There was a guy that talked to me two days ago, I responded to his messages. It wasn't on this site, I'm on two sites really. We swapped im account names but I had trouble adding him. I also missed an email that he sent but responded to on site messages all the same.

Then he started sending me messages saying that I ignored him and compulsively asked me why. Yet I responded to all his messages but one.

He im ed me for the first time today and blew up at me saying I never respond and starting accusing me of being too arrogant and thinking the world is going to wait for me.

I was shocked at how obsessive it seemed and by the end of the conversation I told him that he was creeping me out and much too set on accusing me instead of talking so I ended the conversation there and blocked him.


I will stand up for myself when needed but I don't like the way I felt after all of this. I'm pretty upset after that happened and feel invaded on and creeped out... Has this ever happened to you?

YOU have to be SELECTIVE IN TALKING WITH MANY ON HERE,,AS THEIR FREAKIN NUTS....
Don't let one nut case make you think that we our all like him here...

Many good dudes on here and YOU just met a BAD example of the sites worst......GOOD LUCK ON HERE...and keep on being YOU..

Not really a blow up. But, on another site a guy more or less demanding for me to meet him & complaining that I was ignoring him. All this after I'd told him I wasn't interetsted in meeting him.

Consider him as SPAM

"THAT"was"YOU"???????????????????????

nope

not that quick

Hey, you were the azzhole that ranted because I wouldn't meet ya? I should kick your azz!!!

i creep women out all the time

What did I do now?

Next...

happening as we speak,, keep receiving emails from person(on another site), I responded to a couple but he sends six or seven a day and its creeped me completely out and I have stopped responding,,,,

Sounds like Glen close in the movie fatal attraction.He took at as a bad thing.If I had some hot,obsessive,insanly jealous,nympomanic,chasing me all around town I would take it as a good thing!

I've found threats of the electric cattle prod work quite well to keep the creepy ones away. Or castration...

when i first began talking online, stuff like that would really upset me as well. i couldn't believe people could be so cruel and assumptive without having spoken more than a couple of sentences with me. i also couldn't believe that there were people lurking about who were less than sincere.

it's sort of sad in a way, but you'll build up an immunity to these sorts after you've dealt with a few of them.

Too true. Now one laughs and rolls their eyes.

some people are just impatient and when a pretty girl talks to them for the first time they get too excited and scare her off.you can only pity him for being a nut job but dont let that one guy ruin your experience ust blow it off your shoulder and keep it moving and hopefully you wont meet too many of guys like that

Block him and move on. You're not the first person that has happened to and you won't be the last. It's the internet.