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Topic: What does this mean?
Dap1983's photo
Mon 01/11/10 03:16 PM
Went out last night with some family and friends to have a few drinks. And the bartender was asking a friend and my mother questions about me when I was NOT around. I didn't find out till this morning. He asked them how old I am (Even though he had already been serving me drinks, What I do for work, what I like to do, Do I read, play games, What do I like to eat, and the like.

does he like me? or is he just being curious/ friendly?

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Mon 01/11/10 03:34 PM
Edited by Calleigh12 on Mon 01/11/10 04:24 PM
Could go either way- he could be interested in you or he could just be nosy as hell.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Mon 01/11/10 03:34 PM
Yes, he likes you, the signs are there.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/11/10 04:17 PM
He was conducting a survey!!tongue2 :laughing: :laughing:

oldsage's photo
Mon 01/11/10 04:30 PM
Sounds like he is interested.

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 01/11/10 04:35 PM
He was a part time private investigator checking you out for someone else.

Cinderella75's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:06 PM

Went out last night with some family and friends to have a few drinks. And the bartender was asking a friend and my mother questions about me when I was NOT around. I didn't find out till this morning. He asked them how old I am (Even though he had already been serving me drinks, What I do for work, what I like to do, Do I read, play games, What do I like to eat, and the like.

does he like me? or is he just being curious/ friendly?


Could be various things.
But my guess is, since he is a bartender, he was prolly just striking up some small talk for a better tip. JMO

brenlee1965's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:10 PM
I think he's trying to get the scoop about you; so if you come in again; he can think of something to say that might lure you into talking too him.

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:13 PM
How do we know?

Go right back there and ask him!!!!!!!!!!:heart:

Dap1983's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:13 PM


Went out last night with some family and friends to have a few drinks. And the bartender was asking a friend and my mother questions about me when I was NOT around. I didn't find out till this morning. He asked them how old I am (Even though he had already been serving me drinks, What I do for work, what I like to do, Do I read, play games, What do I like to eat, and the like.

does he like me? or is he just being curious/ friendly?


Could be various things.
But my guess is, since he is a bartender, he was prolly just striking up some small talk for a better tip. JMO


But he has never done that before. And has been working there for a few months now. I found out last night that he is single and looking. And just got a new place. SO I'm not sure what to think of all of this. I guess I wait till sat night or sun to see.

Cinderella75's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:34 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Mon 01/11/10 08:35 PM



Went out last night with some family and friends to have a few drinks. And the bartender was asking a friend and my mother questions about me when I was NOT around. I didn't find out till this morning. He asked them how old I am (Even though he had already been serving me drinks, What I do for work, what I like to do, Do I read, play games, What do I like to eat, and the like.

does he like me? or is he just being curious/ friendly?


Could be various things.
But my guess is, since he is a bartender, he was prolly just striking up some small talk for a better tip. JMO


But he has never done that before. And has been working there for a few months now. I found out last night that he is single and looking. And just got a new place. SO I'm not sure what to think of all of this. I guess I wait till sat night or sun to see.


Yea, I'm sure he has done this before...he's a bartender, they make they living on mixing drinks and having random flirtatious small talk with people.:tongue:
Just next time talk to him for a bit, and get a vibe on if he is feeling you or not..don't straight up ask him tho, play it smooth.
Ask him a few questions about him..if he answers he may be interested.:wink:
Good Luck!

Bigstick9's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:09 PM
If you want to know and plan to ask be prepared for the truth either way... GO ASK we love specific questions!!~~~ Good Luck

Edy_ca's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:13 PM
i would just ask...right to the point...in a cute way...not off the wall like "wtf were you asking about me for" kinda way...nice, sweet, batting your eyes type of way....but still ask...the only way to know...

XenomorphEyez's photo
Tue 01/12/10 01:11 PM



Yea, I'm sure he has done this before...he's a bartender, they make they living on mixing drinks and having random flirtatious small talk with people.:tongue:
Just next time talk to him for a bit, and get a vibe on if he is feeling you or not..don't straight up ask him tho, play it smooth.
Ask him a few questions about him..if he answers he may be interested.:wink:
Good Luck!

Speaking as a former bartender...I will agree with this post.

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Tue 01/12/10 01:21 PM
Edited by Up2Us on Tue 01/12/10 01:22 PM
He's a STALKER.......surprised scared devil

franshade's photo
Tue 01/12/10 01:26 PM

Went out last night with some family and friends to have a few drinks. And the bartender was asking a friend and my mother questions about me when I was NOT around. I didn't find out till this morning. He asked them how old I am (Even though he had already been serving me drinks, What I do for work, what I like to do, Do I read, play games, What do I like to eat, and the like.

does he like me? or is he just being curious/ friendly?


not rocket science, if unsure ask.

Edy_ca's photo
Tue 01/12/10 03:56 PM

He's a STALKER.......surprised scared devil


hey i WANT a stalker!!!grumble

Goofball73's photo
Tue 01/12/10 04:04 PM


He's a STALKER.......surprised scared devil


hey i WANT a stalker!!!grumble


Come on down to Goof's.....we have Stalkers on sale for $59.99...and, for a limited time, I will throw in the scary ski mask for absolutely free...no charge...no hidden fees either...:wink: laugh

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 01/12/10 04:04 PM


He's a STALKER.......surprised scared devil


hey i WANT a stalker!!!grumble


I thought you WERE a stalker!!!!!!!

Zack931's photo
Tue 01/12/10 04:06 PM

He was a part time private investigator checking you out for someone else.


shhh

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