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Topic: Is dancing with another guy at a club while having a boyfrie
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Sat 12/12/09 10:07 PM
Edited by soul997 on Sat 12/12/09 10:23 PM
Because my friend did this I was there and she has a bf.

Edit: her bf lives out of town I've never seen him.

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Sat 12/12/09 10:08 PM
maybe the boyfriend is ok with it ohwell

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Sat 12/12/09 10:10 PM

Because my friend did this I was there and she has a bf.


The question is cut out, might want to fix it before you get loads of unnecessary advice.

Aside from that, assuming that you meant your friend danced with some random dude at a club when she has a boyfried because her friends egged her on or whatever. Dancing on a dance floor is one thing, dancing in bed is an entirely different thing.

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Sat 12/12/09 10:10 PM
title is messed it should say "Is dancing with another guy at a club while having a boyfriend considered cheating?"

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Sat 12/12/09 10:12 PM
maybe disrespectful if the boyfriend cares about it and she does it anyway but I don't call that cheating

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Sat 12/12/09 10:12 PM
dancing doesnt mean anything... its not wrong at all whether yur single or not

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Sat 12/12/09 10:12 PM
Well i would say no. dancing is not cheating. and if they have trust i see nothing wrong with it, just my 2 cents worthflowerforyou

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Sat 12/12/09 10:13 PM
I don't think that's appropriate unless it was somekind of simple dance. If it was grinding and rubbing against each other then that's cheating in a way. I mean seriously, if her bf started dancing with another girl what would she think? Exactly.

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Sat 12/12/09 10:14 PM
yes....maybewhat what what

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Sat 12/12/09 10:15 PM

I don't think that's appropriate unless it was somekind of simple dance. If it was grinding and rubbing against each other then that's cheating in a way. I mean seriously, if her bf started dancing with another girl what would she think? Exactly.


It was grinding and rubbing I forgot to say that.

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Sat 12/12/09 10:15 PM
I assume the boyfriend knows she is going out to clubs with you?

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Sat 12/12/09 10:17 PM

I assume the boyfriend knows she is going out to clubs with you?


I don't know if he knows or not. Like me and her went to the club with her friend.

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Sat 12/12/09 10:20 PM

maybe disrespectful if the boyfriend cares about it and she does it anyway but I don't call that cheating



i wouldnt consider that cheating.. your out having fun. its no big deal
and im sure they have trust in each other

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Sat 12/12/09 10:22 PM
Edited by thewrongguy on Sat 12/12/09 10:26 PM


I don't think that's appropriate unless it was somekind of simple dance. If it was grinding and rubbing against each other then that's cheating in a way. I mean seriously, if her bf started dancing with another girl what would she think? Exactly.


It was grinding and rubbing I forgot to say that.


I don't mean to be harsh but she should rethink about being in a relationship if she's going to behave like that. Unless your in an open relationship, I think its safe to say no one would be thrilled at the idea of their bf/gf grinding with other people at a club. Such behavior demeans the relationship. If your single I say go right ahead and spoon on the dance floor..but play fair when your involved.

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Sat 12/12/09 10:23 PM
It totally depends upon the arrangement between girlfriend and boyfriend and what type of dancing it is.

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Sat 12/12/09 10:29 PM

It totally depends upon the arrangement between girlfriend and boyfriend and what type of dancing it is.
Agreed. drinker

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Sat 12/12/09 10:40 PM


I assume the boyfriend knows she is going out to clubs with you?


I don't know if he knows or not. Like me and her went to the club with her friend.


have you asked her?

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Sat 12/12/09 10:48 PM



I don't think that's appropriate unless it was somekind of simple dance. If it was grinding and rubbing against each other then that's cheating in a way. I mean seriously, if her bf started dancing with another girl what would she think? Exactly.


It was grinding and rubbing I forgot to say that.


I don't mean to be harsh but she should rethink about being in a relationship if she's going to behave like that. Unless your in an open relationship, I think its safe to say no one would be thrilled at the idea of their bf/gf grinding with other people at a club. Such behavior demeans the relationship. If your single I say go right ahead and spoon on the dance floor..but play fair when your involved.


I agree with this answer.

Dancing is OK but rubbing and grinding is disrespectful.

Cheating can be mental too; not just physical.

She should rethink whether she is cut out for a relationship.

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Sat 12/12/09 10:51 PM



I assume the boyfriend knows she is going out to clubs with you?


I don't know if he knows or not. Like me and her went to the club with her friend.


have you asked her?


still i dont see it as a problem, she going out with her friends and having a goodtime, its no big deal, geeze when my daughter was married to her ex hubby she went out dancing with her friends, it was nothing to worry about..
when i was in a past relationship with this guy i was with for 3/2yrs, i had a chance to go to see the chipndale dancers with a friend of mine. i went and it was no big deal it didnt bother the guy i was with in fact that nite he went with a friend of his to see the female dancers

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Sat 12/12/09 10:52 PM
Well,,it shouldn't really matter,,,although I can say this,,,
lol,it depends on HOW they were dancing,,,,,,,,wink,lol
as I know,,,,,,I could be all up and into that,,,,,lol
or just into the dance...
Like if SHE pulled his head between her legs,,,yea,,,I might say SHE was pushing to get some,,,,,,so THAT,,,wouldn't be cool to do to her BF....ohwell lol

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