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Topic: How does a woman measure a man's success?
AZAR09 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 759	Mon 03/22/10 03:06 PM
by the thickness of his......... wallet ! Skeerd me there for a minute Chevy!

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Mon 03/22/10 04:33 PM
By the pint glass

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Mon 03/22/10 04:44 PM
by how many people he has in his life that love him, and respect him

lalalove Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 2346	Mon 03/22/10 04:48 PM
I measure a man's success by his security in himself and how he treats others. But hey, that's just me. What she said! yep i agree

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 03/22/10 05:28 PM
I judge people's success, male and female, by how they overcome adversity. This means it's not about money, looks, intelligence, or status in this life. Success can only be meausured on an individual level, and is highly subjective. A businessman that struggled growing up but now has amassed an empire can be successful. So can a poor single mother that has raised a fine young son. So can a former criminal that has overcome addiction and turned his life around to become a McDonald's employee. So can an overweight female that spends her days bringing smiles to the faces of neglected and abused children, because they don't care that she's fat and ugly, only that she loves them. People are just people. Everybody is successful in their own way. It's just a matter of whether we are able to open our hearts and see the unique beauty in ALL people or we decide to base all of our judgements on what appears to the naked eye. You ask how I judge a man's success? I don't. I ask him about his life. He's the only one that really knows. We live in a chaotic world. People have to play the hands they're dealt, which in my opinion means you're successful if you survive another day. I guess what I'm trying to say in my usual long winded, convoluted way is that I honestly think it's not a matter of what you use for a yardstick, but that there shouldn't even be a yardstick. That's my story and I'm stickin' to it! i agree, and that is measurement of one's soul, and the learning that they did in this lifeschool.... and it pretains not to others. only the individual in question...... one thing that should apply when session though, is possibly how one helps others, and furthers their benefits, for both have wisdom gain as well as others possibly, as this is highly important in developement for what comes next, and so on.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 03/22/10 05:51 PM
I am curious to see just how shallow people can be. I am sure I will get a variety of answers of varying degrees of honesty but hey, do not let it be said I ask silly questions all the time. I love myth busting! I don't know the answer to this, but I'm pretty sure it has nothing whatsoever to do with the number of books he's published....!

AngelArs Joined Wed 02/03/10 Posts: 1316	Mon 03/22/10 06:20 PM
car, bills, house, stuff, all change. Respect and integrity are constant. Well said

greeneyedlady42 Joined Wed 07/26/06 Posts: 975	Mon 03/22/10 06:31 PM
Success isnt always about things. For me success is the day to day way you carry yourself. In todays society its too easy to be impulsive. Success for me would be someone with self control and discipline, a person who behaves with character and integrity. Cars rust houses get reposessed, but your children will reflect the kind of person YOU are. Being an honest person who treats people with dignity should be considered successful. I guess everyone has their own measuring stick to go by. Ive never been a materialist person. So fancy crap doesnt impress me. Show me some "soul".

AngelArs Joined Wed 02/03/10 Posts: 1316	Mon 03/22/10 06:35 PM
Show me some "soul".