I am 51, and I am still 'all that' :

Yes He Does!!!!!

There has to be at least a million reasons, and it has nothing to do with you,but them.

because i found out,now we have to start buying yall apple juice

Mich - you the man!

they r right its them not u, i get mostly that men think I have some1..when I dont..or the fear of rejection..
One of my favs is i alwyas weanted to talk to U but...? what ever they thought. would say to turn them away for 1 reason or another..haha.. just think maybe it wasnt meant to be then..Its hard for me to take the 1st step..but at times I do try..saying hello..or something never hurts..

ruth ...i just got a hug nudge from you from a month ago..TODAY!

Well if I was 50 I would be sending you message if you where close to my zip code. I am weird though I like the rejections. I want to know why females don't reply back to me. Isn't that the point here... Is to meet and meat people... ok maybe no meat them :P

some of us are just tired of being shot down constantly when we try to contact, email or make a move.

Because by the time most discerning men are 50, they've long ago refined what I call The Radar. Pretty much all one need do is make eye contact and read body English and you know if there's an opening on her dance card for you or not with a good degree of accuracy.

That's what makes this medium so difficult to use to meet someone. You take a chance and write what you think is a respectful and meaningful letter to someone you realistically think may reciprocate and they don't even open it because they've already looked at your profile picture and made a snap judgement. It's like flying blind over hostile territory-- you'll get shot down so many times even as you're playing by the rules that it makes you _want_ to be long ago and far away out of the war between the sexes.

-Kerry O.

Good point. But I say if they are going to judge you on how you look then it is there loss and you dont want them anyways

Am 51 with all the youthful qualities but all the women I noticed here are all too far and no matter what people say Good about long distance relationship, the bottom line "it doesn't work". Unless of course the women out there is willing to relocate then we can talk. I'd even go halfway on it.

Maybe you should move to a town that is bigger jut kidding

hahahaha you mean smaller town full of single women. Montreal is pretty large city, no.1 fashion sense city 2009. I travelled all over the world already in my lifetime just to take home a woman of my dreams but then they all wanted citizenship.. "delete".

Well hell maybe you should go for younger females and just become a sugerdady then

Your profile says 51. Always remember when you sign up for a dating site to get your age straight when self promoting your hotness to the masses.

You're still cracking me up.

I agree,(would that be considered a flirt??, or just a compliment?)

It may also be that what one considers a flirt, is not the same as what the other person is looking for.

Also, people are looking at looks. , here you can email, so maybe email is a better way to initiate a conversation. But, if you want a response, again, it is a numbers game. the more you flirt, the more likely someone will answer. The more people you meet, the more likely one of em is gonna work out.

It's just that on these dating sites, everyone is very cautious (there is no alcohol here to reduce inhibitions). Sort of like a bar without alcohol--there would be a lot less hooking up!

So, I think we need something like alcohol on these dating sites!

Maybe, but even when I'm drunk, there certain types of men I'd never let touch me no matter what.