after men have an orgasm their body floods with tryptophan. which is why the usually fall fast asleep after

after women have an orgasm their body floods with oxytocin. oxytocin creates a maternal, cuddly, bonding feeling. and makes women want to talk as a bonding process

I used to have this girlfriedn who in bed, in the afterglow, would often ask me, "what are you thinking about?" I was young and inexperienced then. I did not realize she wanted to hear something to the effect, "well, just thinking how happy I am to be lying beside you here in bed, just enjoying the moment" or something like that. At the time I was a naive little boy, 28, I did not know people and I did not know that I did not need to be truthful all the time, despite that's what my mother had taught me.

So I would say, "sorry, my thoughts are private. Allow me some privacy, please". Or say nothing.

We dated for many years, and I think this was the bigges thorn in her eyes. That I wasn't satisfying her craving for hearing what I thought. It wasn't a big thorn, but it was the largest of all the little thorn.

My question: What would you like to hear after you ask your partner, "what are you thinking about"? Would you ask this question in the first place? Why do you think people ask this question?

After sharing the most intimate of things possible, I myself would just want to continue the.. closness, to simply discuss what your thoughts were. That's all, no more.

Should have told her you were remembering your life as a woman. That'll teach her.

Tryptophan is part of the whole turkey myth of sleepiness which is most likely attributed to a large consumption of carbohydrates during thanksgiving. Other things contain tryptophan but does not put people to sleep. Carbohydrates are carbon chains with the basis containing hydrogen water and carbon. The body uses energy to break these bonds in metabolism therefore large consumption amounts can cause fatigue.

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But of course you would, who wouldn't!!!
However, it appears, that's more than most of the men can handle -- in an exhausted state...

Thus, What I do, while he's regaining his strength for a subsequent round, is give him a good back rub!!! -- works like a charm * * *

I actually hate when someone asks me that questions...no matter where we are. Its like they are putting me on the spot, I don't like that. There are times when I am thinking about something else that has absolutely nothing to do with them. I find myself thinking about my Dad a lot (he passed away a year ago) so if they asked me, I would probably start crying and be offended for prying into my personal thoughts. I am actually a pretty private person SO I never ask anyone "what are you thinking right now," IF they want me to know...they will tell me!!

Men and woman are wired completely diff

That is the truth!!!

Men do produce hormones that make them tired and they like to drift off to sleep

hell

I do too

Give these guys a break!

If they dont want to have tea and crumpets with us after then ok I am not that insecure that I read a million things into it

If ya want some together time afterwards--rub his back while hes sleeping--whisper in his ear sweet nothings--just lay close to him and feel his heat

Believe me if your a couple he will love ya when he wakes up

If its just booty

then go ta sleep and shut up!!!!! hahah

after men have an orgasm their body floods with tryptophan. which is why the usually fall fast asleep after

after women have an orgasm their body floods with oxytocin. oxytocin creates a maternal, cuddly, bonding feeling. and makes women want to talk as a bonding process