Topic: What do ladies really want?
Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 04/24/10 10:34 PM
Ladies want you to pay attention....go back and REALLY READ!!!!

Sorry Beeeeeaches.....just posting!




Hahahahaha...eeer...uumoops


scared

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 04/24/10 11:44 PM
Actually there is something that really turns me on...REALLY turns me on when I know he is listening to me. It may not seem like he is at the moment I'm saying something..but later, another day, next week...
he either says something from that conversation, shows up with an item that was bought up during that conversation. That is really hot. There is just something very sexy about the fact that he does listen..and remember. The way I look at it..it cares enough to listen..

Diligent's photo
Sat 04/24/10 11:54 PM
Most women want: a man who earns a good salary, who is reasonably handsome, who is reasonably good in the sack, who is loyal, who would make a great husband and father, who is handy around the house, and who is hung like a thoroughbred racehorse.

I have learned and discerned these things through many years of dating and relationships, BTW.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 04/25/10 12:17 AM

Most women want: a man who earns a good salary, who is reasonably handsome, who is reasonably good in the sack, who is loyal, who would make a great husband and father, who is handy around the house, and who is hung like a thoroughbred racehorse.

I have learned and discerned these things through many years of dating and relationships, BTW.


I too have learned through many years of dating..and your a bit off on a couple things there...since you said most I'll interject.

Salary is not an issue..at least for me. Being a good father is not an issue ..at least for me, my kids are grown up, they don't want any one in my life to be their dad. Being handy around the house would be handy..not mandatory, at least for me.
Being hung like a thoroughbred racehorse is actually frightening, at least for me. Reasonably handsome is way to subjective...at least for me. What I think is reasonably handsome may no be the same for another woman, that would come down to personal preference.
So...that would leave being loyal..yes, I believe we all want that, not just the gals and then the being a good husband..if I were looking for a husband, of course I would want him to be a good one.

Diligent's photo
Sun 04/25/10 12:19 AM


Most women want: a man who earns a good salary, who is reasonably handsome, who is reasonably good in the sack, who is loyal, who would make a great husband and father, who is handy around the house, and who is hung like a thoroughbred racehorse.

I have learned and discerned these things through many years of dating and relationships, BTW.


I too have learned through many years of dating..and your a bit off on a couple things there...since you said most I'll interject.

Salary is not an issue..at least for me. Being a good father is not an issue ..at least for me, my kids are grown up, they don't want any one in my life to be their dad. Being handy around the house would be handy..not mandatory, at least for me.
Being hung like a thoroughbred racehorse is actually frightening, at least for me. Reasonably handsome is way to subjective...at least for me. What I think is reasonably handsome may no be the same for another woman, that would come down to personal preference.
So...that would leave being loyal..yes, I believe we all want that, not just the gals and then the being a good husband..if I were looking for a husband, of course I would want him to be a good one.

Diligent's photo
Sun 04/25/10 12:23 AM
Well, for example, I have discovered that financial means are quite important to today's modern women, (all things being equal). And, some women I knew did prefer things that come in a larger package (ahem). The fact that you are not as selective or are easily pleased does not discount those facts.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 04/25/10 12:23 AM
Walks in...licks eyebrows....walks out

thewaterbearer's photo
Sun 04/25/10 12:26 AM
No issues and a caring personality plain and simple

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 04/25/10 12:36 AM

Well, for example, I have discovered that financial means are quite important to today's modern women, (all things being equal). And, some women I knew did prefer things that come in a larger package (ahem). The fact that you are not as selective or are easily pleased does not discount those facts.


A package the size of a racehorse is physically impossible for a man to even have, and the women I know are not interested in being with any man that for some unknown reason is. Really...stop and think about that one for a minute.

Women my age have our own money..we don't need yours, and men that think women only want their money have some issues to work on. Like Um..trust.

This is the only fact here Dili..it is that you do not know anything about me to make a judgment call on me being selective or not selective. That is the ONLY fact..it is all only opinion.

msharmony's photo
Sun 04/25/10 12:37 AM
the only time money is an issue is if a grown man needs to be financially supported,,, I cant do that


otherwise, money is a non issue... whats important is a best friend who knows when to lead, when to love, when to talk, and when to listen,

no photo
Sun 04/25/10 06:29 AM


I'll take great sex for now. :wink: Some fun dates would be good as well!


and gummy bears and champagne! :thumbsup:


Sounds good to me!

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 04/25/10 11:47 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sun 04/25/10 11:49 AM


Well, for example, I have discovered that financial means are quite important to today's modern women, (all things being equal). And, some women I knew did prefer things that come in a larger package (ahem). The fact that you are not as selective or are easily pleased does not discount those facts.


A package the size of a racehorse is physically impossible for a man to even have, and the women I know are not interested in being with any man that for some unknown reason is. Really...stop and think about that one for a minute.

Women my age have our own money..we don't need yours, and men that think women only want their money have some issues to work on. Like Um..trust.

This is the only fact here Dili..it is that you do not know anything about me to make a judgment call on me being selective or not selective. That is the ONLY fact..it is all only opinion.


Bravo Lori! :thumbsup:

I giggle at some of the notions a few men have regarding women and what SOME women want out of a relationship.

Generalizations are evil anyway but for the few men that buy into their own experiences - and then apply that to the whole world - I feel they are damaged.

The best thing for people to do is approach each new relationship as individually as the new person they are dating.

Leave emotional baggage at the door. winking

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 04/25/10 11:48 AM

Walks in...licks eyebrows....walks out


Joel! You tease! surprised

no photo
Sun 04/25/10 11:50 AM
ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile :banana: :banana: :banana:

heartbreaker123's photo
Sun 04/25/10 07:47 PM

Show 'em the money! laugh pitchfork
grumble u r sooooooooooooooooooooo WRONG hb and u know i am rt:tongue: :angel: waving

nikita5's photo
Sun 04/25/10 09:01 PM
Edited by nikita5 on Sun 04/25/10 09:02 PM
Just someone who treats me like I treat them with honesty,respect ,patience,and love. Apparently that is alot to ask for.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 04/25/10 09:17 PM

Just someone who treats me like I treat them with honesty,respect ,patience,and love. Apparently that is alot to ask for.


Hell Yeah it is!!grumble grumble laugh laugh

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 04/25/10 09:27 PM

ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile :banana: :banana: :banana:


I'm still not sharing the fresh strawberries. Nu-uh, mine!

Glenoran1's photo
Tue 04/27/10 05:22 PM


Just someone who treats me like I treat them with honesty,respect ,patience,and love. Apparently that is alot to ask for.


Hell Yeah it is!!grumble grumble laugh laugh


While it is true there are some rotten apples (both male and female), I think most of us in the 'dating barrel' want someone worthy of our love, trust and respect.

Imagine someone who would be your absolute best friend, in the gender you're attracted to. That person is a joy to be around, has got your back, encourages you when you need it and gives you a verbal 'boot' when necessary. You never seem to run out of things to talk about, and you have a blast doing shared interests together.

Now add a whole lot of love.

Wouldn't you think that's what the vast majority of us are seeking? I do ... and I am.

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 04/27/10 05:46 PM
To sustain a relationship with Tammy

You must:

please me on demand
keep quiet during my soaps and any morning I'm really into Dr. Phil
walk my dog when you hear him whining at the door
cook when I'm not in the mood
pick up after me
keep me in a constant flow of Sam Adams cherry wheat from Friday night till Sunday morn
do not go to the mall with me
never speak during a *****- fest with my daughters or my girlfriends
etc


That's all it takes!:heart: