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Topic: The true gentlemen, myth, legend, or just misunderstood?
sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Mon 04/12/10 04:22 PM
I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay. I wonder if the gentleman/nice guy combo tastes good with garlic, mushrooms, and melted provolone? Red wine or white? I prefer sweet wines, so white I would say.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Mon 04/12/10 04:23 PM
I have to confess...until this thread, I had been known as a mean and rotten S.O.B. but now I just feel....reborn...like someone just showed me...the light. I can feel gentlemanly sparks igniting in me...making my nipples tingle...this is a new beginning for me You should try nipple piercings, it helps with the tingle... lol

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 04/12/10 04:23 PM
I have to confess...until this thread, I had been known as a mean and rotten S.O.B. but now I just feel....reborn...like someone just showed me...the light. I can feel gentlemanly sparks igniting in me...making my nipples tingle...this is a new beginning for me You should try nipple piercings, it helps with the tingle... lol Been there, done that

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Mon 04/12/10 04:24 PM
I have to confess...until this thread, I had been known as a mean and rotten S.O.B. but now I just feel....reborn...like someone just showed me...the light. I can feel gentlemanly sparks igniting in me...making my nipples tingle...this is a new beginning for me You should try nipple piercings, it helps with the tingle... lol Been there, done that Ahhhh so we do have something in common brother.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Mon 04/12/10 04:26 PM
Or you might just sleep alone..... Kinda of the point of a dating site don't you think. People are single. Your observations are uncanny....

LeighAnna9 Joined Sun 08/16/09 Posts: 5638	Mon 04/12/10 04:27 PM
I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay. I wonder if the gentleman/nice guy combo tastes good with garlic, mushrooms, and melted provolone? Red wine or white? A nice Chianti of course. A kindred spirit.

LeighAnna9 Joined Sun 08/16/09 Posts: 5638	Mon 04/12/10 04:27 PM
I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay. I wonder if the gentleman/nice guy combo tastes good with garlic, mushrooms, and melted provolone? Red wine or white? I prefer sweet wines, so white I would say. Riesling goes well with everything....

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Mon 04/12/10 04:28 PM
Or you might just sleep alone..... Kinda of the point of a dating site don't you think. People are single. Your observations are uncanny.... Thank you very much. The problem is that the opposite sex seems to have grown an aversion to gentlemen in the last 10 years.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 04/12/10 04:28 PM


darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 04/12/10 04:29 PM Edited by darkowl1 on Mon 04/12/10 04:31 PM
a post i made awhile back... but pretains to here and now.... the way these times are, you will run into shallow people for sure, but there are great people here, too many friends to count,..... and where you are there are many as well, if you look, that are not hung up into this temporary society that is advertising superficial qualities in people....media generalizes!!! i think if you are just yourself......one, the "nice guy" image doesn't apply, because you are behaving in regular terms, how people are behaving to you, and if they behave badly to you, you have to decide how to act. you can change this, by putting their very behavior back in their court, and not lose face with anyone, by diverting the scenario back to their diotribe or rant, such as" wow, you're really having a time of it! if i can help you to get your day to be more positive, well, let me help", and they will respect you, and that includes handsome or pretty parties of both sexes, whether they are bottom-wipes or not, for you weren't nice or mean...just truthful. it will get you respect, and maybe a friend.... these guys we speak of...... being a tough guy to "get chicks" gets you no-where, and usually the wrong "chick" anyway. to get the attention of the right one, back-up your talk, listen, and be a man of action to back up your talk with quiet positive methods to get your respect that you so much seem to desire. "tough guys" i've seen a dime a dozen, and they'll leave the woman hanging everytime when the road gets rough...a STRONG GUY, how-ever, will be there to see whatever it is to the end, and respect will follow, and never does he have to act like a jerk. He's a man's man, and a gentle ladie's man as well. "tough guys" run from STRONG GUYS. unless they have a way to shoot them in the back......but if they do that,,, STRONG GUYS have friends...... so..........................i think you qualify as a strong guy

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Mon 04/12/10 04:30 PM
I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay. I wonder if the gentleman/nice guy combo tastes good with garlic, mushrooms, and melted provolone? Red wine or white? American or German my sweet? I prefer sweet wines, so white I would say. Riesling goes well with everything.... American or German my sweet?

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 04/12/10 04:31 PM
like I said, a gentleman is subjective to the man and to women.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Mon 04/12/10 04:33 PM
a post i made awhile back... but pretains to here and now.... the way these times are, you will run into shallow people for sure, but there are great people here, too many friends to count,..... and where you are there are many as well, if you look, that are not hung up into this temporary society that is advertising superficial qualities in people....media generalizes!!! i think if you are just yourself......one, the "nice guy" image doesn't apply, because you are behaving in regular terms, how people are behaving to you, and if they behave badly to you, you have to decide how to act. you can change this, by putting their very behavior back in their court, and not lose face with anyone, by diverting the scenario back to their diotribe or rant, such as" wow, you're really having a time of it! if i can help you to get your day to be more positive, well, let me help", and they will respect you, and that includes handsome or pretty parties of both sexes, whether they are bottom-wipes or not, for you weren't nice or mean...just truthful. it will get you respect, and maybe a friend.... these guys we speak of...... being a tough guy to "get chicks" gets you no-where, and usually the wrong "chick" anyway. to get the attention of the right one, back-up your talk, listen, and be a man of action to back up your talk with quiet positive methods to get your respect that you so much seem to desire. "tough guys" i've seen a dime a dozen, and they'll leave the woman hanging everytime when the road gets rough...a STRONG GUY, how-ever, will be there to see whatever it is to the end, and respect will follow, and never does he have to act like a jerk. He's a man's man, and a gentle ladie's man as well. "tough guys" run from STRONG GUYS. unless they have a way to shoot them in the back......but if they do that,,, STRONG GUYS have friends...... so..........................i think you qualify as a strong guy Sir I can only tip my hat to you and hope that you were speaking to me with such kind words. Thank you very much.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Mon 04/12/10 04:34 PM
Or you might just sleep alone..... Kinda of the point of a dating site don't you think. People are single. Your observations are uncanny.... Thank you very much. The problem is that the opposite sex seems to have grown an aversion to gentlemen in the last 10 years. They all turned into thespians............

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Mon 04/12/10 04:34 PM
i've found that the guys who stand there and toot their own horns are usually the biggest d1ckheads around. it's those who don't need to preen that reek of class.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Mon 04/12/10 04:34 PM
like I said, a gentleman is subjective to the man and to women. Everything is subjective depending apon your point of view. But I will tell you this. I find that kindness and compassion make being subjective alot easier on the soul.

LeighAnna9 Joined Sun 08/16/09 Posts: 5638	Mon 04/12/10 04:35 PM
I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay. I wonder if the gentleman/nice guy combo tastes good with garlic, mushrooms, and melted provolone? Red wine or white? American or German my sweet? I prefer sweet wines, so white I would say. Riesling goes well with everything.... American or German my sweet? I'm not sure, someone just handed me a glass and I glanced at the bottle and saw the name. It was goooooood.....

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Mon 04/12/10 04:37 PM
i've found that the guys who stand there and toot their own horns are usually the biggest d1ckheads around. it's those who don't need to preen that reek of class. Has it ever occurred to you that this might be the way I really am? or am I just thrown out with the trash... sad...

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 04/12/10 04:37 PM
Did someone say lesbians??? Oh, thespians

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Mon 04/12/10 04:37 PM
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