Point made and I agree. Just noting that I am not that women.

And yet the divorce effects and involves so many more people than the original act of marriage did. The longer together, the more involved besides the couple divorcing.

Duh!!! Ok men. I know life is not like the movies. Please, if it were all us ladies would be so luv struck that these sights would be dead. What I am saying is the love that the couple shared in "The Notebook" is not just in the movies and I want to know where there is a guy who gets it. Have you seen the movie?
I am not expecting prince charming or Romeo, or even Brad Pitt's younger body. I am not asking for a physical thing. This is an emotional thing. If you can't understand what it is I am saying than my point is made. Men need to get a clue. I am not the only women who so much desires this connection with her man. Sit down watch the movie start to finish and see if you get it.
Trust me, when I find it that will be the luckiest man alive. I have so much to offer him.

2010...YHEA!!! New year with new adventures. Think positive and remember..."Attitude is a Choice".

Yes and nO. Ithink it holds meaning for the couple if, and only if, both value it's meaning and respect the institute of marriage and divorce. Mind you I am the product of a married middle class couple who divorced. I was raised by my mom and her companion who have been together for 35+ yrs and find no value in a piece of paper. However, I married and did find value until he betrayed me in his heart. So Again I believe that it holds value only if the couple feels it holds value.

Now see that is the misconception. A strong man can be good, nice, man and not be a wuss. There is nothing wrong with a man being in tune with his lady. Some of us women are strong and want a man strong enough to be with us and yet gentle enough to remember we are ladies. Maybe someone who thinks in this way is just threated by the strength of a women who can be his equal.

I agree if that was what I am doing. Have you seen the movie? Are you trying to tell me that there are no men out there who can love a women as this man loves her? On that point I would also disagree. I have seen it many times. As I have seen other love that isn't as deep. But dating is a process. I just choose not to settle for what will not make me happy and in turn not make the relationship work. What has happened that people do not believe in this.

Very interesting. I do not find the love that is expressed in this movie is a fanatsy. In the line of work I am I see many couples and I have seen this love many times. So it does exist and that is why I long for it. if I were to long for fantasy I would long for a man who only looked as though he stepped of the cover of a movie screen and who always knew exactly what to say and do. That is not what I look for. Just a true, deep, committed love that will endure. Guess to much to ask of some men. That is why I am still looking.

Very good answer.

This is not true for all women. I want a nice guy that is compatiable with me. Still searching, still hoping and not just given in to the headbutten, bad mouth, disrespectful, deadbeat that thinks that because he talks the talk he can walk the walk. A real "good" man knows when he has a good woman and treats her that way.

My mind is not in the gutter with regards to this movie. I am the kind of woman who looks beyond the physical. Not say that it does not count. But in the long haul of things, it is the affair of the heart that matters most.

Very true, it is not out there but in you. It is in me. I can give this love. Just looking for a man who also has it in him...that is hard to find.

Some states take longer to divorce than others. Not always is someone who is seperated not done with that marriage. But it is true, you are either married or divorced. And you are either seperated & divorcing OR just seperated.

See that is what is wrong with relationships. Think with you the heart not your other parts.

Looking for a good man. I live just over the Wisconsin state line.

Grew up in Liberty. Now live in southern Wisconsin.

I am looking for a man who understands the love in the movie "The Notebook". Even though my friends say it is just a movie, I believe that it can be real. Without all that drama. I'm talking the deep love he has for her.
Is there any man that gets it? If you live in the corner of South-eastern Wisconsin I would love to talk with you.

I am looking to meet single guys in my area to date. Check out my profile and let me know if interested.

BIG RED FLAGS...
1) wanting to send naked photos
2) saying how much they love you
3) asking for money

This I know. I still sled, dress up for halloween and gret excited over Christmas. I plan to turn 40 in a blaze of fun...my birthday is in the summer.