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Topic: What would you do~~~
Redsoxfan1's photo
Mon 01/11/10 01:24 PM
I have been 'asked' out on another dating site, the guy seems nice after looking at his profile, but the problem for me is, I am 5'6", and he is only 4' tall!! I would feel so awkward!! What do you think?? Would you guys just 'overlook' the height issue, and 'meet'?? Thanx!:heart:

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Mon 01/11/10 01:29 PM
Edited by Calleigh12 on Mon 01/11/10 01:30 PM
If his height is an issue for you, don't go out with him. You just said you'd feel awkward, and he'd notice that you felt awkward, and then he'd feel awkward. Not very fair to him, you know?

I don't date men I don't find attractive, or who make me uncomfortable, but it's up to you, no one else can really advise you on that. Good luck with whatever you decide.

misstina2's photo
Mon 01/11/10 01:30 PM
flowerforyou it won't hurt going out with him to see how it goesflowerforyou have some fun:tongue: :tongue:

Redsoxfan1's photo
Mon 01/11/10 01:32 PM

flowerforyou it won't hurt going out with him to see how it goesflowerforyou have some fun:tongue: :tongue:
Maybe, but what gets me, is I'm Taller than he is!!laugh

FETTS61's photo
Mon 01/11/10 01:32 PM
we all have preferences. it doesnt make us shallow, most of us just know what we want

Peccy's photo
Mon 01/11/10 01:53 PM
Edited by Peccy on Mon 01/11/10 01:55 PM
I used to date A LOT of women taller than myself, but being only 5'5" that's not difficult. I say go for it, not like your getting married...plus you may have fun! You'll probably get a free dinner out of it anyhow!

ADDNOTE-Height is a mere number like age. But if you're hung up on this, politely decline.

Cinderella75's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:50 PM

I have been 'asked' out on another dating site, the guy seems nice after looking at his profile, but the problem for me is, I am 5'6", and he is only 4' tall!! I would feel so awkward!! What do you think?? Would you guys just 'overlook' the height issue, and 'meet'?? Thanx!:heart:


Although a few inches shorter would be ok (2-3 inches), this height difference would be a dealbreaker for me.
I think if you feel awkward about meeting him due to his height, you'd be wasting your time to go on a date with him, and possibly leading him on by doing so.

Drifters13's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:57 PM

I have been 'asked' out on another dating site, the guy seems nice after looking at his profile, but the problem for me is, I am 5'6", and he is only 4' tall!! I would feel so awkward!! What do you think?? Would you guys just 'overlook' the height issue, and 'meet'?? Thanx!:heart:


I'm 5'6". Most of the women I've been with have been taller than I am. the tallest was 6'2.

I've had some that wanted a relationship, but most would only sleep with me, but wouldn't date me because I was to short. (I don't get it eather)

Its all a matter of preferance. make your choice.

Updawg's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:59 PM
thats a we bit to small for my taste...I just said we bit!

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 01/11/10 09:02 PM

I have been 'asked' out on another dating site, the guy seems nice after looking at his profile, but the problem for me is, I am 5'6", and he is only 4' tall!! I would feel so awkward!! What do you think?? Would you guys just 'overlook' the height issue, and 'meet'?? Thanx!:heart:

I think for me personally I would most likely just ask him if it is a typo or he didn't click and fill in. I know I am on another site and the beginning ht is really low.

wux's photo
Wed 01/13/10 03:55 AM
Don't lose heart. He could have made a typo. You know how the numbers are so close to each other on the keyboard and how easy it is to hit the wrong one. Perhaps he's not 4' but 3'.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Wed 01/13/10 05:18 AM
Edited by TexasScoundrel on Wed 01/13/10 05:20 AM
This is silly. Of course you should go out with him.

Suppose I started a thread saying I was invited out by a woman and but I don't really want to go because her boobs were too small? He can't do anything about his hight. He may even have a wonderful sense of humor about it.

You have the option of going out and having fun or sitting home and posting on this forum. Seems like a simple choice to me.

XenomorphEyez's photo
Wed 01/13/10 07:25 AM

I have been 'asked' out on another dating site, the guy seems nice after looking at his profile, but the problem for me is, I am 5'6", and he is only 4' tall!! I would feel so awkward!! What do you think?? Would you guys just 'overlook' the height issue, and 'meet'?? Thanx!:heart:


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Funniest post I've read today.

Xposed75's photo
Wed 01/13/10 08:05 AM
Personaly i dont find anything wrong with short people (gnomes). They can fit everywhere !

I ll leave to King's singers do the talking...Enjoy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ANIj1wfMuK4

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 01/13/10 09:43 AM
Myself I'm short but sorry if a guy is that much shorter then me I could not do it. Now if it was a woman that short most guys would not have a problem. Funny how some say they would not have a problem with the height ect, but then they would turn down the women that are full figured or men that are big I find that comical to the least. We all have preference of what we will and will not date. whoa

BonnyMiss's photo
Wed 01/13/10 09:48 AM
It is a matter of personal preference, I wouldn't date a guy that shorter than me (I'm 5'6") and I like wearing heels.

buttons's photo
Wed 01/13/10 09:49 AM
u sure he didnt forget to enter in his height? some start at a height if u dont change it it stays... like on here i beleive it is <5ft

MiVidaLoca's photo
Wed 01/13/10 09:50 AM
Go bungy jumping maybe he'll stretch out a lil.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 01/13/10 09:51 AM
ITS ALL UP TO YOU..................I'm not meeting him

But

I did talk to a guy on here who told me he was 5'4

I was skeptical

Then someone told me he was really as tall as me (5')

I happen to like em tall and big

SOOOOOOOOO glad it didn't work out

Take time and think it out!:heart:

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 01/13/10 10:05 AM
When in doubt always ask don't always go on what is within their profile they may have made a mistake. Either that or go and check it out yourself. Heck I met one said he was 5'8 Helllllllllllllloooooooooo we were looking eye to eye and I was not in heels so go figure. Besides ya could always meet them at Starbucks have a cup of coffee at the end of your coffee bid them goodnight not really hard. besides you might enjoy the conversation.bigsmile

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