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After a couple of long phone conversations with a friend, a few things that were said during those conversations made me realize something.
In all the relationships I have been in, I simply settled for what I thought I ' deserved ' at the time. The problem with that is, as I see it, this. Everything I have gone through in my past relationships has done absolutely nothing to help me understand how to actually GET what I feel that I deserve at this point in my life. I know I deserve better than what I have gotten in the past. But I have absolutely no clue how to attain it. Basically, I figured out that being here is doing nothing more than killing time. Maybe I'm the only one that feels like this....but maybe not. Anyone else? |
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what i want right now is a diversion, i found it and i enjoy it.
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Heh. The writing I have been doing is working pretty well as a diversionary tactic.
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Heh. The writing I have been doing is working pretty well as a diversionary tactic. well, yeah, but i meant as far as a person. but yeah, writing works too. |
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Heh. The writing I have been doing is working pretty well as a diversionary tactic. well, yeah, but i meant as far as a person. but yeah, writing works too. You have a person...I have writing. Gotta do what works for us. :-) |
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I am here just for friends and to kill the time that I have nothing else to do.
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Heh. The writing I have been doing is working pretty well as a diversionary tactic. well, yeah, but i meant as far as a person. but yeah, writing works too. You have a person...I have writing. Gotta do what works for us. :-) you need to get some prey and stalk them, it's soooo invigorating. 
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Heh. The writing I have been doing is working pretty well as a diversionary tactic. well, yeah, but i meant as far as a person. but yeah, writing works too. You have a person...I have writing. Gotta do what works for us. :-) you need to get some prey and stalk them, it's soooo invigorating.
Perhaps. But women can get away with stalker like behavior a whole lot easier than guys can. Guys don't usually care because at least SOMEONE is paying attention to them. Women always fall back on the " He's creepy " thing....lmao |
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Heh. The writing I have been doing is working pretty well as a diversionary tactic. well, yeah, but i meant as far as a person. but yeah, writing works too. You have a person...I have writing. Gotta do what works for us. :-) you need to get some prey and stalk them, it's soooo invigorating.
Perhaps. But women can get away with stalker like behavior a whole lot easier than guys can. Guys don't usually care because at least SOMEONE is paying attention to them. Women always fall back on the " He's creepy " thing....lmao Depends on the guy who's doing the stalking. Same with perving, if I got lots of hottness in my perv box I wouldn't mind, but noooooo 
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Meh. At least they are looking. LOL
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Meh. At least they are looking. LOL but its not the right people looking!!! unless they perv me in stealth? that could be it. maybe the lovelies are on my profile right now staring and thinking dirty thoughts...but they're in stealth mode. 
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Meh. At least they are looking. LOL but its not the right people looking!!! unless they perv me in stealth? that could be it. maybe the lovelies are on my profile right now staring and thinking dirty thoughts...but they're in stealth mode.
That very well could be....lol |
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Meh. At least they are looking. LOL but its not the right people looking!!! unless they perv me in stealth? that could be it. maybe the lovelies are on my profile right now staring and thinking dirty thoughts...but they're in stealth mode.
That very well could be....lol now i'm swearing. picture me swearing. yet being immensely tickled at the same time. gawd, i'm such a girl. anyway, since we're  i think most people settle in life, for most things, otherwise you can end up with nothing. which can suck.
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Meh. At least they are looking. LOL but its not the right people looking!!! unless they perv me in stealth? that could be it. maybe the lovelies are on my profile right now staring and thinking dirty thoughts...but they're in stealth mode.
That very well could be....lol now i'm swearing. picture me swearing. yet being immensely tickled at the same time. gawd, i'm such a girl. anyway, since we're i think most people settle in life, for most things, otherwise you can end up with nothing. which can suck.
Very true. It can definitely suck. But the thing is, having dealt with what I have, I pretty much refuse to settle for less than I deserve. I've been there and I know I am worth more than that. But, I am also realistic. I know that no one is perfect. I doubt there is even " perfect for me ". I am just too scattered in what I like and don't like. I think perfect for me is nothing more than someone who can accept the fact that we aren't going to see everything the same way. |
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Edited by
Marie55
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Sat 08/15/09 12:18 AM
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"I think perfect for me is nothing more than someone who can accept the fact that we aren't going to see everything the same way." What is wrong with that??? You don't want a carbon copy of yourself, that would get boring really fast. If you don't have differences, you wouldn't have anything to talk about. I would go nuts really fast without some kind of conversation. Had that, don't want that again. |
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"I think perfect for me is nothing more than someone who can accept the fact that we aren't going to see everything the same way." What is wrong with that??? You don't want a carbon copy of yourself, that would get boring really fast. If you don't have differences, you wouldn't have anything to talk about. I would go nuts really fast without some kind of conversation. Had that, don't want that again.
Nothing at all wrong with that. That was kinda the point. I think that, sometimes, the idea of " perfect for " ( you/me/whoever ) involves things like " SOOOO much in common ", " likes what I like " and things of that nature. Like I said, though, I am just too scattered in what I like and don't like for me to realistically think that there would be someone like that out there. I know there may be some women out there that I have a few things in common with. But probably not everything in common. Honestly, IF I were to find someone who actually likes ALL the same things I like...I would have to run away screaming...lol |
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"I think perfect for me is nothing more than someone who can accept the fact that we aren't going to see everything the same way." What is wrong with that??? You don't want a carbon copy of yourself, that would get boring really fast. If you don't have differences, you wouldn't have anything to talk about. I would go nuts really fast without some kind of conversation. Had that, don't want that again.
Nothing at all wrong with that. That was kinda the point. I think that, sometimes, the idea of " perfect for " ( you/me/whoever ) involves things like " SOOOO much in common ", " likes what I like " and things of that nature. Like I said, though, I am just too scattered in what I like and don't like for me to realistically think that there would be someone like that out there. I know there may be some women out there that I have a few things in common with. But probably not everything in common. Honestly, IF I were to find someone who actually likes ALL the same things I like...I would have to run away screaming...lol LOL, or kiss yourself in the mirror.
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"I think perfect for me is nothing more than someone who can accept the fact that we aren't going to see everything the same way." What is wrong with that??? You don't want a carbon copy of yourself, that would get boring really fast. If you don't have differences, you wouldn't have anything to talk about. I would go nuts really fast without some kind of conversation. Had that, don't want that again. Makes sense to me---and i'm a guy!!! |
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"I think perfect for me is nothing more than someone who can accept the fact that we aren't going to see everything the same way." What is wrong with that??? You don't want a carbon copy of yourself, that would get boring really fast. If you don't have differences, you wouldn't have anything to talk about. I would go nuts really fast without some kind of conversation. Had that, don't want that again.
Nothing at all wrong with that. That was kinda the point. I think that, sometimes, the idea of " perfect for " ( you/me/whoever ) involves things like " SOOOO much in common ", " likes what I like " and things of that nature. Like I said, though, I am just too scattered in what I like and don't like for me to realistically think that there would be someone like that out there. I know there may be some women out there that I have a few things in common with. But probably not everything in common. Honestly, IF I were to find someone who actually likes ALL the same things I like...I would have to run away screaming...lol LOL, or kiss yourself in the mirror.
I couldn't do that. I'm not NEARLY pretty enough for me...lmao |
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"I think perfect for me is nothing more than someone who can accept the fact that we aren't going to see everything the same way." What is wrong with that??? You don't want a carbon copy of yourself, that would get boring really fast. If you don't have differences, you wouldn't have anything to talk about. I would go nuts really fast without some kind of conversation. Had that, don't want that again.
Nothing at all wrong with that. That was kinda the point. I think that, sometimes, the idea of " perfect for " ( you/me/whoever ) involves things like " SOOOO much in common ", " likes what I like " and things of that nature. Like I said, though, I am just too scattered in what I like and don't like for me to realistically think that there would be someone like that out there. I know there may be some women out there that I have a few things in common with. But probably not everything in common. Honestly, IF I were to find someone who actually likes ALL the same things I like...I would have to run away screaming...lol LOL, or kiss yourself in the mirror.
I couldn't do that. I'm not NEARLY pretty enough for me...lmao 
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