When a woman asks me what I'm thinking, I usually just say "Unicorns and rainbows," roll over and start snoring.

"You're taking up too much of the bed. Well then get out and go sleep on the couch."

That just shows WHAT KIND OF WOMEN YOU DEAL WITH...

"i like that"



and the original question is a fun one too....

but there is an obvious answer also. she just wanted to know what you were thinking about! it was interesting for her to know if you were thinking that you could do this again in 15 minutes, or if you liked the Picasso print on the wall, or were internally debating the question of "milk and cookies" or "beer and burger"?

it needn't be anything deeper or more psychologically needy than that! it may simply be that she was thinking "wow that was fun, what next?"

so i would generally answer such a question (if i wasn't already snoring) by cuddling a little, maybe touching her face or kissing her somewhere and saying - "i was just thinking how remarkable our time is together and how much i enjoy being with you" (and this is not because of some psychological manipulation but because i invariably feel this way) and then i might add..."and i am thinking of (whatever you are also thinking of goes here)"



of course if you happen to be thinking of the stinky sock she missed cleaning up or that you have to go to the bathroom you might want to try to be a little more creative and find something else that you are thinking about which will make for a little more interesting conversation....

after all, my partner would be a very interesting person and she will want to be intellectually stimulated as well as sexually satisfied. i can relate to that. plus it is so very enjoyable to interact - on a topic of your choosing!

"I'm thinking of that big hairy spider on the ceiling right above you."

Sounds exciting....

I like to think it makes me mysterious.

You do? Hmmm... (smiles)

this really bugs me infact it winds me up something chronic
i would never ask that question and although giving the reply im just thinking how happy i am would make her smile Women dont want 2 be told what you think they want 2 hear u tell them str8 if your thinkin *** id have rather have had a wank just say it

Personally, when I ask that question, I'm hopping for a contr-question:

Crack me up! I was just asked this the other night!! And all I could do was start thinking of this thread! I made something up other than what I was thinking which was he needed to work out more as that was disappointing time-wise.

I'm usually thinking,"will two twenties and a ten be okay?"

I doubt that kind of a person -- male or female -- would even give a fux about what your thinking about, unless they're wondering whether you have enough cash to settle the bill!!!

LOL TOUCHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE'!!!!

Lmao!!!!!!!

i'm usually thinking, now how do i get out of this one?

Poor fellow -- he always gets forcibly dragged into compromising situations...

I've asked this a couple of times, to a long term boyfriend, but I think he was the first in the relationship to ask me that question. But I usually only ask that after some afternoon lovin, so that I know if I can take a nap or not.

The last time I was asked this I made the mistake of saying what I was actually thinking. " What the hell is your name." I don't understand why but it didn't work out well.