Topic: Show support for our troops
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Wed 10/14/09 09:35 AM





as a former troop, that's not a show of support folks.


scared but curious to ask, why?


better question is, why is it a show of support? because you feel good is not supportive. talk is not support. especially if the talk goes along these lines. "i support the troops BUT............" fill in your favorite political sound bite.


How do you feel people should show support?


the op and i gave examples of the ACTIONS that we take to support the troops. there are many, many more. look people. if you go to one of these sites and come away with ideas as to how to act in support of the troops then you will find a way to make their lives better. my initial comment was directed at the op's final comment as he began this thread. "sign the pledge". do that and leave it at that and you've supported nobody. it's way too easy to feel good about supporting the troops without acutally lifting a finger to do so.


Instead of responding the way you have, why not just offer other suggestions to people, rather than making it sound like they're doing something wrong if they aren't doing the same actions to support the troops as you have? Isn't volunteering time and money something that a person should choose to do? Rather than doing so because someone tells them they should?

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Wed 10/14/09 09:50 AM



as a former troop, that's not a show of support folks.


Sorry you feel that way but apparently thousands of other Americans feel it is.


precisely my point. thousands of american sign a pledge and go no farther. now their feeling good and never made an effort outside of typing their name.


A pledge doesn't just mean words, sometimes it is monetary, gifts, letters, etc. This pledge is one of many others out there. No your point is not precise, at least be thankful people are out there at least trying. Maybe some cannot donate, but a letter, or signing a pledge is their way of saying thank you.
slaphead slaphead slaphead

Hell it's a lot better than doing nothing, right?

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Wed 10/14/09 09:56 AM




as a former troop, that's not a show of support folks.


Sorry you feel that way but apparently thousands of other Americans feel it is.


precisely my point. thousands of american sign a pledge and go no farther. now their feeling good and never made an effort outside of typing their name.


Wow you sound so bitter, I'd rather have someone who wanted to donate their money or time to do so at their discretion. Those who just want to say thank you can feel free to do so by signing pledge, saying thank you, for those who pray saying a prayer, why is that not considered as support to you?




Exactly!!

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Wed 10/14/09 10:06 AM
Edited by jrbogie on Wed 10/14/09 10:10 AM






as a former troop, that's not a show of support folks.


scared but curious to ask, why?


better question is, why is it a show of support? because you feel good is not supportive. talk is not support. especially if the talk goes along these lines. "i support the troops BUT............" fill in your favorite political sound bite.


How do you feel people should show support?


the op and i gave examples of the ACTIONS that we take to support the troops. there are many, many more. look people. if you go to one of these sites and come away with ideas as to how to act in support of the troops then you will find a way to make their lives better. my initial comment was directed at the op's final comment as he began this thread. "sign the pledge". do that and leave it at that and you've supported nobody. it's way too easy to feel good about supporting the troops without acutally lifting a finger to do so.


Instead of responding the way you have, why not just offer other suggestions to people, rather than making it sound like they're doing something wrong if they aren't doing the same actions to support the troops as you have?


as my first post here did not mention what i do i could not have been telling anybody they were wrong because they aren't doing the same as i do. but look at what my response has generated. the discussion has swung from "sign the pledge" to a discussion that entails others and not just me offering real ideas for providing real support for our troops. this is not my first time to this rodeo. i've been touting "real support" for our troops for decades.

Isn't volunteering time and money something that a person should choose to do? Rather than doing so because someone tells them they should?


indeed. did you sign the pledge? if so why? because you opened this thread and the op TOLD you to "sign the pledge"? i would never tell you what you SHOULD do as the op did. i simply point out what i see that is and is not effective in supporting the troops.


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Wed 10/14/09 10:09 AM







as a former troop, that's not a show of support folks.


scared but curious to ask, why?


better question is, why is it a show of support? because you feel good is not supportive. talk is not support. especially if the talk goes along these lines. "i support the troops BUT............" fill in your favorite political sound bite.


How do you feel people should show support?


the op and i gave examples of the ACTIONS that we take to support the troops. there are many, many more. look people. if you go to one of these sites and come away with ideas as to how to act in support of the troops then you will find a way to make their lives better. my initial comment was directed at the op's final comment as he began this thread. "sign the pledge". do that and leave it at that and you've supported nobody. it's way too easy to feel good about supporting the troops without acutally lifting a finger to do so.


Instead of responding the way you have, why not just offer other suggestions to people, rather than making it sound like they're doing something wrong if they aren't doing the same actions to support the troops as you have?


as my first post here did not mention what i do i could not have been telling anybody they were wrong because they aren't doing the same as i do. but look at what my response has generated. the discussion has swung from "sign the pledge" to a discussion that entails not only is simply signing the pledge a show of support but others and not just me offering real ideas for providing real support for our troops. this is not my first time to this rodeo. i've been touting "real support" for our troops for decades.

Isn't volunteering time and money something that a person should choose to do? Rather than doing so because someone tells them they should?


indeed. did you sign the pledge? if so why? because you opened this thread and the op TOLD you to "sign the pledge"? i would never tell you what you SHOULD do. i simply point out what i see that is and is not effective in supporting the troops.



slaphead slaphead slaphead

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Wed 10/14/09 10:17 AM
WOW
This blows my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I didn't mean to TELL people sign the pledge. I can only tell my kids to do things.noway

I don't understand how a site that some good can come out of viewing could turn into a debatenoway

I in no way am forcing anyone to do anything.

I mearly wanted to get the site out there for those interested in it.

Most of these site don't pay for advertising so the only way info gets out is by word of mouth.

I apologize if I offended you. next time I will post a disclaimer with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

franshade's photo
Wed 10/14/09 10:19 AM

WOW
This blows my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I didn't mean to TELL people sign the pledge. I can only tell my kids to do things.noway

I don't understand how a site that some good can come out of viewing could turn into a debatenoway

I in no way am forcing anyone to do anything.

I mearly wanted to get the site out there for those interested in it.

Most of these site don't pay for advertising so the only way info gets out is by word of mouth.

I apologize if I offended you. next time I will post a disclaimer with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!



this is all your fault TJ - now you've went and done it, Imma hafta get the yellow duct tape and punish you :wink:

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Wed 10/14/09 10:19 AM




as a former troop, that's not a show of support folks.


Sorry you feel that way but apparently thousands of other Americans feel it is.


precisely my point. thousands of american sign a pledge and go no farther. now their feeling good and never made an effort outside of typing their name.


Wow you sound so bitter, I'd rather have someone who wanted to donate their money or time to do so at their discretion. Those who just want to say thank you can feel free to do so by signing pledge, saying thank you, for those who pray saying a prayer, why is that not considered as support to you?




firstly i'm not in the least bitter. because i don't see things as you do neither makes me bitter nor illinformed.


you mention prayer and that's an excellent annalogy. as an agnostic i never pray simply because it accomplishes nothing. but i do volunteer my time at the local va clinic here. in doing that i do accomplish something. why are so many here so up in arms about my opinion that a pledge is not support in and of itself? have i offended the troops? or have i taken away your feel good pill and ask that you make a real effort in time or money?

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Wed 10/14/09 10:22 AM







as a former troop, that's not a show of support folks.


scared but curious to ask, why?


better question is, why is it a show of support? because you feel good is not supportive. talk is not support. especially if the talk goes along these lines. "i support the troops BUT............" fill in your favorite political sound bite.


How do you feel people should show support?


the op and i gave examples of the ACTIONS that we take to support the troops. there are many, many more. look people. if you go to one of these sites and come away with ideas as to how to act in support of the troops then you will find a way to make their lives better. my initial comment was directed at the op's final comment as he began this thread. "sign the pledge". do that and leave it at that and you've supported nobody. it's way too easy to feel good about supporting the troops without acutally lifting a finger to do so.


Instead of responding the way you have, why not just offer other suggestions to people, rather than making it sound like they're doing something wrong if they aren't doing the same actions to support the troops as you have?


as my first post here did not mention what i do i could not have been telling anybody they were wrong because they aren't doing the same as i do. but look at what my response has generated. the discussion has swung from "sign the pledge" to a discussion that entails others and not just me offering real ideas for providing real support for our troops. this is not my first time to this rodeo. i've been touting "real support" for our troops for decades.

Isn't volunteering time and money something that a person should choose to do? Rather than doing so because someone tells them they should?


indeed. did you sign the pledge? if so why? because you opened this thread and the op TOLD you to "sign the pledge"? i would never tell you what you SHOULD do as the op did. i simply point out what i see that is and is not effective in supporting the troops.




No, I have not even looked at the site.

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Wed 10/14/09 10:24 AM

WOW
This blows my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I didn't mean to TELL people sign the pledge. I can only tell my kids to do things.noway


you no more told people to sign the pledge than i told anyone to volunteer. that was the point i was trying to make to the poster. she said that people should not volubteer because they were told to not i. when i tell people that the troops would be helped if they'd volunteer some time i'm no more telling them what they should do than you did.

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Wed 10/14/09 10:24 AM





as a former troop, that's not a show of support folks.


Sorry you feel that way but apparently thousands of other Americans feel it is.


precisely my point. thousands of american sign a pledge and go no farther. now their feeling good and never made an effort outside of typing their name.


Wow you sound so bitter, I'd rather have someone who wanted to donate their money or time to do so at their discretion. Those who just want to say thank you can feel free to do so by signing pledge, saying thank you, for those who pray saying a prayer, why is that not considered as support to you?




firstly i'm not in the least bitter. because i don't see things as you do neither makes me bitter nor illinformed.


you mention prayer and that's an excellent annalogy. as an agnostic i never pray simply because it accomplishes nothing. but i do volunteer my time at the local va clinic here. in doing that i do accomplish something. why are so many here so up in arms about my opinion that a pledge is not support in and of itself? have i offended the troops? or have i taken away your feel good pill and ask that you make a real effort in time or money?

You've managed to take absolutely nothing from me biggrin

Prayer is useful for those that believe in it. You say it accomplishes nothing, those that believe will say otherwise (follow?)

I think what you do is great, you donate your time in your local VA clinic flowerforyou but the way your responses are read are belittleing how another person chooses to support the troops. Coming across as though it's your way or it's wrong (just trying to clarify)




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Wed 10/14/09 10:24 AM
ohwell can't please everyone

jrbogie....my dad died while on duty in the military. he would have thought even good wishes and prayers or good vibes sent was supporting the troops

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Wed 10/14/09 10:25 AM





as a former troop, that's not a show of support folks.


Sorry you feel that way but apparently thousands of other Americans feel it is.


precisely my point. thousands of american sign a pledge and go no farther. now their feeling good and never made an effort outside of typing their name.


Wow you sound so bitter, I'd rather have someone who wanted to donate their money or time to do so at their discretion. Those who just want to say thank you can feel free to do so by signing pledge, saying thank you, for those who pray saying a prayer, why is that not considered as support to you?




firstly i'm not in the least bitter. because i don't see things as you do neither makes me bitter nor illinformed.


you mention prayer and that's an excellent annalogy. as an agnostic i never pray simply because it accomplishes nothing. but i do volunteer my time at the local va clinic here. in doing that i do accomplish something. why are so many here so up in arms about my opinion that a pledge is not support in and of itself? have i offended the troops? or have i taken away your feel good pill and ask that you make a real effort in time or money?


But what if some don't have the time or money.
When I was overseas we recieved letters and got videos of people just thanking us. That means just as much to us as monetary donations and time being voulenteered.

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Wed 10/14/09 10:29 AM


WOW
This blows my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I didn't mean to TELL people sign the pledge. I can only tell my kids to do things.noway

I don't understand how a site that some good can come out of viewing could turn into a debatenoway

I in no way am forcing anyone to do anything.

I mearly wanted to get the site out there for those interested in it.

Most of these site don't pay for advertising so the only way info gets out is by word of mouth.

I apologize if I offended you. next time I will post a disclaimer with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!



this is all your fault TJ - now you've went and done it, Imma hafta get the yellow duct tape and punish you :wink:


rofl

get 'im fran
rofl

TJ, TJ, TJ, what are we to do with you?:laughing:

Anywho, thanks for posting that so that some of us can show our respect to our brave men and women who are in harms way.

Whether it's a pledge of thousands of signatures, money, letters, gifts, it doesn't matter, I know they will appreciate it all. Unlike some.

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 10/14/09 10:31 AM



WOW
This blows my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I didn't mean to TELL people sign the pledge. I can only tell my kids to do things.noway

I don't understand how a site that some good can come out of viewing could turn into a debatenoway

I in no way am forcing anyone to do anything.

I mearly wanted to get the site out there for those interested in it.

Most of these site don't pay for advertising so the only way info gets out is by word of mouth.

I apologize if I offended you. next time I will post a disclaimer with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!



this is all your fault TJ - now you've went and done it, Imma hafta get the yellow duct tape and punish you :wink:


rofl

get 'im fran
rofl

TJ, TJ, TJ, what are we to do with you?:laughing:

Anywho, thanks for posting that so that some of us can show our respect to our brave men and women who are in harms way.

Whether it's a pledge of thousands of signatures, money, letters, gifts, it doesn't matter, I know they will appreciate it all. Unlike some.



damn men laugh

jrbogie's photo
Wed 10/14/09 10:33 AM


But what if some don't have the time or money.
When I was overseas we recieved letters and got videos of people just thanking us. That means just as much to us as monetary donations and time being voulenteered.


great. so you think signing a pledge is on par with letters and videos. i think it's simply an easy out. extremely few people have no time to spare. this pledge allows many to feel good and use their spare time on their snowboard and can pat themselves on the back for having supported the troops over after ski cocktails.

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Wed 10/14/09 10:36 AM
Hmmm I guess the phrase "it's the thought that counts" doesn't mean much.
noway

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 10/14/09 10:38 AM
fine...you guys gimme a gun and I'll help them....warning though, I don't take orders wellbiggrin

jrbogie's photo
Wed 10/14/09 10:39 AM
indeed it does not.

franshade's photo
Wed 10/14/09 10:40 AM

fine...you guys gimme a gun and I'll help them....warning though, I don't take orders wellbiggrin


ya cant stay on topic imagine your aim :laughing: