Topic: pees me off when ladys say where have all the good men gone!
icecream21's photo
Sat 12/05/09 08:23 PM
some women long for nice guys and some just can't respect nice guys. I think its both women and men. When people know your nice they can take you for a fool or take you for granted. They will lie and try to get away with what you will let them. People can be a**holes. I have a policy now of being nice (because thats just me)but be cautious at the same time and don't be too fast to throw pearls before swine. I try to take it slow with people before I judge and now really observe and listen to people when they speak to get a sense of who they are. Im just tired of getting involved with people that can't appreciate my generosity and openess. So I have to be a little more careful..with both women and guys that wanna hang out with me.

no photo
Sun 12/13/09 10:17 PM
have you every thought that maybe that is the best excuse they could come up with for being lonely:explode

rumplescat's photo
Wed 12/30/09 05:35 PM
Edited by rumplescat on Wed 12/30/09 05:37 PM
I wouldn't be able to go up to a guy and hit on them, at least not without a drink or two in me first...and I don't drink all that often, so what I'm saying is, you guys do have it rough, I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.

special_guy's photo
Wed 12/30/09 05:38 PM

I wouldn't be able to go up to a guy and hit on them, at least not without a drink or two in me first...and I don't drink all that often, so what I'm saying is, you guys do have it rough, I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.


But you might look good...just wearing my shoes

rumplescat's photo
Wed 12/30/09 05:41 PM
not sure if that was meant to be cute or perverted....guess it's up to me to decide..

special_guy's photo
Wed 12/30/09 05:50 PM
LOL

Whichever makes you laugh

=)

rumplescat's photo
Wed 12/30/09 05:57 PM
that would depend on my mood at the time...

butterfly_kiss's photo
Fri 01/01/10 08:28 AM

women dont want good guys or nice guys. They'll say the do, but for the most part, they are all full of crap.


This is not true for all women. I want a nice guy that is compatiable with me. Still searching, still hoping and not just given in to the headbutten, bad mouth, disrespectful, deadbeat that thinks that because he talks the talk he can walk the walk. A real "good" man knows when he has a good woman and treats her that way.

TxsSun's photo
Fri 01/01/10 08:51 AM
I think I have met quite a few nice guys.
But only one has been able to keep my attention smitten

Quietman_2009's photo
Fri 01/01/10 09:04 AM
let's not confuse being nice with being a wuss

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 01/01/10 09:09 AM

I was looking for a nice guy.....and I waited til I found him.


drinker

butterfly_kiss's photo
Fri 01/01/10 03:24 PM

let's not confuse being nice with being a wuss

Now see that is the misconception. A strong man can be good, nice, man and not be a wuss. There is nothing wrong with a man being in tune with his lady. Some of us women are strong and want a man strong enough to be with us and yet gentle enough to remember we are ladies. Maybe someone who thinks in this way is just threated by the strength of a women who can be his equal.

Quietman_2009's photo
Fri 01/01/10 03:28 PM


let's not confuse being nice with being a wuss

Now see that is the misconception. A strong man can be good, nice, man and not be a wuss. There is nothing wrong with a man being in tune with his lady. Some of us women are strong and want a man strong enough to be with us and yet gentle enough to remember we are ladies. Maybe someone who thinks in this way is just threated by the strength of a women who can be his equal.


maybe so

strong women threaten me

papersmile is threatening to kick my azz all the time



franshade's photo
Fri 01/01/10 03:28 PM

women dont want good guys or nice guys. They'll say the do, but for the most part, they are all full of crap.


Why don't you enlighten us Time? laugh

You seem so well versed in this topic laugh

*if women are full of crap, why waste your time :laughing:

mygenerationbaby's photo
Wed 01/06/10 08:21 PM
Men have a dark side. Women believe this is true. We can accept that fact, because we have to. It's like working with disabilities. The ones who put out some effort (in the face of this inherited flaw) are the ones women will respect for trying. But, all in all, I do believe, that women believe, there is no fixing the dark side in men. (Yes, some women have one too, but it's much less frightening). You dig?

no photo
Wed 01/06/10 09:25 PM
Women don't just want a nice guy, they also at times like a bit of a playful bad guy, their protector, their TAKE ME DOWN type once a week,, yet they damn sure want the inner BEAST to always stay CAGED in times of anger,,as many have been through hell and back through abusive guys. Yet they have NO-NEED for a guy who is their YES DEAR
24 and seven. Wild---yet tamible, hot----yet wanting.
Strong---yet weak in her hands Hero---yet able to stand back.
Loving----yet giving in return.
The above fits MOST ladies who really want a man.


Many men and women PLAY on here in this vast search for their BEST to find who they feel could be a love made in their hearts.

Yet MANY lose their possible other, because of getting LOST in that game of staying back,,and waiting. Instead of having that drive to forge striaght into her,,and lock her in his arms forever..
I have lost like THIS,,on here,,,and I feel I am losing still.
I hate the idea of calling LOOKING,,,a game,,yet on here.
It comes down to many's ego's and their TRUTHS as to what THEY REALLY WANT IN LIFE!

I talk to much,,goodnight..

BonnyMiss's photo
Thu 01/07/10 10:28 AM

Women like horrible bastards, and thats why i am so loved. You wanna meet someone? Headbutt the next woman you see in the face and then kick her in the chuff when she hits the floor. Trust me.


Had you not hooked up with the Pinky girl you would have been THE ideal man for me.Tell me, do you burp loudly as well? love love love love love love

beautyfrompain's photo
Thu 01/07/10 11:00 AM
Drop the y and add the i
****LADIES****

Where have all the good spellers gone?

4974's photo
Thu 01/07/10 05:10 PM
nice guys? i like and appreciate a nice guy. and yes there is alot of them out there

Texasmike1967's photo
Sun 02/14/10 07:26 AM
Nice guys tend to get their hearts stomped on when all is said and done