Topic: Creepy people
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Fri 03/26/10 08:31 AM

Block him and move on. You're not the first person that has happened to and you won't be the last. It's the internet.


Of course she's not. However, ranting about it can help a bit.

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Fri 03/26/10 08:36 AM
I think it is understandable for a reasonable person to be creeped out by such behavior scared ... chalk it up to experience, and keep your chin up!

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Fri 03/26/10 08:41 AM

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Fri 03/26/10 08:42 AM


Block him and move on. You're not the first person that has happened to and you won't be the last. It's the internet.


Of course she's not. However, ranting about it can help a bit.


Yes, nothing makes a better first impression than a good rant.

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Fri 03/26/10 08:50 AM


There was a guy that talked to me two days ago, I responded to his messages. It wasn't on this site, I'm on two sites really. We swapped im account names but I had trouble adding him. I also missed an email that he sent but responded to on site messages all the same.

Then he started sending me messages saying that I ignored him and compulsively asked me why. Yet I responded to all his messages but one.

He im ed me for the first time today and blew up at me saying I never respond and starting accusing me of being too arrogant and thinking the world is going to wait for me.

I was shocked at how obsessive it seemed and by the end of the conversation I told him that he was creeping me out and much too set on accusing me instead of talking so I ended the conversation there and blocked him.


I will stand up for myself when needed but I don't like the way I felt after all of this. I'm pretty upset after that happened and feel invaded on and creeped out... Has this ever happened to you?



happening as we speak,, keep receiving emails from person(on another site), I responded to a couple but he sends six or seven a day and its creeped me completely out and I have stopped responding,,,,



Block him if you can!

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Fri 03/26/10 08:52 AM




Looking for a dead horse are ya?

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Fri 03/26/10 08:53 AM



Block him and move on. You're not the first person that has happened to and you won't be the last. It's the internet.


Of course she's not. However, ranting about it can help a bit.


Yes, nothing makes a better first impression than a good rant.


And nothing makes a good impression than being cranky all the time. :tongue:

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Fri 03/26/10 08:54 AM
Situations like this have happened to me too. When I first joined I got so creeped out that I didn't come for a long time. Since then if I detect anything mean, rude, he causes me to have a bad feeling...block, block, block!!!!

I think these things have happened to many of us, male and female, there are a lot of creeps out there, trust your instincts, have fun but always remember you are on a world wide web site!

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Fri 03/26/10 08:55 AM




Block him and move on. You're not the first person that has happened to and you won't be the last. It's the internet.


Of course she's not. However, ranting about it can help a bit.


Yes, nothing makes a better first impression than a good rant.


And nothing makes a good impression than being cranky all the time. :tongue:


Better a crank than a wank I suppose.

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Fri 03/26/10 09:00 AM





Block him and move on. You're not the first person that has happened to and you won't be the last. It's the internet.


Of course she's not. However, ranting about it can help a bit.


Yes, nothing makes a better first impression than a good rant.


And nothing makes a good impression than being cranky all the time. :tongue:


Better a crank than a wank I suppose.


I don't know you except for what I see in the forums. You just seem to be pretty cranky or negative a lot. But if that works for you, great.

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Fri 03/26/10 09:08 AM
Edited by CyPoet on Fri 03/26/10 09:09 AM





Looking for a dead horse are ya?

laugh I wouldn't have to look far to find them particular threads hey?Whatever slim chances we all had here in regards to playoff hopes or depth has gone by the boards.Thx! to the cheap blindsided head shot that M.Cook threw on Marc.Savard.He has a level 2 concussion & is gone for the remaining 10 games & any hopeful playoff action.The players assoc.picked-up the rule effective immediately.My thoughts for him & family.Another year bites the dust.ohwell Enjoy the playoffs my friend.NHL Rules!!!!Go Bruins! Godspeed!Cy :smile: drinker

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Fri 03/26/10 10:16 AM
Was on another site, guy immediately asked for phone #. I politely said not interested just got here, new to all this. Got a thread back how stuck up I was! etc, was real surprised. But like you, wrote him back asked how he could say those things when didn't even know me and now glad he did that got to see real side of him then blocked. It's so nice to have the block mechanism for jerks like that, you can put them in their place and not have to deal with them anymore anfter you do. It's happened a few times.

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Fri 03/26/10 10:19 AM

Was on another site, guy immediately asked for phone #. I politely said not interested just got here, new to all this. Got a thread back how stuck up I was! etc, was real surprised. But like you, wrote him back asked how he could say those things when didn't even know me and now glad he did that got to see real side of him then blocked. It's so nice to have the block mechanism for jerks like that, you can put them in their place and not have to deal with them anymore anfter you do. It's happened a few times.


The good thing is these kind of guys usually show how they really are fairly quickly.

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Fri 03/26/10 10:28 AM
Edited by Shasta1 on Fri 03/26/10 10:29 AM
Yea, just from that anyone who contacts me and immed. asks for or gives me their phone # warning lights go on. So..actually, he was very helpful:wink: .

Wouldn't it be great if we had one of those in our outside lives?

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Fri 03/26/10 10:30 AM
Yeah, I've had my share of people giving me a phone number right away and getting angry when I don't call them or don't respond anymore. There are just some weird people out there.

Every once in a while, this one guy sends me the same first email.. then never responds again. laugh

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Fri 03/26/10 10:48 AM
Some people are creeps. I think everyone who's tried dating online has run into their fair share of creeps :/

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Fri 03/26/10 11:12 AM
Have you ever been hit on by swinging couples? If not, then you haven't been creeped out yet.

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Fri 03/26/10 11:18 AM

Have you ever been hit on by swinging couples? If not, then you haven't been creeped out yet.


If you think that's the only way to be creeped out, you haven't seen much yet. laugh

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Fri 03/26/10 11:22 AM


Have you ever been hit on by swinging couples? If not, then you haven't been creeped out yet.


If you think that's the only way to be creeped out, you haven't seen much yet. laugh


Oh my dear, not the only way, but you have to admit it is creepy. Especially when they start describing in vivid detail what they want to do with you.scared

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Fri 03/26/10 11:32 AM
I don't want any creepy person, single or couple, to go into vivid detail about things like that. haha