By all means, speak your mind, that's how people get to know you. But seriously, don't advertise yer a nice guy/gentleman by claiming you are such. Let them see it through your other words.
Just some friendly advice.

Word.

I am what I am...

We do appreciate nice guys and gentlemen, they just so rarely come packaged in the same guy who has complete confidence in himself and doesn't let women walk all over him.

No doubt. There's a WORLD of difference between a genuine nice guy and a doormat.

I understand. I guess you really have to walk on someone to know if they will accept it huh?

umm..I agree with you here....

advertising???I don't think so...

He is putting his real feelings and thoughts about a real life issue ...

and getting known.....

I'm back and forth here and e-mailing....

He is for real.....even behind a monitor screan.....sigh.......

Thank you my friend. And to think you didnt think I was the real deal at first. 1 down the world to go... Im still here.

I wasn't calling sek out specifically or trying to say anything negative about him. I'm just saying that for every guy like sek that might really be, there are a WHOLE boatload that aren't. Even if they tell you they are.
I also speak from experience. I tried throwing the nice guy label out there for a couple or so years in forums like this without taking the time to spread my posts around and get some notice for my character/behaviour. I wanted to throw it right out there, even including it in my profile. When I scratched that, and just let my humour and personality show who I was in the forums, I got a LOT more action in the bullpen, so to speak.
Fortunately, I scored big time when my high school sweet heart found me on another site and told me if I didn't get my posterior to her place pronto, she would come down and drag it back
It was unreal, it was like we picked RIGHT up where we left off 25 years previous. She is literally my female counterpart.
Anyway, sorry for the off topic ending

I hear ya sista....

ur pic thru me off....thought you were a guy..lmao...

need not worry ..I will go change my pic and I will be in diapers again.......

hey that sound fun....they rock ya, sing to ya , let u burp ,puke and fart on ya..and still love ya..gotta love moms and dads.... ok gettin tired silly....

(he IS a guy)

Always go with yer gut instincts, I AM a guy

Exactly. Let others decide how nice you are, rather than telling everyone you're a nice guy. Besides, aren't there better ways to describe yourself rather than saying you're a nice guy?

Well, we could say "hung like a Clydesdale" but that's only gonna attract a certain element

well I'll be damned..miss read again....I'm better sometimes at 5 a.m. with these long paragraphs all smooooshed together...I need glasses to...

Ok.....then I think I will continue to hide behind the Marine Baby.....

sorryyyyy...

I am back to help seaweedon...these people just don't understand us...our gentlemanly ways...they fear what they don't understand...we are true gentlemen

No worries

aaah, to be... Evil wicked mean nasty deceitful ugly bitter and hidious......nobody will "expect" things from me, so i get extra kudos if i save their neck. if i'm pleasant to other entities, they are pleasantly surprized, for being in league with a true monster that is protective and loyal to them against bullies is always a welcome commodity from what they tell me, so i'll continue on the present path for now...(sardonic smiles and laughter)

Brother you are amazing at capturing your inner monster and putting him into words... Once again thank you for your wisdom.

I am truly glad that we are in a league of our own, and that makes 2.