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Topic: How does a woman measure a man's success?
AndyBgood's photo
Sun 03/21/10 09:57 AM
I am curious to see just how shallow people can be. I am sure I will get a variety of answers of varying degrees of honesty but hey, do not let it be said I ask silly questions all the time. I love myth busting!

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Sun 03/21/10 09:59 AM
Y' mean they look at things OTHER than the job, the car, where they live, and stuff like that ... ? Jeez. Who'da thunk ...

MeChrissy2's photo
Sun 03/21/10 09:59 AM
I measure a man's success by his security in himself and how he treats others. But hey, that's just me.

AndyBgood's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:02 AM

I measure a man's success by his security in himself and how he treats others. But hey, that's just me.


So a man who drives a rolling dent of a car, struggles to pay the bills, tries hard to take care of responsibilities and cannot afford the high life, but is surrounded by people who admire and respect him rates in your book?

74Drew's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:03 AM
who cares?
my level of success is only important to me. if a woman doesn't feel that i'm successful enough, then she can hit the bricks. i'm not here on this planet to flash my accomplishments.


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delilady's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:03 AM
I measure a man's success by his relationship with his family and friends. Material wealth can come and go as can a career. The heart of a man is evident through his personal relationships. JMO

MeChrissy2's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:04 AM


I measure a man's success by his security in himself and how he treats others. But hey, that's just me.


So a man who drives a rolling dent of a car, struggles to pay the bills, tries hard to take care of responsibilities and cannot afford the high life, but is surrounded by people who admire and respect him rates in your book?


Andy, car, bills, house, stuff, all change. Respect and integrity are constant. That is the title of my book.

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:06 AM

I measure a man's success by his security in himself and how he treats others. But hey, that's just me.

Yes, you are so right. His maturity level and, the self confidence he has learned over his lifetime. Kindness, caring for others. Selflessness, patience. Meaning, he has grown as a human being. That is wealth.

AndyBgood's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:06 AM

who cares?
my level of success is only important to me. if a woman doesn't feel that i'm successful enough, then she can hit the bricks. i'm not here on this planet to flash my accomplishments.


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Actually I am fact finding. Like I said I am a myth buster in my own way. trust me. I intend to succeed if it kills me for MY own personal gratification. Still, living in Los Angeles the money does matter. Hell, the illegal immigrant women are the WORST about it hands down. Talk about the Ubergeldjagerhunden!

TxsSun's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:07 AM

I measure a man's success by his security in himself and how he treats others. But hey, that's just me.



drinker

What she said!

AndyBgood's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:07 AM



I measure a man's success by his security in himself and how he treats others. But hey, that's just me.


So a man who drives a rolling dent of a car, struggles to pay the bills, tries hard to take care of responsibilities and cannot afford the high life, but is surrounded by people who admire and respect him rates in your book?


Andy, car, bills, house, stuff, all change. Respect and integrity are constant. That is the title of my book.


Funny, you get that the only constant in life is change! I have seen SO many 'well to do' men become broke and homeless overnight for a variety of reasons and all of them were bad and their fault!

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:10 AM




I measure a man's success by his security in himself and how he treats others. But hey, that's just me.


So a man who drives a rolling dent of a car, struggles to pay the bills, tries hard to take care of responsibilities and cannot afford the high life, but is surrounded by people who admire and respect him rates in your book?


Andy, car, bills, house, stuff, all change. Respect and integrity are constant. That is the title of my book.


Funny, you get that the only constant in life is change! I have seen SO many 'well to do' men become broke and homeless overnight for a variety of reasons and all of them were bad and their fault!

Perhaps it's because they were human and, they erred. Don't we all?

Winx's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:11 AM
Edited by Winx on Sun 03/21/10 10:12 AM
I measure it by looking at his character and integrity.

Also, if he has children, is he a good father to them.



TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:16 AM

I measure a man's success by his relationship with his family and friends. Material wealth can come and go as can a career. The heart of a man is evident through his personal relationships. JMO


I must agree with this. To me material things are just that they do not show success. Anyone can have stuff and be in debt up to their ***. I would much rather be around someone for whom they are and how they treat me and my kids and family then what they have.

I could careless if they worked at Walmart I've never been one have the dollar signs in my eyes when looking for someone to be with...noway

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Sun 03/21/10 10:17 AM


To be honest, it's all about MONEY MONEY MONEY!!!!!! Period.

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:17 AM
Edited by shoesmonkey on Sun 03/21/10 10:23 AM
What AndyBGood needs to learn about us ladies is, we are strong, loving, forgiving and,accepting and understanding, creatures.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:19 AM



To be honest, it's all about MONEY MONEY MONEY!!!!!! Period.


Hummmmm and this is coming from a man at that:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:20 AM




To be honest, it's all about MONEY MONEY MONEY!!!!!! Period.


Hummmmm and this is coming from a man at that:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:



(((Kristi))) I think he's saying that's what women think...

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:22 AM



To be honest, it's all about MONEY MONEY MONEY!!!!!! Period.

I must say that, I had a guy take me to a place for a cold slice of pizza. It should not have been in business. And yep, you're right, I dumped his azz right away. I do demand a particular degree of respect.

MeChrissy2's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:23 AM





To be honest, it's all about MONEY MONEY MONEY!!!!!! Period.


Hummmmm and this is coming from a man at that:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:



(((Kristi))) I think he's saying that's what women think...


Oh I do love when a man tells me how to think.love noway

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