I so agree.I once talked to a man that told me that all men cheat.I always told him he didn't know what he was talking about.He is no longer my friend.Don't need a man like that for a friend.

i'm with you on that one!

i agree!

I'm with u

I can usually tell if someone is a cheater with in the first few moments I meet a person. Most all people have the same instinct but ignore it when they see things such as for men ,the looks and for women , money or bad boy.

People cheat for many reason but mostly due to the false promise that the "grass is green" Weather its sex or the whole relationship things do get old after awhile problems arise and for many it seems easier to just start over with what seems to be prefect. Of course in the end cheating just leads to broken hearts,family,self esteem and the effort that ones uses to hide this act from other half is much more then what most likly would have been needed to repair to some degree the broken relationship to begain with. In the end most ppl who cheat are left with empty promise,shame,and shattered dreams of what they have throwen away.

The answer is simply that men want to be like the lion in the jungle bangin everyt female that he can take down. Human society doesn't approve of this so guys adapted to this idea that a man should only be with one woman at one time. Then woman came up with this ******** thing called true love. Love is real and it feels great but true love doesn't exist in the heart of a man. Well, maybe in a gay man it might. Show me a couple that's been married for a lifetime without cheating and I'll show you the biggest ****ing liars ever. My grandpa was married to my grandma for 49 years and left her for a 48 year old lady (that's one year younger than my mom)

the world has always been crazy like this. I don't know why all you women don't except the fact that guys are guys and you should look for the best and be glad the one you like the most sleeps in your bed. My gf loves me to death and she thinks I am gods gift to the world. If I stay with her forever and keep her happy why shouldn't I be able to have what I want?

Why can't I have my fairytale? Which would be sleeping with anyone I want. Who's to take that right away from me? I bust my *** trying to please her but in the end I'm left short of happiness. I could leave her and seek out a life that would make me happy but what about her? I care about her but i'm not selling myself short of what I want. I just keep it to myself and we're both happy. And also, the only reason I sleep with other women is because the sex is lame and her head is awful. I've tried for the past year and a half to change it or help her get out of her shell but it doesn't help. Sleeping with others is my last resort but that's what it's come to.

well my grand parents were together 60 years before grandpa died..FAITHFULLY i might add...and speak for yourself on the whole men are like lions thing some of us are a lot more mature than that...your just describing yourself/values/morals...
good luck gettin a date...lol

I too have never cheated... But I researched this subject quite a bit. Most of the cheating people I asked, Said they did it because "she would do things that his girlfriend wouldn't", and or "carefree sex without the emotional hangups of a relationship like resentment from arguments". Or my favorite... "trying to punish him because he was an a-hole to her" The way I look at it... If any of those are reasons... Then they're in the wrong relationship to begin with! They should end it there before they cheat! Why they don't? Usually because of a very selfish reason like they have money, or some kind of hookup.

Call4agoodtime..sheesh I hope your g/f reads this thread...I'm not judging you, but I sure the heck don't agree.

Wow You seem adolescent and cowardly.

If you don't like the girl you are with, break up and find someone more suited to your needs. You are unscrupulous.

How about this? Be honest and ask her for an open relationship! What would she say? She probably would not want to stay with you; therefore, why treat her so badly behind her back? If you know she would leave then you are "enslaving" her. Give her the choice to stay with you and your cheating ways or for her to find a real man.

It's sad that she thinks you are "the greatest" when in actuality you are far from that characteristic.

Either find someone you truly love and stay committed or do not become exclusive if you feel the need to "F" everything that walks.

well sorry to tell you, but as hard as it is to find, not every guy out there is an arrogant ******* like yourself. believe it or not, there are guys out there that wants more then a life of being with a girl whos ugly and gives bad sex, although you shouldn't be complaining because i wouldn't be surprised if she thinks the same about you..

your the type of guy who's too gutless to end the type of relationship decent guys want because shes the right girl who you could spend your life with and start a family. but pitty for you, you cant see past her bad looks/sex. to have a satis-factual relationship she doesnt need to be the hottest thing that walked the planet and ****s like a porn star.. cause if you think like that.. your going to be the lonely 50 year old loser thats had nothing in there life then broken relationships - if not that.

And you treating your girlfriend happy and thinking you deserve the same, with an attitude like that she deserves to be with someone else that isnt a selfish ******* who only thinks about himself, even though you try to give off the impression you 'care about her'.

i suggest you grow a ****ing dick, step into reality and instead of giving all guys this bad reputation that you've gained for yourself, stop being an ******* and start to treat women with the respect they deserve. and if you dont - you deserve to be the 50 year old oser thats had nothing in there life then broken relationships...

B.T.W. Anyone that cheats on you? Is F-ing nuts! I've seen your profile. I would never leave you. OR CHEAT!

well thank you :) :)

You're very welcome!

now THAT's the way to suck up

It's not sucking up... It's honesty. Quietman... You're not very quiet, are you? Lol!

just kidding

Boy, are you in for a rude awakening someday...MAYBE! I can't possibly add to the wisdom meted out in earlier posts. Take a good hard look at yourself before it's too late. And it's later than you think! Good luck!

Totally cool bro.