Topic: why do guys shy away from bigger girls and why is weight a i
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Fri 08/07/09 01:02 AM

This often comes down to physical attraction. Many men simply aren't attracted to larger women. However there are other men who would date and in some cases generally prefer larger women. Being attracted or not attracted to a certain physical attribute doesn't make someone shallow.


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Fri 08/07/09 01:14 AM

You know you want me Baby!!!!!
I know I get you randy!!

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Fri 08/07/09 01:42 AM


Is this sexy?????
Does it make your mouth water??
BE HONEST NOW!!!

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Fri 08/07/09 01:58 AM
not everyone is going to like the way i look or look or like me period.and i really dont care.as long as im happy with who i am then thats all the matters.if you think your not being asked out because youre a big girl then it ma be your self esteem!ive have boyfriends and im a big girl.but im also im working out to improve how i feel bout my self and taking care of my first before i jump into a relationship.

i wont date guys past a certain age or height does that make me a bad person?.no it just seems i dont find some physical features appealing

ive dated big guys and skinny guys.

plus id rather have meat on my bones then be able to see every bone in my body..thats unhealthy and weird

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Fri 08/07/09 02:05 AM
I don't date anyone, I wonder what kind of person that makes me? Besides super duper wise?:wink:

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Fri 08/07/09 02:09 AM

I don't date anyone, I wonder what kind of person that makes me? Besides super duper wise?:wink:


it makes u the same as me - now whether or not thats a good thing......bigsmile

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Fri 08/07/09 02:12 AM


I don't date anyone, I wonder what kind of person that makes me? Besides super duper wise?:wink:


it makes u the same as me - now whether or not thats a good thing......bigsmile


that's a fantabulous thing! woot!:banana:

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Fri 08/07/09 02:18 AM
i happen to like bigger girls
flowerforyou

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Fri 08/07/09 02:25 AM

i happen to like bigger girls
flowerforyou


well awesome

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Fri 08/07/09 02:29 AM

i happen to like bigger girls
flowerforyou


See! That's why I tell women to move to either MI or WV, they'll be worshiped in those places. But noooooooooofrustrated

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Fri 08/07/09 02:30 AM

I don't date anyone, I wonder what kind of person that makes me? Besides super duper wise?:wink:


Win!

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Fri 08/07/09 02:40 AM


I don't date anyone, I wonder what kind of person that makes me? Besides super duper wise?:wink:


Win!


woot!drinker

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Fri 08/07/09 03:09 AM
Edited by munchiebellic on Fri 08/07/09 03:21 AM

i happen to like bigger girls
flowerforyou

There are a lot of guys like you out there. I applaud you for saying so.
Anyway for my 2 cents. I have been married and engaged to smaller men. My problem i learned is not with my weight, its the fact that whenever i start talking to someone within a few days it seems that the guy is only interested in hooking up. I have confidence. It took me a minute to love my looks and accept me, but i had to remember, my grandparents and my parents were heavy people. Its in my genes. My mom had drastic surgery to lose weight and ended up with half of the weight she lost right back on. We all want love no matter our size, religion, sexual preference, etc. The entertainment industry has made it difficult for us to be accepting of people. But that seems to be changing. However a lot of women in entertainment are starting to say this is me take me or leave me. I am not changing for you. Ladies we need to stand up behind that whether you are big or small. We should just accept who we are. If someone doesnt stop and say hey to you its not always because of your weight. Maybe they are shy or blondes dont do it for them. Or you hold yourself wrong or there is something in your profile that you do or dont have thats is of importance to them. Its not always looks. Sorry if this is choppy or confusing im sleep deprived

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Fri 08/07/09 07:24 AM



Is this sexy?????
Does it make your mouth water??
BE HONEST NOW!!!


There might just BE someone who loves his body. WOW!

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Fri 08/07/09 09:57 AM




Is this sexy?????
Does it make your mouth water??
BE HONEST NOW!!!


There might just BE someone who loves his body. WOW!

Love your choice of words!!
"Might just be":wink:
and someone!! As if saying.. You might have to search the world over, And then will be lucky to find *ONE* who thinks he is a Brad Pitt.

There are both extremes.. those who are way too fat and those who are way to skinny.
I love a gal with some meat on her bones,
Just like I like a steak with meat on the bone,
I would not like it if I went to buy a steak and it had just a gram of meat and 14 ounces of fat.
I, as most.. am sure people are tired of reading "poor fat me.. WA WA WA threads. If a person don't like how they look! Novel idea..They should get off their azz and change it!
There are reasons each of us are seen as hot and each are seen as NOT.
Throughout my entire life, there have been many things I have changed about myself because I didn't like it.
There are people that do it every day.

But then I am also one of the people that thinks calling alcoholism a disease is a load of crap!!
It's a choice!!!

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Fri 08/07/09 10:09 AM
DO NOT GET ME WRONG HERE...
I am not bashing anyone!
Everyone deserves to be loved.

All I am saying is... If anything stops you from being happy.
CHANGE IT AND STOP WINING ABOUT IT.


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Fri 08/07/09 10:11 AM

I don't date anyone, I wonder what kind of person that makes me? Besides super duper wise?:wink:

I'm the same way...thought I was the only one :tongue:

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Fri 08/07/09 10:15 AM

I don't date anyone, I wonder what kind of person that makes me? Besides super duper wise?:wink:


A majority stock holder in duracell battery Company!laugh

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Fri 08/07/09 10:16 AM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Fri 08/07/09 10:17 AM





Is this sexy?????
Does it make your mouth water??
BE HONEST NOW!!!


There might just BE someone who loves his body. WOW!

Love your choice of words!!
"Might just be":wink:
and someone!! As if saying.. You might have to search the world over, And then will be lucky to find *ONE* who thinks he is a Brad Pitt.

There are both extremes.. those who are way too fat and those who are way to skinny.
I love a gal with some meat on her bones,
Just like I like a steak with meat on the bone,
I would not like it if I went to buy a steak and it had just a gram of meat and 14 ounces of fat.
I, as most.. am sure people are tired of reading "poor fat me.. WA WA WA threads. If a person don't like how they look! Novel idea..They should get off their azz and change it!
There are reasons each of us are seen as hot and each are seen as NOT.
Throughout my entire life, there have been many things I have changed about myself because I didn't like it.
There are people that do it every day.

But then I am also one of the people that thinks calling alcoholism a disease is a load of crap!!
It's a choice!!!


Alcaholisim is a prediposition, and chemical in the brain, look it up.

People gravitate to what makes them feel good like a drug or alcahol, because after a while that is the only thing that will make the chemicals in their brain, make them happy.

I personally dont care about brad pitt, i dont think hes handsome, or tom cruise, or many of those some women typically find attractive.

YEAH its a choice, you should scroll back and see what I SAID about this im with you in a way. But i dont think that just cos that guy is fat in the picture means he unattractive.

Yes, figure of speech.. "just might" meaning.. you are unaware, and ill bet you there are women who find him attractive, and think hes nice.


Im not saying everyone should love anyone, im just saying that I think its mean to say that about this guy, he could be really nice, we dont know his circumstances.

About the steak.. overweight men have never tasted like gristle to me. lol. eww.

yeah, im not for the poor me im fat crap either, but jeez.. he loves mcdonals or something.. leave the poor guy alone.

And.. leave Britney alone while your at it too.. laugh just kidding.

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Fri 08/07/09 10:20 AM
The other extreme=


Just sick looking and what a turn off!!!