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all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love I don't know, man. God knows I think of myself as a nice guy, too, but most people who know me would describe me otherwise. Nice guy -- good guy. Such inaccessible terms, fluid ones, they don't hold water. A nice guy is a guy who is nice. Sometimes? All the time? Or at selected times when the ocean currents are favourable? Nobody can be nice at all times, much like nobody can be nasty all the time. Hitler had his warm fuzzy feelings for some Jews (such as Jesus Christ) and Jesus had some hissy days, like He must have been really tizzed out on the day He was crucified. Look at God. Even He is not nice all the time, and He could be if he wanted to. But He is infinitely smart, and He knows like I do, that being nice all the time is not good for you. For instance, it made me gain weight, lose my job, stop being appealing to women and kick cat. And I was nice only 14% of the time!! So forget about being nice. Get angry, call women names, go on the forums and decry all membes of the opposite sex, as if it were a club whose contitutionalized mandate were to annoy you. We're all little specs in the eyes of God and in the eyes of Women. Try to accept that women or, actually, anyone, is not morally or otherwise obliged to love you in any shape or form "love" can take. Once you can do that successfully, your life will improve and your boss will give you a raise. I found that collecting model cars and stuffing dead cats is not only relaxing and gets me some extra bucks, but it does alleviate the love needs I have. |
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I'll never understand people who get mad when they're rejected. Neither I. I actually get encouraged by being rejected. Don't ask me why, I don't know. There has been many times (few years ago) in a club that I asked someone if they'd like to dance or have a drink and to have the response that "Oh,no, sorry, I was just about to leave" ...LOL..and she strolls away and watches me if I'm looking at her if she is leaving. Another good one is -"I don't want to give a false impression, but I have a boyfriend". Right... "Where is he? I'll buy him a drink too!- I ask. She goes: - "He is at home. Okkkk. Next. Walk over to another: -"Would you like to dance?" - "Oh no, i just got off the floor, I'm out!" Alright. I guess I missed the address, I'm either at a lesbian club, or " Couples only! No single women through that door!" LOL..and there I am sipping on my Corona at the bar, chatting with the bartender where she got the tattoo on her boob (yes she is married) and it's almost time to leave. this kind of a stuff is already behind me. I usually go home after a rejection and write a thank-you note to the woman, and offer to drive her cat to the vet to show my appreciation. I only feel like a man when I'm rejected. Beign accepted and loved and wanting to be with, is such a sissy, effeminate thing. I also like to play my accordion on a long and lonely night. If I was never rejected, I'd be forced to throw my accordion away! |
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Disney? lol I guess I don't get that one. May be the whole virginal Prince Charming thing. Why anyone would want him I don't know. lol Ok...maybe just disney because they've made the ideas of "being a helpless virginal creature for some man to find in the woods twittering at birds" accessible to children.... But moreover...just the idea that women need to be rescued. From what? Maybe Rapunzel could have climbed out of the tower herserlf...hell, maybe she liked it up there. Maybe Cinderella really loved her job cleaning...Merry Maids is a mulitmillion dollar industry. Snow White had fantastic roommates! Sleeping Beauty...hello...she was the luckiest cat napper ever. I just think it's completely wrong to teach girls they need to be rescued. Well I tend to agree that women that are smart enough to stay out of any pickle they can get themselves out of don't need rescued but every once in a while having a good man having your back is not a bad thing. It isn't men against women or women agaist men it is working together. Rapunzle, Cinderella, Snow White, and Sleeping Beauty all got sold down the river by their own kind a lesson that kind of gets lost by all the romance but should be noted by a wise story teller. |
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all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love I don't know, man. God knows I think of myself as a nice guy, too, but most people who know me would describe me otherwise. Nice guy -- good guy. Such inaccessible terms, fluid ones, they don't hold water. A nice guy is a guy who is nice. Sometimes? All the time? Or at selected times when the ocean currents are favourable? Nobody can be nice at all times, much like nobody can be nasty all the time. Hitler had his warm fuzzy feelings for some Jews (such as Jesus Christ) and Jesus had some hissy days, like He must have been really tizzed out on the day He was crucified. Look at God. Even He is not nice all the time, and He could be if he wanted to. But He is infinitely smart, and He knows like I do, that being nice all the time is not good for you. For instance, it made me gain weight, lose my job, stop being appealing to women and kick cat. And I was nice only 14% of the time!! So forget about being nice. Get angry, call women names, go on the forums and decry all membes of the opposite sex, as if it were a club whose contitutionalized mandate were to annoy you. We're all little specs in the eyes of God and in the eyes of Women. Try to accept that women or, actually, anyone, is not morally or otherwise obliged to love you in any shape or form "love" can take. Once you can do that successfully, your life will improve and your boss will give you a raise. I found that collecting model cars and stuffing dead cats is not only relaxing and gets me some extra bucks, but it does alleviate the love needs I have. You are who you choose to be. I don't see anyone buying it so I guess you are right not to try to sell it no more. Doesn't mean anyone going to let you call anyone names here. |
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Stories like Snow White were written at a time when women did need men to take care of them. Women at the time did not have very many rights and often needed marriage to simply survive. Survival meaning being able to eat, have shelter and clothing.
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Edited by
papersmile
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Sun 10/25/09 05:33 AM
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all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love hey!!!! i AM dating a jobless dumbass  but i bet he has more guts, more spine, more balls and more integrity than any of you other so-called nice guys. i wonder why ya'll think jobless equates abuse, and working equates good treatment. |
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all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love hey!!!! i AM dating a jobless dumbass but i bet he has more guts, more spine, more balls and more integrity than any of you other so-called nice guys. i wonder why ya'll think jobless equates abuse, and working equates good treatment. Well to be fair, I was thinking he was meaning more like lazy jobless, rather than any other kind of jobless. |
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I AM the jobless dumbazz
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Edited by
Quietman_2009
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Sun 10/25/09 09:17 AM
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all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love hey!!!! i AM dating a jobless dumbass but i bet he has more guts, more spine, more balls and more integrity than any of you other so-called nice guys. i wonder why ya'll think jobless equates abuse, and working equates good treatment. Well to be fair, I was thinking he was meaning more like lazy jobless, rather than any other kind of jobless. and I AM lazy |
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all I ever hear women talk about is how they want a nice guy who will treat them the way a woman should be treated then when you get the choice between the good guy you keep saying you want and a guy who abuses women and has no job they pick the jobless ******* everytime come on ladies what does a nice guy got to do to get some love hey!!!! i AM dating a jobless dumbass but i bet he has more guts, more spine, more balls and more integrity than any of you other so-called nice guys. i wonder why ya'll think jobless equates abuse, and working equates good treatment. Well to be fair, I was thinking he was meaning more like lazy jobless, rather than any other kind of jobless. and I AM lazy Y'ar NOT! |
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Ok I got alot of negative comments when all I was trying to do was express myself so sue me I am new to this whole internet thing ok what I meant by nice was that I an respectfull I have never cheated or hit a woman in my whole life but I'm no ones doormat when it comes to me you get three choices you can like me you can love me or you can go **** youself I dont need anyones approval I am me and I wont change for anyone
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No one owes you a date just because you consider yourself to be nice and respectful. Sorry you took the comments as insulting, people are just expressing their opinions, much as you were expressing yours. If you don't need anyone's approval, that's great, stop asking for it. The next time you're rejected by someone who "should" want you, don't take it personally. That's the mark of a truly decent guy.
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No one owes you a date just because you consider yourself to be nice and respectful. Sorry you took the comments as insulting, people are just expressing their opinions, much as you were expressing yours. If you don't need anyone's approval, that's great, stop asking for it. The next time you're rejected by someone who "should" want you, don't take it personally. That's the mark of a truly decent guy. 
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Lovey, As Earthy commented earlier maybe the outfit you are wearing in your photo is hindering your success in attracting someone. It has sort of a religious/cult/scary appeal to it. Mind you, it almost beats the flexing-in-the-bathroom-mirror pics that some post here but not quite.
We mean well but we've seen the Newbie Whiners come and seen 'em go. 
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you get three choices you can like me you can love me or you can go **** youself I dont need anyones approval I am me and I wont change for anyone it doesn't surprise me that the rigid types who refuse to change for anyone are the ones who are alone and whining about it. life, and love, IS about change. i'm not talking about core values and beliefs, but the doing things that you don't really want to just to make the person you love happy. |
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