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after men have an orgasm their body floods with tryptophan. which is why the usually fall fast asleep after after women have an orgasm their body floods with oxytocin. oxytocin creates a maternal, cuddly, bonding feeling. and makes women want to talk as a bonding process |
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______________Tje Absolute Truth__________________
Actually, at that moment, most of women seek affection! OR she is hoping you wanna do it again!!!    
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the mind of a human being is often limited toward thought. We want to hear things that satisfy our craving for love and care. We want to hear things that will decrease our insecurities. So my question to you is what would you want to hear? Would you want some girl to say something like "yeah, i don't really want to talk about how you performed tonight" or something like "i love the way you did that and held me afterwards". Think man, before you end up with someone and step all over their heart. And really i think you need to grow up a little too. when you grow up and become educated in a sexual manner maybe you will understand!
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I really like your answer,..for me,.. it seems as soon as the man has an organisim,.it`s all back to business |
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sorry guys,..I don`t mean all guys,..I`m sure anyone could fall under the category,..
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Men and woman are wired completely diff
That is the truth!!! Men do produce hormones that make them tired and they like to drift off to sleep hell I do too Give these guys a break! If they dont want to have tea and crumpets with us after then ok I am not that insecure that I read a million things into it If ya want some together time afterwards--rub his back while hes sleeping--whisper in his ear sweet nothings--just lay close to him and feel his heat Believe me if your a couple he will love ya when he wakes up If its just booty then go ta sleep and shut up!!!!! hahah 
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I used to have this girlfriedn who in bed, in the afterglow, would often ask me, "what are you thinking about?" I was young and inexperienced then. I did not realize she wanted to hear something to the effect, "well, just thinking how happy I am to be lying beside you here in bed, just enjoying the moment" or something like that. At the time I was a naive little boy, 28, I did not know people and I did not know that I did not need to be truthful all the time, despite that's what my mother had taught me. So I would say, "sorry, my thoughts are private. Allow me some privacy, please". Or say nothing. We dated for many years, and I think this was the bigges thorn in her eyes. That I wasn't satisfying her craving for hearing what I thought. It wasn't a big thorn, but it was the largest of all the little thorn. My question: What would you like to hear after you ask your partner, "what are you thinking about"? Would you ask this question in the first place? Why do you think people ask this question? After sharing the most intimate of things possible, I myself would just want to continue the.. closness, to simply discuss what your thoughts were. That's all, no more. |
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che_:
After sharing the most intimate of things possible, I myself would just want to continue the.. closness, to simply discuss what your thoughts were. That's all, no more.
But of course you would, who wouldn't!!! However, it appears, that's more than most of the men can handle -- in an exhausted state... Thus, What I do, while he's regaining his strength for a subsequent round, is give him a good back rub!!! -- works like a charm * * * 
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Should have told her you were remembering your life as a woman. That'll teach her. 
Now thats funny!
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Edited by
Cinderella75
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Sat 01/23/10 07:55 PM
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Tryptophan is part of the whole turkey myth of sleepiness which is most likely attributed to a large consumption of carbohydrates during thanksgiving. Other things contain tryptophan but does not put people to sleep. Carbohydrates are carbon chains with the basis containing hydrogen water and carbon. The body uses energy to break these bonds in metabolism therefore large consumption amounts can cause fatigue. just tell her that after she asks you:" Babe, what are you thinking about?" and she will never ask you again...lol
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Why do you think people ask this question?
..she is seeking a connection.. What would you like to hear after you ask your partner ...if she was special -- gods envy us.. roko |
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I had a guy ask me that when I was 19 after the deed. I had no idea what to say either. I just wanted to enjoy the moment and fall asleep. I hate that question.
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]u]Simple: The question, "What are you thinking about?", translates into a need for re-assuredness -- that she wasn't the worst lay you've ever had!!!
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I like this question! It lets me know they care, when they roll over and say goodnight is when you should worry!
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che_: After sharing the most intimate of things possible, I myself would just want to continue the.. closness, to simply discuss what your thoughts were. That's all, no more.
But of course you would, who wouldn't!!! However, it appears, that's more than most of the men can handle -- in an exhausted state... Thus, What I do, while he's regaining his strength for a subsequent round, is give him a good back rub!!! -- works like a charm * * *
lol give HIM? |
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May lmaoo
I thought I was the ONLY person to ever call then organisms.. 
I stick to the "little less conversation a little more action" mind set if I am going to be bombarded with questions that are silly and childish..Heck he will know what I am thinking I can be read like a book except in poker. 
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I actually hate when someone asks me that questions...no matter where we are. Its like they are putting me on the spot, I don't like that. There are times when I am thinking about something else that has absolutely nothing to do with them. I find myself thinking about my Dad a lot (he passed away a year ago) so if they asked me, I would probably start crying and be offended for prying into my personal thoughts. I am actually a pretty private person SO I never ask anyone "what are you thinking right now," IF they want me to know...they will tell me!! I agree! |
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Men and woman are wired completely diff That is the truth!!! Men do produce hormones that make them tired and they like to drift off to sleep hell I do too Give these guys a break! If they dont want to have tea and crumpets with us after then ok I am not that insecure that I read a million things into it If ya want some together time afterwards--rub his back while hes sleeping--whisper in his ear sweet nothings--just lay close to him and feel his heat Believe me if your a couple he will love ya when he wakes up If its just booty then go ta sleep and shut up!!!!! hahah
Absolutely beautiful... |
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I've asked this question before and I usually get a "nothing" as a response...although there has been times where he wanted another round. If the man says "nothing", then I know I just blew his mind. As for me, I like to enjoy the feeling post orgasm and I'm not really coherent enough to answer such a question...I'll be like uhhuh, ok....
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after men have an orgasm their body floods with tryptophan. which is why the usually fall fast asleep after after women have an orgasm their body floods with oxytocin. oxytocin creates a maternal, cuddly, bonding feeling. and makes women want to talk as a bonding process I guess the trypto doesn't kick in for me, because I'm usually wide awake and full of energy afterwards, usually I'll go watch Sportscenter or a game on tv. |
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