i have decided that women just do not know what they want. i read all these profile about how they want a nice guy that knows how to treat a lady. someone that they can build a relationship with so on and so on then you send them an e-mail trying to strike something up maybe get to know the and they do not even read their mail. how are they going to find this guy that they are LOOKING for if they do not open their mail?

true....if you don't have the looks and you're not sweet/kind,you're S.O.L



well unless you have a big package....

Most men don't though.

i stuff....

cashiers at wal-mart wonder why i buy the biggest socks that i can find



well they're not to wear....

sounds "hugely" uncomfortable

I know what I want and I usually get what I want

true....if you don't have the looks and you're not sweet/kind,you're S.O.L



well unless you have a big package....

that's right..all we want is 10 inches...

beat us, slap us around, treat us like chit....tell us were stupid, tell us how to dress, fetch your beers..

as long as you can pound us into the mattress with your 10 inches we'll stick around

you know, that's a little closer to the truth than i might want to admit.

ummm...because yall have boobs?

you know, that's a little closer to the truth than i might want to admit.

ok... a fair amount of truth..

Eventually were gonna be looking for a different 10 incher.

ummm...because yall have boobs?

I think most women know exactly what they want. Maybe your definition of a nice guy and how to treat a lady doesn't jive with theirs. Your pirate poster photo that says give up the booty sure contridicts that for me.

If you throughly read their profile (and you meet their criteria) and you write a similar letter to your profile I would think it would be good manners to at least respond with "I don't think we are a match. Good Luck in your search." if they are not interested but netiquette doesn't demand it. Nor does telling you why you bombed required. However clearly half the mail I get is from men who ignore what they have read in my profile if they read it at all.

If you talk to many women on line you will find that too often any response creates more un-welcome attention and sometimes abuse. Once you get a few vulgar emails you get where you just don't mess around. Some women don't respond to anyone who they haven't invited to email or IM. Especially now the nudges are offered to establish mutual interest.

I can't speak for others but when I get mail I tend to look at their profile first. I know profiles have to meet certain boundries. If I get a vibe I don't like from the profile I have deleted letters unopened. Especially if I have seen them in forums on this site or elsewhere saying something offensive.

Because of your age I would think most women would have children and they may not be interested in your career lifestyle. Sadley the way the media portrays service members and the hardships they and their families endure hurts them in the dateing process.

Whineing and sweeping generalizations about women are not probably increasing your potential luck.