles on Sun 05/16/10 07:47 PM
Pause for a second and think. You pay your rent with money, if it wasn;t for money you wouldn't eat. Your car, yeah that's right guess what... money pays for all of that. Western Culture has had it SO good for SO long we tend to take the small things for granted. If I took away your house, food, and car you'd be an unhappy person... That is unless you found "true love aka (a sugardaddy to pay for it all)



You're only foolin' yourself!



... indifferent

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Sun 05/16/10 07:48 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 05/16/10 07:48 PM
It is not money that makes you happy, it is what money can buy that makes you happy.

Money itself is only paper.

If you lived on a deserted island and nobody ever found you, would you be happy with a big box of money? I doubt it because there is nothing to buy with it.


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Sun 05/16/10 07:51 PM

It is not money that makes you happy, it is what money can buy that makes you happy.

Money itself is only paper.

If you lived on a deserted island and nobody ever found you, would you be happy with a big box of money? I doubt it because there is nothing to buy with it.





That all depends... does a brown hair split wider than a blonde hair???

newarkjw's photo
Sun 05/16/10 07:51 PM

It is not money that makes you happy, it is what money can buy that makes you happy.

Money itself is only paper.

If you lived on a deserted island and nobody ever found you, would you be happy with a big box of money? I doubt it because there is nothing to buy with it.




Everything is relative.........smokin

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Sun 05/16/10 08:03 PM


It is not money that makes you happy, it is what money can buy that makes you happy.

Money itself is only paper.

If you lived on a deserted island and nobody ever found you, would you be happy with a big box of money? I doubt it because there is nothing to buy with it.




Everything is relative.........smokin



Can you be more specific?


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Sun 05/16/10 08:08 PM

It is not money that makes you happy, it is what money can buy that makes you happy.

Money itself is only paper.

If you lived on a deserted island and nobody ever found you, would you be happy with a big box of money? I doubt it because there is nothing to buy with it.




Just to futher my point. While you're out in "la la" land imagining far off deserted desert islands, I'll be here in reality living a REAL life void of delusional situations.

newarkjw's photo
Sun 05/16/10 08:09 PM



It is not money that makes you happy, it is what money can buy that makes you happy.

Money itself is only paper.

If you lived on a deserted island and nobody ever found you, would you be happy with a big box of money? I doubt it because there is nothing to buy with it.




Everything is relative.........smokin



Can you be more specific?




Your example was perfect. 10 dollars in the dessert when you are hungry could not feed you. It could at Rallys. Gotta eat...

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Sun 05/16/10 08:17 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 05/16/10 08:19 PM


It is not money that makes you happy, it is what money can buy that makes you happy.

Money itself is only paper.

If you lived on a deserted island and nobody ever found you, would you be happy with a big box of money? I doubt it because there is nothing to buy with it.




Just to futher my point. While you're out in "la la" land imagining far off deserted desert islands, I'll be here in reality living a REAL life void of delusional situations.



That was an example. I see it went right over your head.

p.s. You didn't further your point, you just demonstrated your "superior" intelligence. huh






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Sun 05/16/10 08:19 PM
Edited by Tribbles on Sun 05/16/10 08:23 PM

That all depends... does a brown hair split wider than a blonde hair???


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Sun 05/16/10 08:27 PM

p.s. You didn't further your point, you just demonstrated your "superior" intelligence.


You don't know how good it feels for someone to finally recognize my greatness... For that I am thankful oh wise one... smokin

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Sun 05/16/10 08:35 PM


p.s. You didn't further your point, you just demonstrated your "superior" intelligence.


You don't know how good it feels for someone to finally recognize my greatness... For that I am thankful oh wise one... smokin



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motowndowntown's photo
Mon 05/17/10 04:09 PM
People waste their lives looking for happiness.
If I just had this, I'd be happy.
If I could just pass this class, I'd be happy.
If I could only find true love, I'd be happy.
If I could reach nirvana, I'd be happy.
And on and on.
They forget to breath.
They forget what it's like to taste a really good apple.
They are so focused on finding happiness they forget to live.
Life is to live.
Happiness is a byproduct.

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Mon 05/17/10 05:30 PM

People waste their lives looking for happiness.
If I just had this, I'd be happy.
If I could just pass this class, I'd be happy.
If I could only find true love, I'd be happy.
If I could reach nirvana, I'd be happy.
And on and on.
They forget to breath.
They forget what it's like to taste a really good apple.
They are so focused on finding happiness they forget to live.
Life is to live.
Happiness is a byproduct.


Bravo!!drinker :banana:

msharmony's photo
Mon 05/17/10 05:43 PM



Now here is the biggest secret of all.

If you are wondering what your "purpose" is in this life, I will tell you.

It is to find something to do that makes you happy. That is your ultimate and only purpose.

Happiness is your purpose.

Be happy. That is your purpose.

It is so very simple. Yet most people don't have a clue how to be happy or know how to pursue happiness.



happiness is indeed important,,,,I wouldnt suggest to all people that doing whatever makes them happy should be their purpose though(people are happy doing alot of deviant things )

for me , purpose, relates to how something impacts a greater something

the purpose of a teacher is to teach
the purpose of a parent is to guide and love
as a christian, my purpose is to learn about and glorify God
as a human, my purpose is to be an example to other humans

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Mon 05/17/10 06:09 PM
for me, purpose, relates to how something impacts a greater something

the purpose of a teacher is to teach
the purpose of a parent is to guide and love
as a christian, my purpose is to learn about and glorify God
as a human, my purpose is to be an example to other humans



As long as that makes you happy. flowerforyou

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 05/17/10 06:10 PM

If you ask someone what they want..they will rattle off numerous things. A new house, more money, true love, a healthy body, happy kids, a vacation, a new puppy...etc. Ultimately if you keep asking questions it will be narrowed down to..because "it will make me happy."


Awww well heck those are just the things in life everyone wants.........and too a point those things will make one happy......but to truly smile from within that comes from seeing things in life that happens when others are happy as well.bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Mon 05/17/10 08:09 PM



Now here is the biggest secret of all.

If you are wondering what your "purpose" is in this life, I will tell you.

It is to find something to do that makes you happy. That is your ultimate and only purpose.

Happiness is your purpose.

Be happy. That is your purpose.

It is so very simple. Yet most people don't have a clue how to be happy or know how to pursue happiness. happy



but, I am a Gemini...EVERYTHNG makes me happy...I am into ponding, gardening, sculpting, painting, mold making, salt dough crafting,croceting,etc etc etc...I jump from one thing to another and can't seem to enjoy anything for too long....i get bored.