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Topic: What is wrong with you "guys"
joshyfox's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:13 PM





doesn't really just posted it cause it could be the reason men cheat...lol ,to be honest men cheat cause they can sounds repetitive but really i think the beaver power can do that,i never have but hey some men rather screw something different,just don't get married and you can screw who you want without prejudice


...because women (wife, g/f) cannot be the reason why men cheat. Gotcha.
yes they are thats why they go after something different


Well someone's Cynical... I wonder if that's why you are "single again".

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:15 PM
ok i'll get detailed men/women will use any excuse to cheat the thing is "its cheaper to keep her" or "i love him" ok so this emotional crap is temporary...its all about sex...they meet someone who tells them what they want to hear,so how does the other person get rewarded,sex. simple enough?

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:17 PM
i mean really i didn't think i had to get detaileddrinker

egoodrich's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:19 PM
its not just us "guys", i've seen plenty of women do it too.

hate when people just happen to "overlook" that factwhoa

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Sat 10/24/09 09:22 PM
Women... the bain of humanity..... laugh tears

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/24/09 09:37 PM






doesn't really just posted it cause it could be the reason men cheat...lol ,to be honest men cheat cause they can sounds repetitive but really i think the beaver power can do that,i never have but hey some men rather screw something different,just don't get married and you can screw who you want without prejudice


...because women (wife, g/f) cannot be the reason why men cheat. Gotcha.
yes they are thats why they go after something different


Well someone's Cynical... I wonder if that's why you are "single again".
single by choice...internet porn and masturbation simultaneouslylaugh drinker

Jules0565's photo
Sun 10/25/09 10:40 AM
It's the emotional stimulation, the fun beginning of a relationship, the "feel good" compliments, the ego stroker..

If both men AND women would continue to keep their relationships like they were when they first met.. cheating would become less, MO. But in some cases, that doesn't work either..as in mine, I was cheated on..and always built him up, complimented and shown him attention. ::sigh::

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Sun 10/25/09 10:46 AM

Cheating need not be physical...... actually it usually starts emotionally....



No, thats total BS.. people cheat,... because they want to cheat.


It has absoloutely nothing to do with the other person, and everything to do with the cheater.


Cheating doesnt just HAPPEN. Its a choice.


Anyone, and everyone can leave a relationship before they have sex, or a relationship with someone else.

If the other person is so bad.. Why are they sticking around?


Because they are users. They want BOTH people.


There is no excuse to cheat.

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Sun 10/25/09 10:47 AM




doesn't really just posted it cause it could be the reason men cheat...lol ,to be honest men cheat cause they can sounds repetitive but really i think the beaver power can do that,i never have but hey some men rather screw something different,just don't get married and you can screw who you want without prejudice


...because women (wife, g/f) cannot be the reason why men cheat. Gotcha.


No. someone else doesnt make a person cheat. Its simple, when you are unhappy,, leave. If you are still coming home,, show respect to the marriage and remain faithful.Cannot have it both ways and point the finger at anyone but self(cheater).

Jules0565's photo
Sun 10/25/09 10:47 AM


Cheating need not be physical...... actually it usually starts emotionally....



No, thats total BS.. people cheat,... because they want to cheat.


It has absoloutely nothing to do with the other person, and everything to do with the cheater.


Cheating doesnt just HAPPEN. Its a choice.


Anyone, and everyone can leave a relationship before they have sex, or a relationship with someone else.

If the other person is so bad.. Why are they sticking around?


Because they are users. They want BOTH people.


There is no excuse to cheat.


Agreed!!

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Sun 10/25/09 10:54 AM


Only talked with one woman who was still married, because they were too broke to file, he had moved out, she said to live with his girlfriend.


That is a crock.

She was living with the girlfriend because she wanted to live with the girlfriend. Probably staying married because it served any number of purposes. Maybe it is insurance, social security is a big one, or child support, or mooching off in laws, but someone who stays married is doing it for a reason.

If someone wants a divorce they can go pick up the form, fill it out, pay a fileing fee, which can be waivered if they file another form stateing they are indigent, and wait your turn in court.

You don't have to have a lawyer unless you are fighting over property or custody and usually even then possession is 9 10th's of the way there.

If you don't know where said spouse is you might have to pay to have the information put in public notices but that is pretty cheap otherwise you have the other party served; which anyone can do includeing yourself.


I dont think it is automatically a crock. Many people remain married legally even after splitting, I know , I Was one of them. I didnt have an ulterior motive, I just didnt have a desire to take the effort or spend the money for a paper to verify what my husband and I already agreed to. In short, I had not MOTIVATION to get a legal divorce because my spouse and I had agreed not to be together which is what counted. I only got the divorce years later when the thought of remarrying came up. There are also people who have worked hard to acquire a home and other things together and they choose to remain in that home together but seperate until one is in the financial position to move on. Divorce is complex but it is more than a legal form saying people arent together. There is alot to consider when splitting up but the most significant part is that both parties agree to it. After that, in my eyes, they are no longer a couple.

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