when someone says "good girl" it makes me think I am a dog. Its called respect! Learn some!

Depends on what I'm doing .... when the term "good girl" is being used if it bothers me or not.

Good girl.

I prefer for man to make the first move.

In this case, "good girl" is condescending.

As for making the first move, if I'm interested enough, I will.

Not sure what the Good Girl was about...but hey I dont mind, who contacts who first...either way it makes someone feel good.

Your human contact must really be very limited.

The ladies (myself included) do not wait for anything. Some of us take the initiative and act on our impulses, some dont. Same in real life.

Again, you want women to mail you (email you) contact you, get a grip. Do some foot work yourself, join the forums, meet people, piece of advice don't continue to come off as needy as your 3 posts have been.

Relax, it's really not that serious, enjoy the site, meet people, have some fun and good luck, good boy!

Edit: I didn't read the whole thread before I posted, I'm glad some other people called you out too.


"Good girl"????? WTF? That's how you talk to dogs, not women. Holy crap. Good luck with ANYONE contacting you.

I tell my dog, "Good girl".

"Sigh" Chicks man. You know, guys like to be chased too. Makes us feel wanted....special....I mean, would it kill ya to buy the guy flowers on the first date?

I've had gals here send me the first emails.
I push the line on here so often, every time I see I have mail, I think it's the mods gettin' on me. I go, oh chit!

Not everyone is the same and thats good. Just as in men, you will find some assertive women and some passive, you need both to complement the other. I think the expectation is for the man to be the 'hunter' and the woman to be the 'prey. If you look across the country at all the ladies nights and ladies get in free offers for clubs,, I think its probably the majority that expect the man to initiate. however, there are many passive men and shy men for whom I believe there are also just as many more assertive women.

It just takes patience.

Me too

Patience could play a factor, maybe women don't want to be as quickly involved in you or maybe you aren't gettin the hint. You sound a little too eager. Try finding someone at the library or club or somewhere thats off the internet or just practice talkin to ppl there and get your confidence up. Don't get too dependent on sites like this, you're helping to reduce the overall masculinity of the world. by looking for a relationship on the internet, it already says that you're somewhat desperate.. no offense, just stating the opinion i'm entitle to have. Good luck to you and hope you find what you are looking for.

Making the first move is 2nd nature to me

Thats why my life is so great!

Women have to be that way Its 2010!!!

Go get em girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ditto, I do and have sent that first e-mail does not mean I will get far but hey at least I tried.

LMFAO

I NEVER make the first move,,,even when I think I may be interested.....I have to see the interest from the guy first..but thats just me.