Hummmm huhhh and as soon as it does you will run off and find someone else shshshs

sometimes when we touch the honesty's too much

I Am Not An Animal!!!!!!!!!

I agree that unless there's physical contact, it's not cheating. I suppose what bothers most people about so-called "emotional affairs" is the intention behind it. They might feel that if the other person spends enough time getting to know someone else, sharing thoughts and feelings and possibly secrets, that it might be taken to the next level- meeting, and eventually replacing the old person with the new one.

As for why people lie about being married, I don't know, and the liar might not have a good reason either. Maybe they're unhappily married, but too selfish/stupid to get a divorce, maybe they like the danger and intrigue of an affair, who knows why people lie. I think most liars lie simply because they can. It's good you found out before someone really got hurt.

That is a crock.

She was living with the girlfriend because she wanted to live with the girlfriend. Probably staying married because it served any number of purposes. Maybe it is insurance, social security is a big one, or child support, or mooching off in laws, but someone who stays married is doing it for a reason.

If someone wants a divorce they can go pick up the form, fill it out, pay a fileing fee, which can be waivered if they file another form stateing they are indigent, and wait your turn in court.

You don't have to have a lawyer unless you are fighting over property or custody and usually even then possession is 9 10th's of the way there.

If you don't know where said spouse is you might have to pay to have the information put in public notices but that is pretty cheap otherwise you have the other party served; which anyone can do includeing yourself.

<<<<< Not married

OH I forgot, she was about half drunk at 3 in the afternoon too!

This is the internet, you get them in all shapes, sizes, and status.

See I don't know why people get so worked up about getting ripped off by a married guy.

If you don't get the cart before the horse and get all mushy about someone before you get the chance to check them out they really can't hurt you.

Just because someone is saying nice stuff to you it doesn't make them a nice person. Nice people get it that they have to prove they are nice by their actions. That includes documenting who they are. If you don't see where someone lives, works, and at least a few people who know them they are hiding something. Geez it is not rocket science. Live and learn.

I'm married to three different women, all under different names. It isn't that difficult...

I always knew you were good at multi-tasking.

dont understand why people cheat. just tell the truth u want to be with someone else duh that is what i told my ex u dont have to cheat u can have her just leave me alone lol

Exactly.

I think they cheat because they want more than one and dont feel the wife would be open to it.... its not always about them now wanting what they have but them wanting what they have AND THEN SOME

that is true have ur cake and eat it to type of thing lol

I have a point. In the eighties there was a surge of Philipino nannies in Toronto. Everybody who was a somebody had to make a Pilipina.

I met one through an ad. We talked on the phone. "Are you married?" she asked. "No, I am not," I replied. "Are you sure?" She asked "Yes, I am sure. I don't have a wife and I've never had one." She paused. "You're married," she said. Click.

So if you assume that all men are married, then yes, you'll always call the married men out, but you won't be so good at selecting the ones that are truly single.

I guess the only way to tell is do a dna test on scrapings on his skin, and if you find consistent traces of a different human with XY chromosome pairs, then he's married.

But not for sure -- maybe he's just seeing someone until you give in, and he'll see you exclusively from then on.

I got 10 wives and 6 husbands, 43 kids and 10 grandparents.

See, it really isn't difficult to do.

Any woman that believes that hogwash has to be dumber than a rock. If a guy will cheat while he is dateing you because you are not "giveing in" he will cheat any other time he can think up a cheap excuse for the moment. Men have the ability to restrain themselves and choose who and when they are with someone. That I "got to have it" is a sure sign of a guy who is all about himself and always will be

Same goes with the roles reversed. Women who say I just was lonely or it was and accident? Accident he-l. If you don't have someone who isn't your partner in your personal space, your thoughts, you aren't making sweet talk, and responding then "accidents" don't happen.

Cheating is about choices and getting away with such choices. If so many people did not look the other way, or participate at other's expense, it would not happen nearly as much as it does.