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definitely,, too much of anything can be bad,, like too much sugar
too much nice can border on seeming desperate or clingy,, the right amount of nice, balanced with self respect and strength,, are much more appealing,, |
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definitely,, too much of anything can be bad,, like too much sugar I really wish people would stop with that " too much sugar " thing. I WORK in the sugar industry and you all are KILLING my job security. LMAO |
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I dated this one girl who said she couldnt date me cause im Too nice. How is that possible. Im not the type of guy that verbally abuses a girl. I can never get mad at a girl. I always get the door for her, compliment her, show her I care for her. I guess Im an old fashioned type of guy. How do I balance it out so im not TOO NICE. It's called a 'doormat.' weakling: a person who is physically weak and ineffectual --I'm actually surprised that Google has the proper definition... http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=define%3A+doormat&aq=0&aqi=l1g-sx1g1g-s1&aql=&oq=doormat+def&gs_rfai= |
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definitely,, too much of anything can be bad,, like too much sugar I really wish people would stop with that " too much sugar " thing. I WORK in the sugar industry and you all are KILLING my job security. LMAO sorry,,lol |
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No girl will respect a guy who is kissing her a** all the time.One compliment per date is enough.One phone call a day two at the most.If she asks you want you want to do don't say "what ever you want to do".Have a game plan.Be a normal guy in the begining.Once you get into a relationship you can be the nice,old fashioned guy that all girls love and she will consider you a keeper.
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No girl will respect a guy who is kissing her a** all the time.One compliment per date is enough.One phone call a day two at the most.If she asks you want you want to do don't say "what ever you want to do".Have a game plan.Be a normal guy in the begining.Once you get into a relationship you can be the nice,old fashioned guy that all girls love and she will consider you a keeper. works for the most part but somewhat a lil off |
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it was just one girl. be yourself and wait for someone who appreciates you.
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Edited by
AGoodGuy1026
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Fri 03/26/10 10:17 AM
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It's a fine art of balancing the knowledge of when to be " nice " and when to be a bit of an ***. Example. I was seeing this woman, and she wanted me to help her move the blinds from the bedroom into the living room. I had no problem with this ( nice ). I had just about finished hanging the first one and she started waffling about if she really wanted them there. I was standing there waiting for her to make up her mind, holding up one end of the blind and a nail in my left hand, holding the hammer in my right. I remained " nice " right up util the point I got tired of her waffling and told her to just " go get the other blind from the damn bedroom ". Now...as I was finishing hanging the first one, she came out of the bedroom...slightly stunned look on her face...and set the other blind on the couch with the words " Ya know...I have never had anyone talk to me like that before. " She gained respect for me because she knew I wasn't going to let her just walk on me. When a woman knows that you are easy/nice....most times, they will become bored with you very quickly. You have to let them know that you aren't a doormat. But you don't have to be a complete jerk to do it. You just have to know when the timing is right. I agree, it has to be real, honest... and not a doormat... another example: Scenario #1 Woman - "Awww, honey -- I broke another nail" Guy - "Awww, honey bunches... are you ok?" Result = doormat and boring  Scenario #2 Woman - "Awww, honey -- I broke another nail"... Guy - "Awww, honey - sucks for you!" *beaming grin*... Result - Independence, playfulness and opportunity for humorous retort  $.02 
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It's a fine art of balancing the knowledge of when to be " nice " and when to be a bit of an ***. Example. I was seeing this woman, and she wanted me to help her move the blinds from the bedroom into the living room. I had no problem with this ( nice ). I had just about finished hanging the first one and she started waffling about if she really wanted them there. I was standing there waiting for her to make up her mind, holding up one end of the blind and a nail in my left hand, holding the hammer in my right. I remained " nice " right up util the point I got tired of her waffling and told her to just " go get the other blind from the damn bedroom ". Now...as I was finishing hanging the first one, she came out of the bedroom...slightly stunned look on her face...and set the other blind on the couch with the words " Ya know...I have never had anyone talk to me like that before. " She gained respect for me because she knew I wasn't going to let her just walk on me. When a woman knows that you are easy/nice....most times, they will become bored with you very quickly. You have to let them know that you aren't a doormat. But you don't have to be a complete jerk to do it. You just have to know when the timing is right. I agree, it has to be real, honest... and not a doormat... another example: Scenario #1 Woman - "Awww, honey -- I broke another nail" Guy - "Awww, honey bunches... are you ok?" Result = doormat and boring Scenario #2 Woman - "Awww, honey -- I broke another nail"... Guy - "Awww, honey - sucks for you!" *beaming grin*... Result - Independence, playfulness and opportunity for humorous retort $.02 Scenario #3 Woman - "Awww, honey -- I broke another nail" Guy - "gee, that's too bad, B**ch! I told you didn't I? Cut them things back! And stop spending $70 a week at the F**king nail salon! Now where the F**k is my beer I axed you to get? 
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" can a guy be TOO nice"
Not to me.... |
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I dated this one girl who said she couldnt date me cause im Too nice. How is that possible. Im not the type of guy that verbally abuses a girl. I can never get mad at a girl. I always get the door for her, compliment her, show her I care for her. I guess Im an old fashioned type of guy. How do I balance it out so im not TOO NICE. depending on what your doing to be nice,yes you can be to nice,sometimes creepy. every one likes to hear compliments that is if there true.every one likes the little things people do for them.and every one likes gifts but you can take it to far. |
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