please enlighten me.

It's weird


I'm only shy around the man I love!!!

Otherwise....

Shyness is not healthy . I admit though that I am shy .

Double post .

Women are shy for the same reasons that men are shy.

Don't click twice.

I am not clinking twice.
This is the only site where I get double posts .
If it is from me then why not in other sites too ?.
Thanks .

D. post .

Watch out for those shy girls.......

I think it's an inherited trait of the social stands/ expectations for women. Men are expected to be more outgoing since they're supposed to chase the girl (in nature as well) and girls are to be more subdued since it is (or was) the way a "lady" is required to behave. But men are shy as well so the above explanation is faulty. =o)

I'm shy around people I don't know. I think it's an acceptance/ comfort thing and I was an only child who was raised to stay home so I was a socially late bloomer

people are just afraid of what otherswill think of them, or theyre afraid that theyll do/say something wrong, i am shy for those reasons, and the lady before me; wasnt super faulty, just some peopel are shy somepeople arent,

Shy women are da berries.

<------ Way too freakin' shy...

<-----Not shy. I don't know any shy girls either so I can't help ya.

Often times, even if a woman isn't shy by nature she will act like it around a man. Sadly, most men find it a turn off if a woman is assertive (most, not all). And don't say you don't either.. lol If you put a shy demure woman next to an assertive woman, the men will chose the shy one more often than not. (although they may regret it later :D )

Assumption Doldare (hello and welcome by the way)

50/50 more or less that he'd chose the shy one and
50/50 he'd chose the assertive one.

All people are different.

I have found that most women are not shy. They simply want a man to be a man, take charge and run the show. don't ask if she wants to go with her. Instead tell her where you are going and that she should come along. She's still free to say no if she doesn't want to go.

Later in the relationship she'll want more input. But, at first she really wants a man with a plan. And it better not be beer and DVDs on your laptop in your car at the beach.

Try that date idea already, TS? J/K

Not much upstairs or they fail under pressure. Happens to both genders.

Nope. I woman I took out told me about her worst date.