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Topic: BBW and the men who want them...
earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:51 AM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Mon 08/24/09 01:07 AM


Not trying to show animosity, sorry if that is how it seemed. And i see where you are trying to make a point; however, just because i called myself a bbw doesnt mean i think i look like one of those porn girls that the industry personifies. Those woman disgust even me. But i am a big woman, and i feel that i am beautiful. So if i call myself bbw im not putting myself down for it. And im sure neither were any of the other ladies here.


I know you arent trying to put yourself down

Just trying to tell you...that by calling yourself a BBW...men think that

cuz guess what? most men, the ones as earthyt said, like fatty parts...do not see inner beauty


I dunno, I thnk its prefrnce again Billy, I often am attracted to men who are cuban, sicilian, italian, and brazilian. Those are some of my prefrences, but anyone nice, and attractive to me are fine.

14shadesOfgray's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:52 AM
They can learn...but they won't

And I'm not here to teach..so...I wish them all luck...bc I can predict what will happen to everyone in this room...........but I won'tbigsmile

Pata's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:52 AM
Edited by Pata on Mon 08/24/09 12:52 AM
women that label themselves BBW are plus sized

then you have the pictures to see just how plus sized they are. BBW is a long range of sizes.

and yes.... I come with fatty bits...... hold on tightly....bigsmile pitchfork

14shadesOfgray's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:53 AM



Not trying to show animosity, sorry if that is how it seemed. And i see where you are trying to make a point; however, just because i called myself a bbw doesnt mean i think i look like one of those porn girls that the industry personifies. Those woman disgust even me. But i am a big woman, and i feel that i am beautiful. So if i call myself bbw im not putting myself down for it. And im sure neither were any of the other ladies here.


I know you arent trying to put yourself down

Just trying to tell you...that by calling yourself a BBW...men think that

cuz guess what? most men, the ones as earthyt said, like fatty parts...do not see inner beauty


I dunno, I thnk its prefrnce again Billy, I often ate attracted to men who are cuban, sicilian, italian, and brazilian. Those are some of my prefrences, but anyone nice, and attractive to me are fine.


SO you mean, you like tan guys?

Peachiepoohie's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:54 AM

Okay...

one last thing, unless this gets some replies

You ladies are being silly

A BBW is a woman who is BIG, hence big beautiful woman

And check it. I am lookin thru this thread and I am not seeing any woman who are BIG except for the initial poster.

Why are you all calling yourself BBWs just because you shop at Lane Bryant???? Just bc you have a D cup doesnt make you a BBW, just bc you have a stomach, doesnt make you a BBW

Check it...go on yahoo.com. Search BBW. You will see what a BBW is.

I understand, its just the point. Lets all sit in a thread and talk about whatever. But the POINT of this thread was to tell the op, who is a BBW why men like BBW's. And, this is just silly.

Because....I don't see any reason to watch all you ladies call yourself BIG, when you arent.

You are just ladies, you are human. You are people. You are alive and living.

Trust me....being BBW has nothing to do with a 14 or above.

WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMIN TO???????whoa surprised

flowerforyou this is for all you beautiful LADIES

forget the stereotypes

be who you are


You want to know why we all think like this? Watch television a little while. Watch ALL the comercials for diet drugs because "Fat is unattractove". For the most part we are "programed" to find "excess body weight" ugly. This is pounded into our heads over and over again.

And Lord forbid you grow up fat...being teased and feeling like you're worthless...not running as fast as the other kids...then you get to middle school and the teasing gets even more cruel...and hormones start humming and no one wants to be seen with the "fat girl". Then we move to high school...and, once again, the teasing gets even more cruel. It's funny though- there's a double standard. There isn't a "fat boy"...nope, guys are just "big"...and that's okay.

As a lot of you already know I used to weigh in at 400 lbs. Yes, 400. Now I weigh about 170...but it fluctuates. I'm considered a BBW and I am damn proud. I am smart, funny, compassionate, sexy and a damn fine "catch"...and, in my opinion, if a man can't see past my "excess body weight" then he's just not the guy for me.

By the way..Marilyn Monroe was a size 16. So was Betty Page...and most "pin-up" girls were 16's.

14shadesOfgray's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:56 AM
hold up


do you guys think im not fat?????

munchiebellic's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:57 AM
I like men in general, but the more complex, artist, and complicated the better. Makes for a more interesting life.

Pata's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:58 AM
Edited by Pata on Mon 08/24/09 01:01 AM

hold up


do you guys think im not fat?????


not me.......bigsmile


14shadesOfgray's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:59 AM
Well damn

no wonder

Okay movin onto another thread....I'll take my skinny a8s elsewhere

14shadesOfgray's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:59 AM


hold up


do you guys think im not fat?????


not me.......bigsmile




and that was cute, by the way pata

Pata's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:01 AM
I like all sizes myself..... its the quality of the person that counts FOR ME,,,,,,,,lol

Peachiepoohie's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:02 AM

hold up


do you guys think im not fat?????



I dunno...are you? Doesn't matter to me because I'm more attracted to qualities that aren't "physical". I like men who are smart. I like men that make me laugh...that listen to me and can hold a conversation. I like men that are passionate and thoughtful. I like men who bring me flowers just because they were thinking of me. And that kind of man comes in all kinds of packages.

Pata's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:02 AM



hold up


do you guys think im not fat?????


not me.......bigsmile




and that was cute, by the way pata


you can´t leave yet..... you must tell me my destiny....smokin

munchiebellic's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:05 AM

hold up


do you guys think im not fat?????

Because im on my cell phone talking to all of you, i dont look at pictures. So i go by profiles and what you type. So i wouldnt really know.

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:09 AM




Not trying to show animosity, sorry if that is how it seemed. And i see where you are trying to make a point; however, just because i called myself a bbw doesnt mean i think i look like one of those porn girls that the industry personifies. Those woman disgust even me. But i am a big woman, and i feel that i am beautiful. So if i call myself bbw im not putting myself down for it. And im sure neither were any of the other ladies here.


I know you arent trying to put yourself down

Just trying to tell you...that by calling yourself a BBW...men think that

cuz guess what? most men, the ones as earthyt said, like fatty parts...do not see inner beauty


I dunno, I thnk its prefrnce again Billy, I often ate attracted to men who are cuban, sicilian, italian, and brazilian. Those are some of my prefrences, but anyone nice, and attractive to me are fine.


SO you mean, you like tan guys?


No its features, and cultural difference that i like in them, and accents, and their value systems in those cultures can be different, and i find them very passionate often, and more affectionate, and more masculine.

Pata's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:15 AM





Not trying to show animosity, sorry if that is how it seemed. And i see where you are trying to make a point; however, just because i called myself a bbw doesnt mean i think i look like one of those porn girls that the industry personifies. Those woman disgust even me. But i am a big woman, and i feel that i am beautiful. So if i call myself bbw im not putting myself down for it. And im sure neither were any of the other ladies here.


I know you arent trying to put yourself down

Just trying to tell you...that by calling yourself a BBW...men think that

cuz guess what? most men, the ones as earthyt said, like fatty parts...do not see inner beauty


I dunno, I thnk its prefrnce again Billy, I often ate attracted to men who are cuban, sicilian, italian, and brazilian. Those are some of my prefrences, but anyone nice, and attractive to me are fine.


SO you mean, you like tan guys?


No its features, and cultural difference that i like in them, and accents, and their value systems in those cultures can be different, and i find them very passionate often, and more affectionate, and more masculine.


I totally agree with you. and OMG..... can they dance. They just spicey like that. Not sure about the italian though.....ohwell

nvkikigirl's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:16 AM

I am a BBW and i am just wondering who out there are supporters and lovers of these sexy women? And women stand tall and shout out loud if you would like to be heard.



I'm standing tall, or at least trying to..laugh .I'm only 5'2".drinker

interesting thread, I'm big, i never am sure how to describe it, chubby, plump, etc. ....??? tongue2

Pata's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:18 AM


I am a BBW and i am just wondering who out there are supporters and lovers of these sexy women? And women stand tall and shout out loud if you would like to be heard.



I'm standing tall, or at least trying to..laugh .I'm only 5'2".drinker

interesting thread, I'm big, i never am sure how to describe it, chubby, plump, etc. ....??? tongue2



bootylicsious.......devil

munchiebellic's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:20 AM


I am a BBW and i am just wondering who out there are supporters and lovers of these sexy women? And women stand tall and shout out loud if you would like to be heard.



I'm standing tall, or at least trying to..laugh .I'm only 5'2".drinker

interesting thread, I'm big, i never am sure how to describe it, chubby, plump, etc. ....??? tongue2


Your right we all have different terms for our size. I think though tomorrow i am just going to start a thread that says beautiful women and the men who love them and see where that goes.

Pata's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:21 AM
start it now and get the ball rolling...... lol

then we can start talking about shoes.......love laugh laugh

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