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Topic: Ladies should learn to make the first move!
redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Wed 01/13/10 06:51 AM
when someone says "good girl" it makes me think I am a dog. Its called respect! Learn some!

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 01/13/10 06:52 AM
Depends on what I'm doing .... when the term "good girl" is being used if it bothers me or not.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Wed 01/13/10 06:56 AM
Good girl.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Wed 01/13/10 06:57 AM Edited by Winx on Wed 01/13/10 07:27 AM
I prefer for man to make the first move.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 01/13/10 06:57 AM Edited by singmesweet on Wed 01/13/10 07:47 AM
Depends on what I'm doing .... when the term "good girl" is being used if it bothers me or not. In this case, "good girl" is condescending. As for making the first move, if I'm interested enough, I will.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Wed 01/13/10 06:57 AM
Good girl.

Updawg Joined Thu 11/19/09 Posts: 3254	Wed 01/13/10 06:58 AM
Not sure what the Good Girl was about...but hey I dont mind, who contacts who first...either way it makes someone feel good.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 01/13/10 07:12 AM
I stil dont know why the ladies here on mingle2 n the outside world waits for guys to show interest first.If lady does the same,it does'nt mean u are cheap.Anyways,i am single and available,distance is not a problem.Mail me n i'll get back to you.Good girl! Your human contact must really be very limited. The ladies (myself included) do not wait for anything. Some of us take the initiative and act on our impulses, some dont. Same in real life. Again, you want women to mail you (email you) contact you, get a grip. Do some foot work yourself, join the forums, meet people, piece of advice don't continue to come off as needy as your 3 posts have been. Relax, it's really not that serious, enjoy the site, meet people, have some fun and good luck, good boy!

XenomorphEyez Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 923	Wed 01/13/10 07:20 AM Edited by XenomorphEyez on Wed 01/13/10 07:22 AM
Edit: I didn't read the whole thread before I posted, I'm glad some other people called you out too. I stil dont know why the ladies here on mingle2 n the outside world waits for guys to show interest first.If lady does the same,it does'nt mean u are cheap.Anyways,i am single and available,distance is not a problem.Mail me n i'll get back to you.Good girl! "Good girl"????? WTF? That's how you talk to dogs, not women. Holy crap. Good luck with ANYONE contacting you.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Wed 01/13/10 07:26 AM
I tell my dog, "Good girl".

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 01/13/10 08:01 AM
"Sigh" Chicks man. You know, guys like to be chased too. Makes us feel wanted....special....I mean, would it kill ya to buy the guy flowers on the first date?

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Wed 01/13/10 08:13 AM
I've had gals here send me the first emails. I push the line on here so often, every time I see I have mail, I think it's the mods gettin' on me. I go, oh chit!

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 01/13/10 08:45 AM
I stil dont know why the ladies here on mingle2 n the outside world waits for guys to show interest first.If lady does the same,it does'nt mean u are cheap.Anyways,i am single and available,distance is not a problem.Mail me n i'll get back to you.Good girl! Not everyone is the same and thats good. Just as in men, you will find some assertive women and some passive, you need both to complement the other. I think the expectation is for the man to be the 'hunter' and the woman to be the 'prey. If you look across the country at all the ladies nights and ladies get in free offers for clubs,, I think its probably the majority that expect the man to initiate. however, there are many passive men and shy men for whom I believe there are also just as many more assertive women. It just takes patience.

XenomorphEyez Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 923	Wed 01/13/10 08:48 AM
I push the line on here so often, every time I see I have mail, I think it's the mods gettin' on me. I go, oh chit! Me too

jondo0d Joined Mon 05/11/09 Posts: 2	Wed 01/13/10 09:05 AM
Patience could play a factor, maybe women don't want to be as quickly involved in you or maybe you aren't gettin the hint. You sound a little too eager. Try finding someone at the library or club or somewhere thats off the internet or just practice talkin to ppl there and get your confidence up. Don't get too dependent on sites like this, you're helping to reduce the overall masculinity of the world. by looking for a relationship on the internet, it already says that you're somewhat desperate.. no offense, just stating the opinion i'm entitle to have. Good luck to you and hope you find what you are looking for.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 01/13/10 09:15 AM
Making the first move is 2nd nature to me Thats why my life is so great! Women have to be that way Its 2010!!! Go get em girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76453	Wed 01/13/10 09:36 AM
If a woman is interested , she will make the first move! Ditto, I do and have sent that first e-mail does not mean I will get far but hey at least I tried.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Wed 01/13/10 10:03 AM


MiVidaLoca Joined Mon 09/21/09 Posts: 909	Wed 01/13/10 10:45 AM
, Ladies should learn to be the men of the relationships because that way it's easier for men to sit back and be the woman. LMFAO

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 01/13/10 10:48 AM
If a woman is interested , she will make the first move! Ditto, I do and have sent that first e-mail does not mean I will get far but hey at least I tried. I NEVER make the first move,,,even when I think I may be interested.....I have to see the interest from the guy first..but thats just me.