Topic: Christmas vs Holiday
Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:41 AM


Can't we all just get along??:wink: happy
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Ooooooo....I love angry women.laugh laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:43 AM
Edited by Ruth34611 on Fri 12/11/09 08:44 AM

OF course words matter, but when it comes to music they dont NECESSARILY reflect the beliefs of the person singing them. If I sing about Santa Claus, it is the MOOD of the song that I am singing about, ,not praising a fictional santa.

Songs of peace and joy or love ,regardless of the words involved, are still about a message that is positive and should be embraced. A song about murder or killing, would obviously have a totally different mood, and I would be opposed to teaching it to children regardless of the words behind it.


There are no songs that would be considered worshipping Santa.

And, I am opposed to songs that teach my children that the Christian god is the one and only.

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:44 AM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 12/11/09 08:45 AM

msharmony, words are indeed very powerful. You may see it as just singing along with a melody, but like Ruth pointed out... what about singing about killing and the KKK? if it's just singing with the melody, what does it matter what it's promoting?
When the words of the songs are "Glory to the new born king" and "praises to our king of kings" that is singing his praises. That is worshipping.
I'm not trying to stop the Christians. I'm just trying to make sure that kids in a public school all included and not punished because of their beliefs or lack of.



I dont believe in punishing anyone either. I think we just see things differently. I dont think singing about killing is anything comparable to singing about peace and love and glory. What it is promoting is important and perhaps that is the rub. Some feel it is promoting a person or a god and others feel it is promoting an attitude of love and peace. I cannot think of a song that exists that someone somewhere doesnt have some issue with but music should not be banned because EVERYONE cant agree all the time. The songs of christmas inspire peace and love and I think just because there is mention of Christ everyone goes up in arms. I think if you dont believe in Christ it would be no different than singing about Santa Claus,,,,

There are many people whose families may not think we are the land of the free and brave,, but how many school children still must sing it in school programs around the country. I just fail to see why people get so up in arms just because Christ is mentioned. We have the freedom to act and believe any way we want in this country , Unless we aknowledge a belief in Christ,,,,it always astonishes me


The only issue I would have with the situation at your school is that children were not equally welcome to participate...that was wrong.

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:46 AM
so now the children were punished? Uhm... ok....

just becuase there are children with alternate views in the class - the rest of them have to give up their beliefs and enjoyment of the season?

Liberals forget that both sides are valid, not just their own.

500 kids in the class, most all of them love christams -- because "little moon unit" opposes singing "Oh Holy Night" -- the rest of the children have to suffer?...

You were "forced" to attend? and "made" to sing? I highly doubt this is fact....

$.02 drinker

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:46 AM
OF course words matter, but when it comes to music they dont NECESSARILY reflect the beliefs of the person singing them. If I sing about Santa Claus, it is the MOOD of the song that I am singing about, ,not praising a fictional santa.

Songs of peace and joy or love ,regardless of the words involved, are still about a message that is positive and should be embraced. A song about murder or killing, would obviously have a totally different mood, and I would be opposed to teaching it to children regardless of the words behind it.

I don't disagree with you on this. Peace and Joy should absolutly be embraced.
My point was that you're implying that the songs have no meaning. They're just words.
These kinds of things are very symbolic. Would you try to feed a pork chop to a Muslim? Because after all, it's just a pork chop. It doesn't really mean anything right?

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:47 AM
Back to the original topic. What is wrong with having a Winter Holiday show where all the children sing two Christian songs, two Pagan songs, two Jewish songs and two Muslim songs?

I will tell you. The show would be too damn long. :tongue:

Cut it down to one song per religion and it would be perfect. :wink:

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:48 AM

OF course words matter, but when it comes to music they dont NECESSARILY reflect the beliefs of the person singing them. If I sing about Santa Claus, it is the MOOD of the song that I am singing about, ,not praising a fictional santa.

Songs of peace and joy or love ,regardless of the words involved, are still about a message that is positive and should be embraced. A song about murder or killing, would obviously have a totally different mood, and I would be opposed to teaching it to children regardless of the words behind it.

I don't disagree with you on this. Peace and Joy should absolutly be embraced.
My point was that you're implying that the songs have no meaning. They're just words.
These kinds of things are very symbolic. Would you try to feed a pork chop to a Muslim? Because after all, it's just a pork chop. It doesn't really mean anything right?




lol,,that analogy completely escaped me,,,,but I still love ya

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:49 AM

OF course words matter, but when it comes to music they dont NECESSARILY reflect the beliefs of the person singing them. If I sing about Santa Claus, it is the MOOD of the song that I am singing about, ,not praising a fictional santa.

Songs of peace and joy or love ,regardless of the words involved, are still about a message that is positive and should be embraced. A song about murder or killing, would obviously have a totally different mood, and I would be opposed to teaching it to children regardless of the words behind it.

I don't disagree with you on this. Peace and Joy should absolutly be embraced.
My point was that you're implying that the songs have no meaning. They're just words.
These kinds of things are very symbolic. Would you try to feed a pork chop to a Muslim? Because after all, it's just a pork chop. It doesn't really mean anything right?

I would not feed it to them or a Jew, But I just might make a catchy little Tune about it, and Sing it to themlaugh Ever hear of Adam Sandler?

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:49 AM

so now the children were punished? Uhm... ok....

just becuase there are children with alternate views in the class - the rest of them have to give up their beliefs and enjoyment of the season?

Liberals forget that both sides are valid, not just their own.

500 kids in the class, most all of them love christams -- because "little moon unit" opposes singing "Oh Holy Night" -- the rest of the children have to suffer?...

You were "forced" to attend? and "made" to sing? I highly doubt this is fact....

$.02 drinker
They were punished by not being able to participate and losing their grade in the class when they didn't sing.
No I wasn't "forced" to attend. However, I'm not going to not come and support my child when she's putting on a performance.

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:49 AM
I demand the children all sing "I want a hippopotamus for Christmas"...in English, Aramaic, Hebrew, Latin, French, Spanish, Chinese, Japanese, Celtic, etc......did I leave anyone out?laugh

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:50 AM
lol,,that analogy completely escaped me,,,,but I still love ya

flowerforyou you too. I've always had respect for you, still do. We can just agree to disagreeflowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:50 AM


OF course words matter, but when it comes to music they dont NECESSARILY reflect the beliefs of the person singing them. If I sing about Santa Claus, it is the MOOD of the song that I am singing about, ,not praising a fictional santa.

Songs of peace and joy or love ,regardless of the words involved, are still about a message that is positive and should be embraced. A song about murder or killing, would obviously have a totally different mood, and I would be opposed to teaching it to children regardless of the words behind it.

I don't disagree with you on this. Peace and Joy should absolutly be embraced.
My point was that you're implying that the songs have no meaning. They're just words.
These kinds of things are very symbolic. Would you try to feed a pork chop to a Muslim? Because after all, it's just a pork chop. It doesn't really mean anything right?




lol,,that analogy completely escaped me,,,,but I still love ya


That's because you're still not understanding the power of words. But, that's okay. I'm tired of arguing and we can just agree to disagree. flowerforyou

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:51 AM


so now the children were punished? Uhm... ok....

just becuase there are children with alternate views in the class - the rest of them have to give up their beliefs and enjoyment of the season?

Liberals forget that both sides are valid, not just their own.

500 kids in the class, most all of them love christams -- because "little moon unit" opposes singing "Oh Holy Night" -- the rest of the children have to suffer?...

You were "forced" to attend? and "made" to sing? I highly doubt this is fact....

$.02 drinker
They were punished by not being able to participate and losing their grade in the class when they didn't sing.
No I wasn't "forced" to attend. However, I'm not going to not come and support my child when she's putting on a performance.



This seems like an issue that should be followed up on. Certainly,, they couldnt legally punish a childs grade for something that they didnt permit the child to do......I would advise those parents to definitely call the Bd of Ed and file complaint.,,sounds unfair and illegal.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:53 AM
Whew! That was fun. bigsmile How about we all go out for a drink now? drinker

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:53 AM
Edited by Jill298 on Fri 12/11/09 08:59 AM

Back to the original topic. What is wrong with having a Winter Holiday show where all the children sing two Christian songs, two Pagan songs, two Jewish songs and two Muslim songs?

I will tell you. The show would be too damn long. :tongue:

Cut it down to one song per religion and it would be perfect. :wink:
agreed. In the other school she attended before we moved, the program was Christmas, Kwanzaa, Hanukkuah, and a few others altogether. Promoting peace, joy, holiday festivites, and family. I still believe tho that all religion should be kept out of it. Completely.

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:55 AM

Whew! That was fun. bigsmile How about we all go out for a drink now? drinker


Dang , I dont do liquer but Im game for a ginger ale...

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:56 AM


Whew! That was fun. bigsmile How about we all go out for a drink now? drinker


Dang , I dont do liquer but Im game for a ginger ale...


Awesome! You can be the designated driver! :tongue: flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:56 AM


Whew! That was fun. bigsmile How about we all go out for a drink now? drinker


Dang , I dont do liquer but Im game for a ginger ale...
Jameson goes great with ginger ale bigsmile you take what you want, I'll have the restdrinker

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:57 AM



Whew! That was fun. bigsmile How about we all go out for a drink now? drinker


Dang , I dont do liquer but Im game for a ginger ale...


Awesome! You can be the designated driver! :tongue: flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou



deal...

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:04 AM
This is a double edge sword!
We have always Celebrated Christmas *CHRIST-MAS* In our homes and public. But because Muslims or people from any other country move here, we are suppose to give it up.
I don't think so.

We are expected to let them practice their own religion, so why should we be forced to hide ours!!

If they don't like it... go home.
We can not practice Christianity in Muslim countries..will get a death sentence for doing so.

Live and let live.

But no, practicing ones religion does NOT cause a drop in a childs grades. it is taken into consideration and adjusted for.