Topic: Why be in a relationship at all?
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Wed 11/18/09 12:48 PM
For shiz and giggles.:tongue:

catseyes1's photo
Wed 11/18/09 02:02 PM

:heart: Why be in a relationship at all?:heart:


Good Point - Some people like the companionship and some people don't.

Scrittore's photo
Wed 11/18/09 04:50 PM
Edited by Scrittore on Wed 11/18/09 04:59 PM

:heart: Why be in a relationship at all?:heart:


Pff... biological imperative? I'm told that they're worth it if you find the right person.

A lot of my friends, the ones who do very badly with relationships, behave like binge drinkers; they get carried away, go over the top and wake up in the morning feeling like death, covered in bruises and cuts and vowing to never drink again.

And then they drink too much again.

And then they wonder why they're health's gone to soddery.

It works if you can relax and take things in reasonable moderation, otherwise you're just in for a headache and too many regrets.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 11/18/09 04:53 PM
My self I enjoy being in one just like most do when they are going good.

But then at times I sit back and watch some and wonder why in the hell they are in one by what I have seen.

Delta117's photo
Wed 11/18/09 04:58 PM
Because LOVE in a relationship has gotta be the best feeling of all. That butterfly feeling you get everytime you see them and hear their voice. The fact that you can't get them out of your head...It truly is the greatest. It's different than family love its unconditional; its you and them against the world...thats why you should be in a relationship.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 11/18/09 05:30 PM

For shiz and giggles.:tongue:
laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 11/18/09 05:30 PM


:heart: Why be in a relationship at all?:heart:


Good Point - Some people like the companionship and some people don't.
smile2 True:thumbsup:

wux's photo
Wed 11/18/09 05:31 PM
I usually enter for the oral sex part.

mscherbear's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:47 PM
Because I don't want to have to kiss BOB noway

misstina2's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:50 PM
:heart: love to hear your answer:heart:

dbh1966's photo
Wed 11/18/09 08:00 PM
Immature Love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you. ~Erich Fromm~

I always liked this quote. smile2

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Wed 11/18/09 08:35 PM
I don't think i want a relationship now after this last person.. but ya never know if the real person comes along then im all for it

dbh1966's photo
Wed 11/18/09 08:37 PM
Edited by dbh1966 on Wed 11/18/09 08:38 PM

I don't think i want a relationship now after this last person.. but ya never know if the real person comes along then im all for it


Fortunately I believe there are real and honest people still out there........somewhere.

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Wed 11/18/09 08:38 PM


I don't think i want a relationship now after this last person.. but ya never know if the real person comes along then im all for it


Fortunately I believe there are real and honest people still out there........somewhere.
well if there is send one my way i all i get are jerks liars an well ***** lol

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Wed 11/18/09 08:41 PM



I don't think i want a relationship now after this last person.. but ya never know if the real person comes along then im all for it


Fortunately I believe there are real and honest people still out there........somewhere.
well if there is send one my way i all i get are jerks liars an well ***** lol

Hold on the rides not over but what an experience! flowers

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Wed 11/18/09 08:43 PM




I don't think i want a relationship now after this last person.. but ya never know if the real person comes along then im all for it


Fortunately I believe there are real and honest people still out there........somewhere.
well if there is send one my way i all i get are jerks liars an well ***** lol

Hold on the rides not over but what an experience! flowers
oh i know i been there done that too many times think i would learn from the last ones well think this one really gonna make me think more about stuffbigsmile

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Wed 11/18/09 11:30 PM
Edited by Cross_Knight_12 on Wed 11/18/09 11:32 PM
Why be in a relationship, for the very simple reason that above all else you enjoy the company of that specific person. Yes some people may say the sex, the romance, and all the other things; but the one best reason that can lead to a lasting relationship is to just enjoy each other. Have common interest; or if you don't find things to talk about, your partner should be more than just that, she/he should be your best friend too. Hopefully the relationship will lead to marriage and kids, but if not just enjoy each other; that's really all that is needed. This is my view and from most of the ones based on this principle that i have seen, it works.

TNLakeLady's photo
Thu 11/19/09 05:59 AM
Not sure..depends on what kind of relationship.

You can have a sexual relationship for adventure and fun..this can also be addictive in nature.

You can have the romantic relationship with candles, flowers and poems..this can also just be infatuation.

Neither one of these seem to last long..

Then you can have a serious relationship with someone that cares deeply and passionately for you and makes your life more positive and gives it meaning.

Now, if i could find all of that wrapped up in a package that would be the ideal relationship..lol...

msharmony's photo
Thu 11/19/09 06:04 AM
Because if its the right person, its similar to hitting the jackpot and who doesnt wanna win? It improves life to have a partner by your side and if you have children it also is shown to improve theirs to see that example and have that foundation...

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 11/19/09 08:02 AM
Picture perfect memories,
Scattered all around the floor.
Reaching for the phone cause, I can’t fight it any more.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.

It’s a quarter after one, I’m all alone and I need you now.
Said I wouldn’t call but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I don’t know how I can do without, I just need you now.

Another shot of whiskey, can’t stop looking at the door.
Wishing you’d come sweeping in the way you did before.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.

It’s a quarter after one, I’m a little drunk,
And I need you now.
Said I wouldn’t call but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I don’t know how I can do without, I just need you now.

Yes I’d rather hurt than feel nothing at all.
It’s a quarter after one, I’m all alone and I need you now.
And I said I wouldn’t call but I’m a little drunk and I need you now.
And I don’t know how I can do without, I just need you now.
I just need you now.
Oh baby I need you now.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eB7T3lJ3dZ4