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Thu 11/19/09 07:27 AM
I have small addictions...

I could drive for hours and listen to music.

I don't like food..I just eat to live..

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Thu 11/19/09 07:26 AM

I like rubbing her Cl!!!!!!t.While fuukkingsurprised

omg boy...love

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Thu 11/19/09 06:05 AM
Right outside Knoxville..hi everyone!

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Thu 11/19/09 05:59 AM
Not sure..depends on what kind of relationship.

You can have a sexual relationship for adventure and fun..this can also be addictive in nature.

You can have the romantic relationship with candles, flowers and poems..this can also just be infatuation.

Neither one of these seem to last long..

Then you can have a serious relationship with someone that cares deeply and passionately for you and makes your life more positive and gives it meaning.

Now, if i could find all of that wrapped up in a package that would be the ideal relationship..lol...

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Thu 11/19/09 05:44 AM
well..talked it over..agreed that we need better communication..the saga will continue for now..

I know... I am stupidfrustrated

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Mon 11/16/09 06:48 PM

Sounds like your plans of having time off at the same time upset his plans. Probably thought he could get a bit of time with you and the rest of his time with someone else.
You caught him off guard and he is scrambling.

Could be.. not sure.. he was the one that initiated and said that he was off for 3 days..but..I will have to see how it goes when i call him on it..

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Mon 11/16/09 06:44 PM



sounds like he is holding out to see if he can do better and if not he will call you with some kind of b/s...move on before you get too involved...

Probably is..you can never please some men..they will look around no matter what..grass is always greener..lol






yes it seems that way...till winter comes back around and then it browns again...


That is a great way to look at it..:thumbsup:

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Mon 11/16/09 06:35 PM

sounds like he is holding out to see if he can do better and if not he will call you with some kind of b/s...move on before you get too involved...

Probably is..you can never please some men..they will look around no matter what..grass is always greener..lol

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Mon 11/16/09 06:20 PM

no prob , this is someone who has been there and done that drinks


Oh no..sorry hun..I hate that for you..and anyone else that has had to deal with this..

Im meeting him tomorrow to talk it over going to lay the cards on the table and will probably not like the answer, but gotta let go sometime..

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Mon 11/16/09 05:47 PM
Everyone seems to think so..don't know what I am holding on to..Thanks for the advice..flowerforyou

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Sun 11/15/09 12:55 AM

Ha I just saw your profile and your gorgeous and he's nuts!laugh

Thanks for the advice...and for the complimentblushing

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Sat 11/14/09 11:39 PM

http://www.neaq.org/education_and_activities/games_and_activities/activities/counting_the_fish_in_the_sea.php

laugh laugh Look how many there are.


Hilarious..rofl

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Sat 11/14/09 08:33 PM



you know the old saying...you can't get blood from a turnip (usually applies to money) but it can apply to answers. You can't get answers from someone not willing to give them. TRUST ME...I know frustrated laugh


The more I think about it, the more I think I am in control of this situation and should just lay the cards on the table and confront him and see. If he runs, I am not losing much..


that's how I am. I put it on the table...sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. But at least you are taking control of your life.

But if it is bothering this much, then he needs to know how you feel. If it's not for him, then that is his choice. But at least you would know and not put yourself through the "what ifs"...ya know?
Yeah it is the what-ifs that are ruling my life..I hate to not know where I stand..but tonight it was almost like he got ticked off for no reason and quit texting and talking to me..He closes up when he is mad and I don't hear from him for a while..

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Sat 11/14/09 08:26 PM

you know the old saying...you can't get blood from a turnip (usually applies to money) but it can apply to answers. You can't get answers from someone not willing to give them. TRUST ME...I know frustrated laugh


The more I think about it, the more I think I am in control of this situation and should just lay the cards on the table and confront him and see. If he runs, I am not losing much..

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Sat 11/14/09 08:25 PM







OMG you're dating my ex!scared best of luck to you


OK, that's twice you've made me laugh this week!!laugh One more and you can join my team!
laugh I'm not kidding! she described him to a T


awww sorry you had to go through this too..It's almost like he got ticked off somewhere in the middle of texting me and just stopped..I don't like all the texting and I tried to call but he ignored me..I can understand if he doesn't feel like talking cause he just got off from work, but he could at least texted me back and said okay well talk tomorrow or something
lol what's his name? I swear it's him. It was brutal. Still taking it's toll.

lol...can't name him, but he lives in TN..was your guy from TN? I know it is brutal..and it make me want to get brutal with him! lol
nope not him... but they must have went to the same "how to be a grade A azzhole" classes. They prob cheated off each other's tests. :angry:

AGREEDlaugh

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Sat 11/14/09 08:18 PM





OMG you're dating my ex!scared best of luck to you


OK, that's twice you've made me laugh this week!!laugh One more and you can join my team!
laugh I'm not kidding! she described him to a T


awww sorry you had to go through this too..It's almost like he got ticked off somewhere in the middle of texting me and just stopped..I don't like all the texting and I tried to call but he ignored me..I can understand if he doesn't feel like talking cause he just got off from work, but he could at least texted me back and said okay well talk tomorrow or something
lol what's his name? I swear it's him. It was brutal. Still taking it's toll.

lol...can't name him, but he lives in TN..was your guy from TN? I know it is brutal..and it make me want to get brutal with him! lol

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Sat 11/14/09 08:15 PM


I'm in a relationship and having a lot of trouble with communication with this man. He lives a couple hours from me so I only see him once a week..we talk by texting mainly. We may go a couple days without talking and then he will text me out of the blue..I have came to understand he wants space and give him plenty.We have been getting along pretty well up until tonight..he texts and says he is off 3 days and wants to see me at the beginning of the week. So I text back and say that would be great I am off too..what day would be good..he says any..so I text back Mon or Tues would work for me..He never texts me back. After an hour i text and say where would be a good place to meet..he says nothing and I can see he is online on IM so I ask on there and he just logs off..I call an hour later and no answer..I mean I have seen that he is online so I know he is not asleep...At this point I am through trying to get an answer..
I feel like he is avoiding me and he was the one who ask me..

Now..I have no idea how to plan..and don't understand why he does this sometimes..I guess I should just wait and see if he calls me or texts..but what would make him not answer and act like this?

FYI I usually don't pursue when he gets this way but it involves making a plan and I would just like to know what is going on..


He has another relationship. He fits you in. Unfortunately, it happened to me one time. Those are the signs. If you are okay with that & not exclusive then that's cool. He's a player, unfortunately....


I have suspected that he is talking to other people because he is on dating sites like this one and I talk to others too and we have not talked about being exclusive. So maybe I shouldn't expect any better..I just feel it is a little disrespectful to ask and then leave someone hanging..

Not sure I want to play this game anymore..

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Sat 11/14/09 08:11 PM



OMG you're dating my ex!scared best of luck to you


OK, that's twice you've made me laugh this week!!laugh One more and you can join my team!
laugh I'm not kidding! she described him to a T


awww sorry you had to go through this too..It's almost like he got ticked off somewhere in the middle of texting me and just stopped..I don't like all the texting and I tried to call but he ignored me..I can understand if he doesn't feel like talking cause he just got off from work, but he could at least texted me back and said okay well talk tomorrow or something

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Sat 11/14/09 07:58 PM
Yeah I have a bad feeling..but everything is great when we are together..seems like when we are apart it goes downhill..He is hard to talk to and we don't discuss a lot of personal stuff. Wish I didn't have feelings going on and it wouldn't be a hard decision to make..

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Sat 11/14/09 07:49 PM

Somethings rotting here! You sure he isn't married? Has he came back to you off and on if there sex involved? Hmmmmmmmmmm....


Nah he is not married..I have known him for a long time but we just recently connected..
He just does stuff like this sometimes and makes me wonder if I should just give up..I have some feelings for him so it makes it a little complicated

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