have you every thought that maybe that is the best excuse they could come up with for being lonely:

I'm new here but i do have an opion on where are all the good men 35 to 55...maybe the question should be(what am I doing wrong not to attract the men 35 to 55!!) Most people myself included are looking for that special friend that might turn out to be the love of your life. Personally I find a lot of ladies that are fantastic but not what i am looking for, being close to 50 I know what I want and I really don't want to settle. Maybe you think like me and you don't want to settle either..so the answer is easy YOU just haven't found the right guy....