HMMMM seems like the other side of the story may come out.


Something about " & noe the rest of the story"

always interesting both sides.

NO TOM...THIS POST IS JUST RIDICULOUS!!!

SHE DIDN'T PLAY AT ALL...

I HAVE TALKED TO HER SO MANY TIMES AND WE HAVE BECOME VERY GOOD FRIENDS
OVER THE TIME...

SHE WAS SERIOUS ABOUT ALL THIS ALL THE TIME...

SHE ISN'T THE PROBLEM...YOU ARE...

A RELATIONSHIP CAN ONLY WORK IF BOTH PARTIES AGREE TO WORK ON IT!

WHEN DID YOU TRY TO MAKE THIS ****ING RELATIONSHIP WORK?

YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING...YOU JUST SAT THERE AND WAITED...WHAT FOR?

SHE NEEDS SOMEONE WHO IS THERE (IN PERSON)...SOMEONE SHE CAN KISS AND
HUG...

SHE WAS HOPING THAT IT WAS YOU...BUT YOU DIDN'T EVEN TRY TO BE THAT
SOMEONE!

I AM SORRY TOM BUT YOU ARE ACTING JUST LIKE SOME OTHER GUY I USED TO
KNOW!

YOU REALLY NEED TO THINK THIS OVER...

YOU ARE HURT...OK...

BUT YOU NEED TO ASK YOURSELF...'WHY IS THAT?'

THAT'S RIGHT...CUZ YOU DIDN'T TRY HARD ENOUGH...




I LOVE YOU AND I LOVE HER BUT THIS THREAD IS JUST WRONG...

I say bravo to the woman who moved on.....


Why?

glad ewe all asked....

No real gentleman would have ran this post to begin with!

Shame on you UK>

Many do not know you here>>>

but many of us know you from another site....


crying victim , is a crock........

for anyone......who knows , it is harder on the internet to date then
anywhere else...

I agree with you tulip. Thanks.

I agree with you as well tulip. But I am not crying victim. I did not
mention any names. I posted it as a generalisation. My object is to gain
experience, not offend or upset.

Obviously some people see it differently.
Your friends?

As you said in your mail to me we as members of JSH are free to post as
and where they choose. I never ask guys to post in any threads. Freedom
of choice as you say. And also It is never my intention to offend
anyone.

friends?????????



no sage!


people that just know one another.

online relationships are in fact another fallacy.
If the other person is not max 50 miles away from me I don't believe.
I refuse to believe in online relationships.
The max u can get is aanother lonely soul to share ur loneliness, so
it's not as painful as if u were absolutely alone.

Make me go look to see where you are...

I didn't say close friends tulip.
Some, like you, I like better than others.
Some people are grown up & some never will be.
Never ceases to amaze me how people like to play games.
Hope they learn someday, just how foolish they appear.
Till then

"Good loves children & Fools"

another old saying.

I think he had every right posting that! He asked a simple
question...get over it. Now if the female would have posted it, I am
sure that you would have been ok with it??
Geesh

Tom

ahhhhhhh
but what is more childish
acting a fool or pointing out someones faults when they only wish to
voice an opinion?
just my .02

love stinks

I think this subject has been kicked around enough. LET IT GO!

Just a thought and I may be wrong but she might be trying to save you a
lot of heart ache. Atleast with one relationship I had it was that way.
It was a struggle for both of us because neither wanted to let go. For
us we both just had to accept it and eventually it strengthened our
friendship. As time went by we eventually let the contact between each
other slip away.

Although I don't necessarily agree with this post I do however feel that
it good to vent things and get them off your chest
This place is for people to meet people , get advice , and get things
off of your mind.

Opinions are opinions
If Tom felt the need to vent something then he should be able to do so
NO offense to anyone here
That is why it was posted under the "Relationship ADVICE" topic