Topic: What do guys want??
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Sat 10/31/09 07:43 PM
I think it realy depends on the guy...I am looking for eventual life long commitment....hope you find what you are looking for good luck:smile: waving

chillywillow's photo
Sat 10/31/09 07:45 PM


sounds like your proud of that ?? hmmm what a great guy you are!!laugh
so were the women they were great:smile:




so now we pretty much know you would be the last person to ask for serious relationship advice?? cuz youve never really had one.

chillywillow's photo
Sat 10/31/09 07:46 PM
its not for me tunner, but ty for the input

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/31/09 07:46 PM



not nice RKindifferent
remember women don't want a nice guy...according to the females on here...just promoting myselfbigsmile

They don't want lil horndogs eitherindifferent
well i'm not lil so your point is,you want me so bad....Ms.Subliminal..jkdrinker

Dragoness's photo
Sat 10/31/09 07:50 PM

ok , i have a friend, honestly, lol , its not me. anyway she dated 2 different guys at 2 different times, first guy she dated 3 times he wanted sex, she said no, so he stopped dating her, 2nd guy she dated 5 times, had sex with him and he stopped dating her. what do guys want? do you want sex after a few dates or do u think the girl is trashy if she sleeps with you that soon? my friend is ready to give up on dating cuz guys never truthfully say what they want from a woman. only serious answers please, my friend is really upset about this.


The guys were going to leave her anyway in these situations so it wasn't her fault.

I would recommend that she set a standard for how long she wants to wait before she has sex with anyone and let them know what she is going to do and when.

Men like women with standards.

tanyaann's photo
Sat 10/31/09 07:50 PM
I have no clue what they want ohwell Guess we'll never know, like how many licks it takes to get to the center of a tootie roll pop!



laugh I crack me up!

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/31/09 07:51 PM



sounds like your proud of that ?? hmmm what a great guy you are!!laugh
so were the women they were great:smile:




so now we pretty much know you would be the last person to ask for serious relationship advice?? cuz youve never really had one.
actually i do but when i tell them i'm not going to marry you they run and only call me to get poundedbigsmile

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Sat 10/31/09 07:53 PM
To me....this entire subject is pretty much a joke.

Mainly because what one dude wants isn't necessarily going to apply to the next guy.

There are a whole lot of guys who are just looking to get laid. There are some who aren't.

There are some who will think a woman is a tramp if she sleeps with them right away...some won't, but still wouldn't take her very seriously.

She has two choices. She can either keep weeding through the losers until she finds the one that is what she wants....

Or she can give up and just sit there being bitter.

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Sat 10/31/09 07:54 PM
Nice thing at my age, sex isn't at the top of the list in my "mediocre serch for a lady". If this women is young or young-ish. Could be a problem. Guys expect some physical "stuff" when there hormones are still hormonig. A nice guy is out there and the good ones will hang around for a long time if she says no to the sex stuff, until she is sure the guy loves her. She can wait!! ---If she truly wants a "good man"smokin

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Sat 10/31/09 07:55 PM


ok , i have a friend, honestly, lol , its not me. anyway she dated 2 different guys at 2 different times, first guy she dated 3 times he wanted sex, she said no, so he stopped dating her, 2nd guy she dated 5 times, had sex with him and he stopped dating her. what do guys want? do you want sex after a few dates or do u think the girl is trashy if she sleeps with you that soon? my friend is ready to give up on dating cuz guys never truthfully say what they want from a woman. only serious answers please, my friend is really upset about this.


The guys were going to leave her anyway in these situations so it wasn't her fault.

I would recommend that she set a standard for how long she wants to wait before she has sex with anyone and let them know what she is going to do and when.

Men like women with standards.


Oh no!!! It couldn't possibly be her fault. After all...she didn't actually CHOOSE to go out with these guys. Someone must have forced her to do it! She was forced, against her will I might add, to talk to these guys and give out her information and allow them to take her out on a date.

OMG the humanity!!!

chillywillow's photo
Sat 10/31/09 07:56 PM




sounds like your proud of that ?? hmmm what a great guy you are!!laugh
so were the women they were great:smile:




so now we pretty much know you would be the last person to ask for serious relationship advice?? cuz youve never really had one.
actually i do but when i tell them i'm not going to marry you they run and only call me to get poundedbigsmile
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hmmm , never knew that women in a relationship got pounded, thought they were made love to? but I guess when you act like an animal , you treat other ppl like animals too.

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Sat 10/31/09 07:58 PM
it does seem to be a thing anymore about sleeping with someone after dating for a while...I am old fashioned and have my own personal feelings, values, and past experiences. I think anymore sex is not the most important thing...Building a very strong frindship and sharing and caring relationship is. After I am very sure that my feelings for that special someone are in check and that I am ready to commit I will ask what she thinks and how she feels and so on....

chillywillow's photo
Sat 10/31/09 08:00 PM

it does seem to be a thing anymore about sleeping with someone after dating for a while...I am old fashioned and have my own personal feelings, values, and past experiences. I think anymore sex is not the most important thing...Building a very strong frindship and sharing and caring relationship is. After I am very sure that my feelings for that special someone are in check and that I am ready to commit I will ask what she thinks and how she feels and so on....



wow , theres actually a couple nice guys on here and a not so nice one.

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/31/09 08:00 PM
hey animals fu(klaugh

chillywillow's photo
Sat 10/31/09 08:04 PM

hey animals fu(klaugh




hey good answer, not. took ya a long time to come up with that one huh?

artman48's photo
Sat 10/31/09 08:08 PM


hey animals fu(klaugh




hey good answer, not. took ya a long time to come up with that one huh?


Remember chilly--Even the "nice guys" in here are looking at your picture and scheming!---Not me!noway bigsmile

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Sat 10/31/09 08:08 PM
what i look for is a woman that represents all of the positive values that i feel a woman should represent as a mother a daughter and a potential wife and on the top of that list should be self respect and dignity and family values and intellegence because i feel that these qualities as well as many others that a woman posesses represent strength

chillywillow's photo
Sat 10/31/09 08:09 PM



hey animals fu(klaugh




hey good answer, not. took ya a long time to come up with that one huh?


Remember chilly--Even the "nice guys" in here are looking at your picture and scheming!---Not me!noway bigsmile



scheming?? for what?

chillywillow's photo
Sat 10/31/09 08:11 PM

what i look for is a woman that represents all of the positive values that i feel a woman should represent as a mother a daughter and a potential wife and on the top of that list should be self respect and dignity and family values and intellegence because i feel that these qualities as well as many others that a woman posesses represent strength


this guy gets the gold star

artman48's photo
Sat 10/31/09 08:12 PM




hey animals fu(klaugh




hey good answer, not. took ya a long time to come up with that one huh?


Remember chilly--Even the "nice guys" in here are looking at your picture and scheming!---Not me!noway bigsmile



scheming?? for what?


Don't know, just sounded good!smokin