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Topic: nice guys
Staynalone's photo
Thu 05/31/07 01:41 PM
Ryan you will find yours when the time comes.:smile:
By the way, great videos. I think you will go far with that.
Good luck
Stayn

warhead's photo
Thu 05/31/07 01:43 PM
nice guys do finish last im nice and i can bench my body weight plus
some. you have to be good looking and rich end of story period......so
im screwed your screwed all nice guys are screwed

no photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:21 PM
HEY Staynalone, thanks for the copliment.

SheNerd's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:29 PM
Hi Rivergirl,

Thanks, I'll be waiting for my nice guy... :)

lazyj321's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:37 PM
nice guys..? that is a wide subject..
what are you looking for that is nice..?
every woman has a different view on what they want..?
laugh laugh laugh

<------not a nice guy..grumble

davinci1952's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:41 PM




<---nice guy
that finished
last....huh

littlepeg's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:41 PM
awwwwww lazy why do ya say your not nice:wink:

lazyj321's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:44 PM
just messin around...

i mean what do women really want..

and if and when they get it they don't believe it..

i am out here..
going to go get into the pool..

laters..

mach25's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:45 PM
nice guys??? hmmmmm...........

littlepeg's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:46 PM
enjoy the pool lazy

PetiteKitten's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:46 PM
I like nice guys, with a bad boy side..............One that will treat
you with respect and love, but also can get freaky in the bed
room...........

damnitscloudy's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:56 PM
PK thats all you've talked about lately "freaky in bed!" lol I knew
something was up when I found the sex swing in your closet =P

Anyway, I'm the purest good guy in the world, I don't drink, don't do
drugs, and intelligent. I think I'm "too" good for most women. THey
are like "oh hes just nice" and i'm like 'JUST NICE'!? Hell even mass
murders get more descriptions than me grumble

ShaunG's photo
Thu 05/31/07 06:10 PM
Then you have the select few nice guys. Who really are nice. and they
ain't smart enough to play games;)

daleray1606's photo
Thu 05/31/07 06:28 PM




Then you have the nice guys that are just plain dumped on.. Yeah when
you're guy is treating you bad.. You go find him and pour your heart to
him. The worst is when the Nice guy hides his feelings for you because
he truly wants you to be happy while secretly he is hoping you notice
him.. I have to say the ALL TIME WORST IS... WHEN YOU SAY...I WISH MY
BOYFRIEND WAS JUST LIKE YOU..
Dang if you only knew how much that hurts...
Although sometimes Nice guys want to be only friends I'm not counting
them...

I'm beginning to think that Nice guys finish last and when an Optimist
starts feeling negative something is seriously wrong...

RainbowTrout's photo
Thu 05/31/07 06:41 PM
Nice guys finish last. Unnice guys finish first. Normal guys get
finished. Abnormal guys get refinished.

BonnyMiss's photo
Thu 05/31/07 06:42 PM
Used to have "doormat" tattooed on my forehead.................then I
started buying power tools, strange, most of these guys think I use my
drill in other ways grumble grumble

no photo
Thu 05/31/07 06:43 PM

Rainbow

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


Everyone else...yawn



J/K


:tongue:

thehypnotist's photo
Fri 06/01/07 01:33 AM
A "nice guy" generally can't do anything on his own. He wants your
approval/validation. I've been with women where they made me the center
of their universe. The novelty wears off quick and you move on to
something else; not necessarily "better."

Not everyone you fall for is a "player." It's just how you perceive it.
I'm not a player, but that's the reputation I've gotten from several
women I've dated because I bailed out after finding out they had kids
(they said they didn't).

I don't have a problem with a woman who has a kid. But if she's gonna
lie about something that big... who's to say she's not hiding something
else?

Back to the topic at hand.

If you're attracting the "players" or guys who just generally "play
games" then you need to reframe what's going on and take control from
the start.

Write out what qualities you want in a man. Then write out what you are
not attracted to. Memorize this list and constantly check it off during
your interactions to see if he measures up.

If not, end the meeting politely and move on before it's too late. Many
people just don't know how to say "no" to something they're unsure of.

Recently met someone online who seems to attract guys who are only
looking for a one night stand or a brief fling. She's tired of being
used and is now doing something about it. I wish her the best of luck
in her search for that nice guy who has a backbone.

Believe me, we're few and far between.

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