Topic: what do I have to do
PacificStar48's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:12 PM

It isnt about "nice",its about having class and style and having the sack to be expressive yet attentive and understanding at the same time.Push overs are just that,easy to get over....the nice guy term means being respectful , yet decisive and caring....not whiny and fearful.


Smileing nod to the Gentleman above. Well said; Thank you very much.

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:13 PM

all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love
just give'em really good cunnilingus to make up for your small roosterohwell

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:15 PM

all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love



Maybe if you get rid of the gloomy "nice guy" robe.

shadowsfromthesky's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:16 PM


all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love



Maybe if you get rid of the gloomy "nice guy" robe.



HAHAHAHAHAHAHA....I just spit water all over my desk.

Thank you so much...I needed a good laugh.

Socratease's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:17 PM


It isnt about "nice",its about having class and style and having the sack to be expressive yet attentive and understanding at the same time.Push overs are just that,easy to get over....the nice guy term means being respectful , yet decisive and caring....not whiny and fearful.


Smileing nod to the Gentleman above. Well said; Thank you very much.


Ty star,i always liked your input as well as your thoughts,your a class act and always have something intuitive yet positive to say.This site does well more with u here

joshyfox's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:17 PM


all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love
just give'em really good cunnilingus to make up for your small roosterohwell


See is sounds like he never even had a chance for them to know about his small rooster... unless you literally mean a Rooster, but comeon even I'm not THAT naive.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:19 PM



all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love



Maybe if you get rid of the gloomy "nice guy" robe.



HAHAHAHAHAHAHA....I just spit water all over my desk.

Thank you so much...I needed a good laugh.


Yeah, also the monk look might be misleading.

no photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:24 PM

all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love


I'll never understand people who get mad when they're rejected.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:34 PM


all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love


I'll never understand people who get mad when they're rejected.


Pretty simple actually.

It's their opportunity to play the ' victim ' role and try to get some attention. Even if the attention is nothing more than pity.

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:38 PM
really people is the OP going to respond probably not he has a small rooster...i guesslaugh

shadowsfromthesky's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:41 PM

really people is the OP going to respond probably not he has a small rooster...i guesslaugh


Must be out tending to him...I'm sure that he doesn't get a lot of help herding his clutch and I'm almost positive it keeps him up late at night with all it's crowing. (Esp when he's watching anime.)

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:42 PM


really people is the OP going to respond probably not he has a small rooster...i guesslaugh


Must be out tending to him...I'm sure that he doesn't get a lot of help herding his clutch and I'm almost positive it keeps him up late at night with all it's crowing. (Esp when he's watching anime.)
rofl rofl rofl

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:45 PM
It is sad somewhere in the developement of young men that some are told that denying their manhood somehow makes them a nice guy. A woman, even a girl, does not want a male that has given up his right to have desires only that HE has control of them. A male that gives that control over to women is seen as weak and useless.

If a man tells me that he is attracted to me, only one part of me, weather it is my body or my mind, I would be insulted. I can not divide myself or deny what I am. If I wanted to be a mindless asexual child then I would never leave the protection and comfort of my home. I am a woman and just because I do not waste that foolishly does not mean that I am not all woman and a he-l of a woman when I choose to be.

It is truely sad that some people allow themselves to be divided and insulted by being treated/used as a person that is not fully a person. The parents of such young people have failed them terribly. I think they are cowards for not giving their children the knowlege to know when and where to enjoy both sides of life.

shadowsfromthesky's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:46 PM

It is sad somewhere in the developement of young men that some are told that denying their manhood somehow makes them a nice guy. A woman, even a girl, does not want a male that has given up his right to have desires only that HE has control of them. A male that gives that control over to women is seen as weak and useless.

If a man tells me that he is attracted to me, only one part of me, weather it is my body or my mind, I would be insulted. I can not divide myself or deny what I am. If I wanted to be a mindless asexual child then I would never leave the protection and comfort of my home. I am a woman and just because I do not waste that foolishly does not mean that I am not all woman and a he-l of a woman when I choose to be.

It is truely sad that some people allow themselves to be divided and insulted by being treated/used as a person that is not fully a person. The parents of such young people have failed them terribly. I think they are cowards for not giving their children the knowlege to know when and where to enjoy both sides of life.


I blame Disney.

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 10/24/09 08:59 PM



It isnt about "nice",its about having class and style and having the sack to be expressive yet attentive and understanding at the same time.Push overs are just that,easy to get over....the nice guy term means being respectful , yet decisive and caring....not whiny and fearful.


Smileing nod to the Gentleman above. Well said; Thank you very much.


Ty star,i always liked your input as well as your thoughts,your a class act and always have something intuitive yet positive to say.This site does well more with u here


Thank you for your kind words. Whatever I have learned it was not always from being wise but failures like anyone else.

I just see sometimes it is important to spare others from denying themselves happiness by making mistakes they don't understand and learning it all the hard way.

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:01 PM



all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love


I'll never understand people who get mad when they're rejected.


Pretty simple actually.

It's their opportunity to play the ' victim ' role and try to get some attention. Even if the attention is nothing more than pity.


Sadly for some Pity is all they have known. They endure it as children because their parents don't see that their children have great gifts even if they come from them, and it spirals down form that.

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:05 PM
Disney? lol I guess I don't get that one. May be the whole virginal Prince Charming thing. Why anyone would want him I don't know. lol

shadowsfromthesky's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:11 PM

Disney? lol I guess I don't get that one. May be the whole virginal Prince Charming thing. Why anyone would want him I don't know. lol


Ok...maybe just disney because they've made the ideas of "being a helpless virginal creature for some man to find in the woods twittering at birds" accessible to children....

But moreover...just the idea that women need to be rescued.

From what?

Maybe Rapunzel could have climbed out of the tower herserlf...hell, maybe she liked it up there.

Maybe Cinderella really loved her job cleaning...Merry Maids is a mulitmillion dollar industry.

Snow White had fantastic roommates!

Sleeping Beauty...hello...she was the luckiest cat napper ever.

I just think it's completely wrong to teach girls they need to be rescued.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:14 PM


Disney? lol I guess I don't get that one. May be the whole virginal Prince Charming thing. Why anyone would want him I don't know. lol


Ok...maybe just disney because they've made the ideas of "being a helpless virginal creature for some man to find in the woods twittering at birds" accessible to children....

But moreover...just the idea that women need to be rescued.

From what?

Maybe Rapunzel could have climbed out of the tower herserlf...hell, maybe she liked it up there.

Maybe Cinderella really loved her job cleaning...Merry Maids is a mulitmillion dollar industry.

Snow White had fantastic roommates!

Sleeping Beauty...hello...she was the luckiest cat napper ever.

I just think it's completely wrong to teach girls they need to be rescued.


Agreed. But I find it just as wrong that they get the idea that they have to be " rescued " by the " Perfect Prince Charming " type of guy.

It's a fairy tale that people seem to take all too seriously.

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:29 PM



I'll never understand people who get mad when they're rejected.


Neither I. I actually get encouraged by being rejected. Don't ask me why, I don't know.
There has been many times (few years ago) in a club that I asked someone if they'd like to dance or have a drink and to have the response that
"Oh,no, sorry, I was just about to leave"

...LOL..and she strolls away and watches me if I'm looking at her if she is leaving. Another good one is
-"I don't want to give a false impression, but I have a boyfriend".

Right...

"Where is he? I'll buy him a drink too!- I ask.

She goes:
- "He is at home.

Okkkk. Next. Walk over to another:
-"Would you like to dance?"

- "Oh no, i just got off the floor, I'm out!"


Alright. I guess I missed the address, I'm either at a lesbian club, or " Couples only! No single women through that door!" LOL..and there I am sipping on my Corona at the bar, chatting with the bartender where she got the tattoo on her boob (yes she is married) and it's almost time to leave.

this kind of a stuff is already behind me.