Me too any e mails welcome ! any ladies in the lower 48 welcome here.

I think women get's pissed with one-liners. Personally, I would say "hi"
back out of respect.

Ocean had some good points

Tom, if you put away the tuba and cleaned those chicken balls off your
chin you might just have a shot with the monkey... :)

Almost everyone here drinks or smokes =(

Don't give up.I only joined a few weeks ago,I'm pretty shy.But now i'm
talking with a few some in my area,some not.It is a good site.

And im sunburnt haha maybe im just irritable

everyone is too young or too far in distance.
but love the site and my friends!!!
they are uplifting and encouraging.
also very funny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Doesnt it seem like everyone who matches your preferences looks like
someone you so wouldnt be good with? Or like total creepers

Yeah u think u have it bad... im sure u havent seen the worst of it
yet.... although i have been inundated with emails, i have found a few
cool friends which i appreciate as well and anything further than that
occurs.... then sobeit....



if i sent 100 emails... i think i have a 10% response .. not bad seeing
that some folks just scan email never really read it.

i feel bad sometime when i dont really get longwinded with my emails ..
i just say what i think at the time and hope it spurs a lil more from
them... ummmm



GO SPURS!!

well....i just tried to email you but im too old it seems

I have found that just randomly e-mailing people on this site doesn't
work. I tried that with a few of the locals and they don't respond.

However, if you post in the forums, put yourself out there, get known a
little bit, you can get noticed. I get LOTS of e-mails here now, and
all of it results from things I posted in the forums. Granted, none of
it is from anybody local, but you never know. Who will sign up
tomorrow? Or the day after??

And a huge percentage of the e-mails I get are from people who never
even post. Must be a whole lot of lurkers out there!

***************RUNS IN,HANDS EVERYONE A PEACE PIPE***********

For those people who aren't getting a response, can you just let us know
how many people you've mailed? Just trying to get a sense of how low
the response rate is.

Also, we're working hard to get more and more people onto the site so
that everyone has more people to interact with in their area. If you
want, you can help us spread the word by telling your friends about
site! The more users we have, the better it is for everyone.

Thanks!

Iv'e only been on this site for a few days but been on other sites.My
problem is im 41 and the 43 year old wemon say im to young and the 38
year old wemon told me im to old. LOL
WHATS A GUY TO DO! aw hell im still happy though I love wemon i'll
just never understand them

i get enough email to get me busy lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Personally, I think it is just being polite to respond to emails - even
to say that you aren't interested.

Yes, we get innundated with them and the scammers are just annoying
but... there are also genuine real people on the other side of the
keyboard.

Posting in the forums allows people to get a sense about your
personality making it more likely that they will respond to an email
without a picture.

I have made some wonderful friends online - and after a year and a half,
I still don't know what some of them look like. And it doesn't really
matter to me. They are friends and I would have missed the richness
that they have brought into my life had I not responded to them.

I guess it depends upon your motivation for being here. If you think
'the one' will fall on your lap and will live 5.7 miles from you then I
can predict your disappointment with some certainty.

If you are here to make friends then that you can do. And you never
know when one will turn out to be pretty special indeed.

Best wishes.

good moring and after noon eaglewoods here i have been on jsh 2 weeks
sat. and i like it .i have 34 friends havent e mail all of them yet but
i will so i hope every 1 has a great friday ..coffee

hey lex great color sign:

ArtGurl

on the money again

I will admit the least everyone could do is respond to there e-mails
even if it is just a thank you for your e-mail. That is better than
noting.


But now on the pic thing. Myself I feel you should at least have a pic
of what you look like in your profile. You say you want them to like you
for who you are not what you look like. I do understand that fully but
why should the ones online not have the same advantage as the ones you
meet in real life. If you meet someone in person do they not get to see
whom they are talking to first? It should be no differnt online. Besides
why sit and talk to someone for a month or so then show them your pic
what if they don't think so after all and boom dam all that time and you
found out in the end it comes down to the pic. Now that sucks. Better to
weed them out early.

But.......... that is only my opinion. I have my pics in my profile just
not as the main one.

Personaly, if things are going a more personaly basis I want to see whom
I'm talking to I have shown what I look like and it is more or less just
being honest with ourselves and others. There are alot that if no pic is
up it stops right there. But that is up to you it does knock your
chances way down without a pic of yourself up.