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Topic: Cheaters...
msharmony's photo
Sat 11/21/09 11:05 AM

Harder question is to define what cheating is. Sex with somebody out of the relationship, obviously (unless you're swingers or something and approved of). Any physical act that you wouldn't do with your own parents, grandmother, uncle, etc; most likely. Flirting, in person or online, text, etc; gray area. What if other person knows you're in a relationship and that it won't be acted on? Watching porn? Seeing nudity in a movie and liking it? Where exactly is that fine line?



Yeah, that was my point too, I guess its important to talk about the individuals boundaries up front so there is not confusion later. My ex watched porn and I didnt consider it cheating(it was two dimensional and therefore not of any consequence,, in my opinion). My ex, however, was upset that I didnt un register from the dating sites I had been member of since before we met. Of course he never asked me to unregister or I would have but once our relationship fell apart,, guess who became the unfaithful spouse in his eyes?

ujGearhead's photo
Sat 11/21/09 11:14 AM
Hmmmmm. I never unregistered from any of the dating sites either. Been with my gf for over a year now (that I met here) and she still has an account here. Topic never came up with us though.

catseyes1's photo
Sat 11/21/09 01:51 PM
1 word STUPIDITY!

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