yes.

overwhelmingly yes.

well then tell me where there is a man that does that say no thank you or what not we get the same thing in return we email them an they don't have the guts to say no im not interested but yes i will like to talk more lucky there some that do but there some that don't..

did you check your in box??????????

Oh hell no!! What have I gotten myself into? I just joined the site today and this is the group of clowns I'm hanging with?! You have got to be kidding! I'm gonna fit right in!

i answer every e-mail i get i have been on this sight for several years not and never fails to answer an e-mail unless i was deployeed and could not access it.

That's because we multi task!

I don't think, I know it works both ways. This is the net and most that join a dating site are not the type that have an open mind to whats really out there. The only way you find that some people do, is usually by post on the forum. But what your asking about is people that don't post on the forum. Thats like asking or hoping who ever you email actually knows what they really want. The question here is. How many people actually do know wat they want, and if who ever does really know. Why would they be on a dating site looking for it. There is a 99.9% chance that they're not going to find what they're looking for because the net is a fantasy world that a lot of people think it's reality.

Hey ya complaining or what shshsh watch out it could get worse heheheh

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh noooooooooooooo you did not go there and just bust my bubble did ya shshshhs I guess I will never find my prince charming or even the jester I would settle for oh me ohhhhh my

I can confirm this.

Huge difference -- they're all still 897,000 miles away, but there are a LOT more of them now!

Pull up a seat and help yourself to

Hello MOM!

Well, we might in another life time, but not in todays world

i put what i want on my profile...not a lot in my opinion...
lol but who knows, maybe too much for some...

Awww, we could send some to each other if we are the odd ones out

Hello MOM!

Well, we might in another life time, but not in todays world


Hello baby boy see your out and about tonight heheheh hope all is going good

Hey where did Dwayne go hummm maybe he got someone to answer his e-mail hehehehhe

It could be you are not their type!

In reference to them sending a polite "no thank you" -- that is not always an option. I've tried that and more times than not I get a return email with abusive content about what a b*tch I am for not wanting them. In some cases, not replying will avoid the hate mail. When a guy gets butt-hurt or rejected online it's easy for him to become two-faced and an insta-jerk.

I don't care how magnificent a guy is -- if I am not attracted to him then I don't want him.

Both guys and girls deserve the total package; that is -- falling in love with the person that turns you on; a person who you think is the hottest thing since a double cheese burger AND that is "nice", respectful and whatever else is on your "perfect match" list.
Just because you think you are a good catch doesn't mean every girl wants to catch you.

I know exactly what I want but I don't want it from every man I see.

Don't try so hard and it will happen!

Didn't Christina Aguilera cover this topic in her hit song "What a girl wants"?

Don't assume something about all women based on a few women.

I think most women know exactly what they want. Maybe your definition of a nice guy and how to treat a lady doesn't jive with theirs. Your pirate poster photo that says give up the booty sure contridicts that for me.

If you throughly read their profile (and you meet their criteria) and you write a similar letter to your profile I would think it would be good manners to at least respond with "I don't think we are a match. Good Luck in your search." if they are not interested but netiquette doesn't demand it. Nor does telling you why you bombed required. However clearly half the mail I get is from men who ignore what they have read in my profile if they read it at all.

If you talk to many women on line you will find that too often any response creates more un-welcome attention and sometimes abuse. Once you get a few vulgar emails you get where you just don't mess around. Some women don't respond to anyone who they haven't invited to email or IM. Especially now the nudges are offered to establish mutual interest.

I can't speak for others but when I get mail I tend to look at their profile first. I know profiles have to meet certain boundries. If I get a vibe I don't like from the profile I have deleted letters unopened. Especially if I have seen them in forums on this site or elsewhere saying something offensive.

Because of your age I would think most women would have children and they may not be interested in your career lifestyle. Sadley the way the media portrays service members and the hardships they and their families endure hurts them in the dateing process.

Whineing and sweeping generalizations about women are not probably increasing your potential luck.