Topic: Christmas vs Holiday
Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:16 AM

The actual CHRISTMAS holiday is taken from the words CHRISTS MASS.. so it does involve christ.....but that is besides the issue.

We cannot expect to include every celebration and every holiday but that does not mean that we should make all holidays invisible by lumping them together either. I believe parents can pull together in communities where the religion is something other than christian and ask their schools to include programs that reflect that. I am sure many native american schools probably have native american themes,, same is true in schools where the predominant student is of a christian background. I dont agree with excluding people based upon religion, but I do believe people of all religions should be able to participate in programs without feeling intimidated or discriminated against just because the program reflects someone elses beliefs or interests.
you're not living in my world. Yours sure sounds nice tho.

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:16 AM




[ If our school had a Hanukkah program, Id have no issue with my child participating or having to participate if all the other children had to as well.



What if it was a Yule show and the children sang praises to the Moon Goddess?


Id have no issue with it honestly. Because I dont believe in a Moon Goddess, the songs would hold no meaning and merely be songs,,like anything I hear on the radio.


Then you are in the minority. Most Christians would have a problem with the Moon Goddess being sung to by their children. Chrisianity specifically prohibits the worship of any other gods.


Well, this is probably a debate for the religious forums, but I believe worship is something that starts in the heart. If I am singing a song as part of my educational requirement , that is a far cry from me worshiping anyone. Worship comes from a choice of the heart. I sing danny boy, but IM not irish, I can sing o Hannukah , though I am not jewish. I can hum, I kissed a girl, even though I havent and wouldnt,,,,etc,,,,

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:17 AM
My point is that children that do not believe in Jesus should not be forced to sing praises to the Messiah or the fail the class.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:19 AM

The actual CHRISTMAS holiday is taken from the words CHRISTS MASS.. so it does involve christ.....but that is besides the issue.

We cannot expect to include every celebration and every holiday but that does not mean that we should make all holidays invisible by lumping them together either. I believe parents can pull together in communities where the religion is something other than christian and ask their schools to include programs that reflect that. I am sure many native american schools probably have native american themes,, same is true in schools where the predominant student is of a christian background. I dont agree with excluding people based upon religion, but I do believe people of all religions should be able to participate in programs without feeling intimidated or discriminated against just because the program reflects someone elses beliefs or interests.


We are not arguing about the meaning of Christmas. It is a Christian holiday and, yes, Christ is the reason you celebrate it. That's really not the point.

And, as Jill already pointed out, a lot of schools do a holiday show where each religion is represented. There are Christian song as well as Jewish and other songs. No one is asking Christians to stop celebrating Christmas. But, when you are talking about a public school venue, all religious beliefs need to be included. If you want to exclude other religions, go to your church. That's what it's there for. To practice your beliefs with other believers. Why is this so hard to do?

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:19 AM

My point is that children that do not believe in Jesus should not be forced to sing praises to the Messiah or the fail the class.


I respect that. I guess we differ in what we define as praising vs just singing. If I dont believe in something,, singing about it isnt praising it,,its just saying some words to a catchy melody,,

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:22 AM


Well, this is probably a debate for the religious forums, but I believe worship is something that starts in the heart. If I am singing a song as part of my educational requirement , that is a far cry from me worshiping anyone. Worship comes from a choice of the heart. I sing danny boy, but IM not irish, I can sing o Hannukah , though I am not jewish. I can hum, I kissed a girl, even though I havent and wouldnt,,,,etc,,,,


It is a debate for the religious forums. I don't know many Christians who believe it is okay to sing praises to other gods just because you don't mean it in your heart.

In fact, that's why most Christian martyrs died. Because they refused to acknowledge any other god - even to lie about it just to save their own lives.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:22 AM


My point is that children that do not believe in Jesus should not be forced to sing praises to the Messiah or the fail the class.


I respect that. I guess we differ in what we define as praising vs just singing. If I dont believe in something,, singing about it isnt praising it,,its just saying some words to a catchy melody,,


The Bible states otherwise.

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:24 AM



Well, this is probably a debate for the religious forums, but I believe worship is something that starts in the heart. If I am singing a song as part of my educational requirement , that is a far cry from me worshiping anyone. Worship comes from a choice of the heart. I sing danny boy, but IM not irish, I can sing o Hannukah , though I am not jewish. I can hum, I kissed a girl, even though I havent and wouldnt,,,,etc,,,,


It is a debate for the religious forums. I don't know many Christians who believe it is okay to sing praises to other gods just because you don't mean it in your heart.

In fact, that's why most Christian martyrs died. Because they refused to acknowledge any other god - even to lie about it just to save their own lives.



I dont think aknowleding an Existing belief in something is the same as believing in it oneself. I think we agree to disagree on the interpretation of this one...

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:26 AM
Just an example:

I live in a town where only members of the KKK live. Every year they hold a big party and sit around singing songs about how they torture and kill minorities. I join in because that's just the prevailing belief where I live - I don't really mean it or believe it - I just want to be a part of the group and not make a stink about it.

Is that okay?


Words are powerful.

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:29 AM
What's the big deal, We had Halloween, Valentines day, Easter, Christmas etc. etc. In School as a Kid it was fun, even if you were Satanic??

If any other religion wants to play it up, Let them have a go at it.

Our Founding Fathers would be discusted at we have become.

Americans should speak english, Americans should have parties in school.

If someone want's to praise another form of God, which is pretty much all the same god, Let them get together and put on a play, Maybe one where they re-create 911 on stage???? If that makes them happy!:wink:

lilott's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:29 AM
Political correctness should be outlawed.

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:29 AM

Just an example:

I live in a town where only members of the KKK live. Every year they hold a big party and sit around singing songs about how they torture and kill minorities. I join in because that's just the prevailing belief where I live - I don't really mean it or believe it - I just want to be a part of the group and not make a stink about it.

Is that okay?


Words are powerful.



words of peace and joy,, are not the same as words promoting violence and killing,, I think that is a bad analogy

If the songs were singing about crucifying the lord or killing allah, I would agree with you,,but none of the songs the op listed are ANTI anyone , they just happen to be about peace and love and mention Christ(as in Christmas).

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:30 AM

What's the big deal, We had Halloween, Valentines day, Easter, Christmas etc. etc. In School as a Kid it was fun, even if you were Satanic??

If any other religion wants to play it up, Let them have a go at it.

Our Founding Fathers would be discusted at we have become.

Americans should speak english, Americans should have parties in school.

If someone want's to praise another form of God, which is pretty much all the same god, Let them get together and put on a play, Maybe one where they re-create 911 on stage???? If that makes them happy!:wink:
actually, this school did NOT have a halloween party this year. They have been banned.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:33 AM


Just an example:

I live in a town where only members of the KKK live. Every year they hold a big party and sit around singing songs about how they torture and kill minorities. I join in because that's just the prevailing belief where I live - I don't really mean it or believe it - I just want to be a part of the group and not make a stink about it.

Is that okay?


Words are powerful.



words of peace and joy,, are not the same as words promoting violence and killing,, I think that is a bad analogy

If the songs were singing about crucifying the lord or killing allah, I would agree with you,,but none of the songs the op listed are ANTI anyone , they just happen to be about peace and love and mention Christ(as in Christmas).


Again, this is prbably better suited to the religion forum because I am not talking specifically about what songs the kids are allowed to sing. What I'm talking about is the idea that the songs you sing and the words you say don't really matter as long as you don't believe them to be true. That was your point when you stated that you would allow your child to sing Pagan worship songs, was it not?

My point is that words to matter. Very much. But, this is off topic. Sorry.

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:35 AM


What's the big deal, We had Halloween, Valentines day, Easter, Christmas etc. etc. In School as a Kid it was fun, even if you were Satanic??

If any other religion wants to play it up, Let them have a go at it.

Our Founding Fathers would be discusted at we have become.

Americans should speak english, Americans should have parties in school.

If someone want's to praise another form of God, which is pretty much all the same god, Let them get together and put on a play, Maybe one where they re-create 911 on stage???? If that makes them happy!:wink:
actually, this school did NOT have a halloween party this year. They have been banned.
Do Like I did when my kids were young, Get a petition going, You would be surptised how many people will sign it, Then present it to the town if Their meetings are on TVbigsmile

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:36 AM
msharmony, words are indeed very powerful. You may see it as just singing along with a melody, but like Ruth pointed out... what about singing about killing and the KKK? if it's just singing with the melody, what does it matter what it's promoting?
When the words of the songs are "Glory to the new born king" and "praises to our king of kings" that is singing his praises. That is worshipping.
I'm not trying to stop the Christians. I'm just trying to make sure that kids in a public school all included and not punished because of their beliefs or lack of.

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:37 AM
Can't we all just get along??:wink: happy

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:37 AM

Can't we all just get along??:wink: happy
make medevil

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:38 AM



Just an example:

I live in a town where only members of the KKK live. Every year they hold a big party and sit around singing songs about how they torture and kill minorities. I join in because that's just the prevailing belief where I live - I don't really mean it or believe it - I just want to be a part of the group and not make a stink about it.

Is that okay?


Words are powerful.



words of peace and joy,, are not the same as words promoting violence and killing,, I think that is a bad analogy

If the songs were singing about crucifying the lord or killing allah, I would agree with you,,but none of the songs the op listed are ANTI anyone , they just happen to be about peace and love and mention Christ(as in Christmas).


Again, this is prbably better suited to the religion forum because I am not talking specifically about what songs the kids are allowed to sing. What I'm talking about is the idea that the songs you sing and the words you say don't really matter as long as you don't believe them to be true. That was your point when you stated that you would allow your child to sing Pagan worship songs, was it not?

My point is that words to matter. Very much. But, this is off topic. Sorry.



OF course words matter, but when it comes to music they dont NECESSARILY reflect the beliefs of the person singing them. If I sing about Santa Claus, it is the MOOD of the song that I am singing about, ,not praising a fictional santa.

Songs of peace and joy or love ,regardless of the words involved, are still about a message that is positive and should be embraced. A song about murder or killing, would obviously have a totally different mood, and I would be opposed to teaching it to children regardless of the words behind it.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:38 AM

Can't we all just get along??:wink: happy


NO! rant


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