the mind of a human being is often limited toward thought. We want to hear things that satisfy our craving for love and care. We want to hear things that will decrease our insecurities. So my question to you is what would you want to hear? Would you want some girl to say something like "yeah, i don't really want to talk about how you performed tonight" or something like "i love the way you did that and held me afterwards". Think man, before you end up with someone and step all over their heart. And really i think you need to grow up a little too. when you grow up and become educated in a sexual manner maybe you will understand!