ha

lol
Seriously. =]

I've met some of the bestest friends eva on hurr.

We like you too. We'll go with you on the date.

hey there.. idk bout that..
That's a big more than I can handle if it goes to the next level.

thats awesome. hope we were helpful, and i wish you the best of luck. and remember, when you meet her, have a conversation already planned out in your head lol dont wanna be left standing there staring at just her "assets" lol

Good point!
Those are nice..
But no staring.

kinky

your quest shouldn't be to "sway" her

try showing her who you truly are. then there will no surprises later when the "new" wears off...

i thought it was about doing both. but its easier for some than others to impress a woman. some would have to rely on just telling her about yourself.

When I said 'sway' I didn't mean act like someone I'm not.
I'm a romantic; so I guess the more appropriate term is:
'Sweep her off her feet'?

I only know how to be me.
Good or bad.
That's me.

I just meant, 'going the extra mile'.
Like, taking flowers, dressing uber nice..

I do the whole open doors, pull out the chair, etc etc..

I just mean is there anything I wouldn't think of..
that woman normally just adore a man to do for them..
..or just the simple small things that seemed to work for me?

some women love that kind of thing.. some don't. Just depends

LOL Thanks! Keep me in mind when you meet someone my age lol.

i believe its good for a guy to act like that around women. i believe most than others do find that a turn-on. hell, i think it might increase my chances when im tryin to get with one. damn shame i hardly ever get the chance to find out.

Aww.
i was gonna hook ya up!
But ur on the opposite side of the country..
3,000 miles is a long way ya know. =[

Keep ur chin up.
You'll find someone. =]

i understood what you meant...what im saying is that all of these things are great and women appreciate them but, if it is not in your nature to perform these acts (I do the whole open doors, pull out the chair, etc etc..)dont start out trying to be "that" guy.

sooner or later (most likely sooner) you will revert back to you and she will be left wondering what happened to change the way you treat her.

Gotcha 'dog'. lmao

My best advice? Take the pressure off yourself a bit. You are not deciding forever right now.

Plan to meet a friend with no expectations. Believe me ... if there is more to be explored it will make itself known.

You've obviously got a great rapport going ... just allow that to flow in real life.

No expectations!!! Then all you share is a wonderful unfolding.

Enjoy the journey!

the "dog" knows.....all thats why they call'em great!

heh, good answer, a bit hippyish, but good.