I am a BBW and i am just wondering who out there are supporters and lovers of these sexy women? And women stand tall and shout out loud if you would like to be heard.

while ladies with some curves are not objected too extreme obese women are totally out as there is no excuse for it and I don't buy all these illness lark



Amazon is very much in

There are plenty of men who love BBWs, but it's just a much a fetish as men who only like thin, or heels, or red underwear. It dehumanizes and compartmentalizes females, as ever.

I am a BBW and I'm not too proud of my size but I don't think less of myself for being this way. I get more dates than some and being a single mom on top of everything I get a lot of respect. Lots of men love BBWs becaus they have found that we are better lovers because we don't just lay there, or so I'm told by men who have tried both skinny women and large women and now they prefer the larger women. KUDOS FOR US!!! If you have a problem with large people keep your mouths shut and don't sound ignorant. The world would be a better place if everyone kept their mouths shut and respected everyone. I'm standing proud and I am proud to say I have better blood work than my skinny sister! HAHA

im a bbw
there many that do see the beauty within
and some of them can be jurks

I am a BBW...and I am not getting much because of the fact. Guys may like BBW and I admire that, but the guys I know only like twigs. But with my large strcture there isn't much I can do about it...But it is better than starving myself...as I have done in the past.
I am proud of you for loving who you are

That's the whole point. Love yourself, no matter thin or large, or whatever, because you will NEVER please everyone. Just when you lose the weight, some guy want's a BBW to give you the time of day or you gain weight and the guy looks elsewhere. Like ole Ricky Nelson said, "You can't please everyone, so you've got to please yourself!"

Most of my friends on this site are curvaceous and if they were nearer I would have definitely date them if they wanted to date me.If you don't believe me look at their profiles. and writer girl if you were in our neck of the woods I would have asked you out, because we have a lot in common but you are also much younger so we may have just remained friends

I always have a thing about that last sentence Suz it conjures up all kinds of imagery

I dont kow if i fit in bbw, maybe somewhere inbetween, but i definitely am chunky. Never had a problem with men.

Well, it's a sick world that says a size 4 model is a "BBW". I'm a real live average sized American woman and those freaks can rot. I've been heavier; I've been thinner. I have a woman's body, a body that is made and destined to change. Go with it! Who gives a crap and who is judging? And don't tell me there's any value in a good looking man because one day he'll change in looks, too. I'm sure there's a female version of a fan club for BBMs, but I prefer to know a person as a person. We all get so dizzy trying to conform to unrealistic expectations, and for whom? What does it matter in the long run?

Sometimes I really dig a guy with extra pounds.

Usually I am attracted to bigger men.


My ex wassss... 6ft, and 245, and he was beeeautiul!!! I miss that.


He was WAYY cuddly too!

Maybe I am missing something here but some of the ladies on here that are claiming to be BBW I think are really nice looking. I have seen the term BBW to be anything from say 15 pounds overweight to 200+ pounds overweight.

To me there is a big difference there.

I have also seen people who once called themselves BBW and lost a lot of weight and now their skin seems to hang off them. In reality it should not matter what a person looks like on the outside as that degrades with age in us all. It is what they are in their minds that matters and age only sharpens that unless a person goes through certain illnesses like Alzheimer's or something.

Shoot I could use to lose a few pounds does that make me undesirable or a BBM? I do not get any these days either but it is probably my fault as I do not spend time out there hunting for it. I spend my time working, going to school, and with my daughter. If god wants me to have a Girlfriend then I will not have a choice.

I am starting to think that we do not choose who we fall in love with it just happens.

As far as bbw's being best in bed or not I have to say that both of my most memorable experiences were with ladies that were not BBW's but that does not mean a BBW could not have given me the same experience.

The old saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" applies perfectly here. This world would be pretty boring if we were all "perfect"

*shrugg* its prefrence man, some people like skinnier, some people like bigger. Alot of people find benefits on all of them.

I thought that was a pretty generalized statement she made. I'm sure there are equal opportunity pebble thumpers in any size and with both sexes.

<<<prefers a woman with curves...not angles....lol

Actually, though, my g/fs have run the gamut from really thin to pretty thick.

Beautiful is beautiful. Plain and simple.

<-----butt ugly, skinny arsed and couldn't give a toss what size Beauty comes in.

Thanx so much

pffft, you're not ugly.