Topic: why do guys shy away from bigger girls and why is weight a i
FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:37 PM

well it is a discussion is it not and besides i find it interesting


You're correct, it is a discussion, and it is my point of view that there isn't much keeping anyone from finding a date except for mainly confidence factors.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:38 PM





yea see no one is ranting about anything its a dicussion and yea there r other factors and weight can be one of them


Hardly a big factor when you take into account the numbers. 1 to 12 is a pretty steep ratio, I really don't think weight is that big of a factor. It is just the same with any other physical thing really, for the most part anyway, bald, skinny, blind, wheelchair ridden, terminally ill...all of those, and they find dates.

Problem tends to be confidence, if you are confident finding a date is easy. I'm confident and have no problems finding dates, just the minor problem that I don't want dates...and I'm obsessed with serial killers and bugs...


But the bug and serial killer obsessions is what attracted me to you in the first place!!! sad


Exactly my point, my sick and twisted obsession and I still attract lovely ladies. Don't worry (((Peachie))), I won't soon lose that obsession.flowerforyou flowerforyou


Oh Spiked Wonder *pant* don't you know what buttons to push! devil I LUBS YOU!!! :heart:


blushing blushing

smooched :heart: love devil

marshallgurl22's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:39 PM
ok and everyone is aloud to have thier point of veiw i just dont see the point in u talking in this disscusion when u dont agree with it at all

southern_bee's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:39 PM


i think i love you!
laugh flowers pitchfork


You could probably find Most Evil at a video shop like FYE or something of the likes as well, not sure but I would think a store like FYE would have it as well.




yeah but i was hoping i could be a cheap bastard and watch full episodes online lol

southern_bee's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:40 PM

ok and everyone is aloud to have thier point of veiw i just dont see the point in u talking in this disscusion when u dont agree with it at all


well he can post if he wants this being a public forum

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:41 PM

ok and everyone is aloud to have thier point of veiw i just dont see the point in u talking in this disscusion when u dont agree with it at all


Because I'm opinionated, I'm also realistic, and a tad bit on the cynical side...oh, and it is a public forum.

Peachiepoohie's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:42 PM
You know...I'm one of those "bigger girls" and I get hit on all the time. Most guys are blown away because I am so confident...I look at it this way, if I truly believe that I am beautiful then that's what other people will see too. I am an intelligent, caring, compassionate and sexy woman regardless of what size I wear. I walk with my shoulders back and my head up...I am who I am, take it or leave it.

southern_bee's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:45 PM

You know...I'm one of those "bigger girls" and I get hit on all the time. Most guys are blown away because I am so confident...I look at it this way, if I truly believe that I am beautiful then that's what other people will see too. I am an intelligent, caring, compassionate and sexy woman regardless of what size I wear. I walk with my shoulders back and my head up...I am who I am, take it or leave it.


nice tatts did that hurt much?

eileena9's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:48 PM
<<<<------Bigger gal who found the love of my life here on this site.

My ex-husband used to tell me that I would never find anyone once I gained weight and that I should be glad and thankful he was around.

I have to beat the guys off with a stick.....and he has to PAY for someone to sleep with him now.

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Wed 08/05/09 11:49 PM

ok and everyone is aloud to have thier point of veiw i just dont see the point in u talking in this disscusion when u dont agree with it at all


everyone's not going to agree with you, hon. and everyone is welcome to participate in a public forum, whether they agree with you or not. what amuses me is, people keep making posts b!tching about not being accepted for one reason or another, yet we all have our prejudices, preferences, whatever you want to call it. it's called human nature; not everyone is going to be into you. eventually you learn to deal.

marshallgurl22's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:54 PM
thats great im really happy for u

marshallgurl22's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:56 PM
yea like im the same way im not ashamed of who i am and yea i do get hit on by guys its just some big girls are not like u and me and by doing this discussion i thought it would help bigger girls but people r turing it into somthing negative oh yea by the way i love ur tats

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:58 PM

yea like im the same way im not ashamed of who i am and yea i do get hit on by guys its just some big girls are not like u and me and by doing this discussion i thought it would help bigger girls but people r turing it into somthing negative oh yea by the way i love ur tats


I'm not turning this into anything negative, why the hell do people keep confusing what I have to say with always being negative?

Truth hurts?

eileena9's photo
Thu 08/06/09 12:00 AM


yea like im the same way im not ashamed of who i am and yea i do get hit on by guys its just some big girls are not like u and me and by doing this discussion i thought it would help bigger girls but people r turing it into somthing negative oh yea by the way i love ur tats


I'm not turning this into anything negative, why the hell do people keep confusing what I have to say with always being negative?

Truth hurts?


Hun....I think she meant me or peachie....." some big girls are not like u and me "

flowerforyou

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/06/09 12:11 AM



yea like im the same way im not ashamed of who i am and yea i do get hit on by guys its just some big girls are not like u and me and by doing this discussion i thought it would help bigger girls but people r turing it into somthing negative oh yea by the way i love ur tats


I'm not turning this into anything negative, why the hell do people keep confusing what I have to say with always being negative?

Truth hurts?


Hun....I think she meant me or peachie....." some big girls are not like u and me "

flowerforyou


I don't find that negative...am I missing a subliminal message again?

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/06/09 12:15 AM




yea like im the same way im not ashamed of who i am and yea i do get hit on by guys its just some big girls are not like u and me and by doing this discussion i thought it would help bigger girls but people r turing it into somthing negative oh yea by the way i love ur tats


I'm not turning this into anything negative, why the hell do people keep confusing what I have to say with always being negative?

Truth hurts?


Hun....I think she meant me or peachie....." some big girls are not like u and me "

flowerforyou


I don't find that negative...am I missing a subliminal message again?


lord fear she probably isnt used to..well you!your an acquired taste

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Thu 08/06/09 12:16 AM





yea like im the same way im not ashamed of who i am and yea i do get hit on by guys its just some big girls are not like u and me and by doing this discussion i thought it would help bigger girls but people r turing it into somthing negative oh yea by the way i love ur tats


I'm not turning this into anything negative, why the hell do people keep confusing what I have to say with always being negative?

Truth hurts?


Hun....I think she meant me or peachie....." some big girls are not like u and me "

flowerforyou


I don't find that negative...am I missing a subliminal message again?


lord fear she probably isnt used to..well you!your an acquired taste


did someone mention tasting fear?love

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/06/09 12:18 AM






yea like im the same way im not ashamed of who i am and yea i do get hit on by guys its just some big girls are not like u and me and by doing this discussion i thought it would help bigger girls but people r turing it into somthing negative oh yea by the way i love ur tats


I'm not turning this into anything negative, why the hell do people keep confusing what I have to say with always being negative?

Truth hurts?


Hun....I think she meant me or peachie....." some big girls are not like u and me "

flowerforyou


I don't find that negative...am I missing a subliminal message again?


lord fear she probably isnt used to..well you!your an acquired taste


did someone mention tasting fear?love

i did..now its yur turn!love devil pitchfork

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Thu 08/06/09 12:19 AM







yea like im the same way im not ashamed of who i am and yea i do get hit on by guys its just some big girls are not like u and me and by doing this discussion i thought it would help bigger girls but people r turing it into somthing negative oh yea by the way i love ur tats


I'm not turning this into anything negative, why the hell do people keep confusing what I have to say with always being negative?

Truth hurts?


Hun....I think she meant me or peachie....." some big girls are not like u and me "

flowerforyou


I don't find that negative...am I missing a subliminal message again?


lord fear she probably isnt used to..well you!your an acquired taste


did someone mention tasting fear?love

i did..now its yur turn!love devil pitchfork


drool

eileena9's photo
Thu 08/06/09 12:20 AM
I don't think what you are saying is negative, but I have been reading you on here for quite a while now and kinda know you.....

The OP isn't quoting and things on here are getting confusing, all you are saying is that confidence is a major factor in people of any shape or size being able to get dates and I whole-heartedly agree with you.